Cheating in bed.

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Indigo™ wrote:I find that I tend to enjoy giving a partner an instruction ... say ... to remain completely silent during sex ... and then doing my very best to make them disobey. One of my favorite games to play, would be to tie Anna to the bed, and then slowly arouse her, stimulating her in all of her favorite ways, with instructions not to make a sound ... (she knows she has to ask before she cums ... :-D ) Eventually, she has to make a choice as to whether or not to disobey one order, to follow another. No win situation for the poor girl ...

... penalty usually results in a nice form of torment!

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Indigo™ wrote:
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I find that I tend to enjoy giving a partner an instruction ... say ... to remain completely silent during sex ... and then doing my very best to make them disobey. One of my favorite games to play, would be to tie Anna to the bed, and then slowly arouse her, stimulating her in all of her favorite ways, with instructions not to make a sound ... (she knows she has to ask before she cums ... :-D ) Eventually, she has to make a choice as to whether or not to disobey one order, to follow another. No win situation for the poor girl ...

... penalty usually results in a nice form of torment!

:innocent:


You're splitting her poor soul in half :lol:
This has to be mind blowing :shutup2: :whip:
I'm sorry but I can't help feeling your shoulder is just so cold.
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By the way boys and girls:

Try to think about casual stuff as-well... not just kinky play.......... as fun as it is I want to broad this subject to all aspects of sex



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*Leaves to a party... will probably be back frisky and drunk in about 8 hours to the chat*
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Tigerlily wrote:
Indigo™ wrote:
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I find that I tend to enjoy giving a partner an instruction ... say ... to remain completely silent during sex ... and then doing my very best to make them disobey. One of my favorite games to play, would be to tie Anna to the bed, and then slowly arouse her, stimulating her in all of her favorite ways, with instructions not to make a sound ... (she knows she has to ask before she cums ... :-D ) Eventually, she has to make a choice as to whether or not to disobey one order, to follow another. No win situation for the poor girl ...

... penalty usually results in a nice form of torment!

:innocent:


You're splitting her poor soul in half :lol:
This has to be mind blowing :shutup2: :whip:
*drooling*.....better believe it ;)
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Indigo™ wrote:

... penalty usually results in a nice form of torment!

:innocent:
*considers sending Anna sympathy flowers* *giggling*
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shell wrote:
Indigo™ wrote:

... penalty usually results in a nice form of torment!

:innocent:
*considers sending Anna sympathy flowers* *giggling*

oh I don't know, for all i moan and squirm...and beg...I enjoy it :D
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Idea number 3 -

Both partners strip naked. One partner lays on the bed spread eagle...no tying up.
The other begins to rub their "sex" everywhere on the other person, except for the other persons "sex".

The one being rubbed must lay perfectly still. They may moan, beg and want...but they can not have.

When neither can take anymore, they can either finish with penetration or oral sex, or the one partner doing the rubbing can rub off....cumming on the other.

To feel a cock rub on my arms, my legs...my tummy......God that is freaking exciting!
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Indigo™ wrote:Slip a vibrating toy (remote controlled) inside of your partner (works best on females), and take them to a nice semi-public place. Like a nice movie. Then, toy with the device, slowly ramping up their arousal, until they're ready to cum - public embarassment or not! Whisper in their ear, reminding them of what *might* happen if they cum ... getting caught ... embarassing themselves ... having to walk out of the theater with a wet spot, or sticky patch in their underwear or panties ... :lol:

Then, push them over the edge anyways, and watch them try desperately to control themselves!
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shell wrote:
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Idea number 3 -

Both partners strip naked. One partner lays on the bed spread eagle...no tying up.
The other begins to rub their "sex" everywhere on the other person, except for the other persons "sex".

The one being rubbed must lay perfectly still. They may moan, beg and want...but they can not have.

When neither can take anymore, they can either finish with penetration or oral sex, or the one partner doing the rubbing can rub off....cumming on the other.

To feel a cock rub on my arms, my legs...my tummy......God that is freaking exciting!


*Thinks this over a few time*...................................... I think my partner would be driven crazy.............. But it won't work on me :-P



By the way are my spoiler quotes o.k or are the annoying? :shutup:
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Indigo™ wrote:
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Slip a vibrating toy (remote controlled) inside of your partner (works best on females), and take them to a nice semi-public place. Like a nice movie. Then, toy with the device, slowly ramping up their arousal, until they're ready to cum - public embarrassment or not! Whisper in their ear, reminding them of what *might* happen if they cum ... getting caught ... embarrassing themselves ... having to walk out of the theater with a wet spot, or sticky patch in their underwear or panties ... :lol:

Then, push them over the edge anyways, and watch them try desperately to control themselves!


And punish them when they can answer questions about the movie :lol:

Anyways, another good idea I'd like to try!
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AngelAnna837 wrote:
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Indigo™ wrote:Slip a vibrating toy (remote controlled) inside of your partner (works best on females), and take them to a nice semi-public place. Like a nice movie. Then, toy with the device, slowly ramping up their arousal, until they're ready to cum - public embarrassment or not! Whisper in their ear, reminding them of what *might* happen if they cum ... getting caught ... embarrassing themselves ... having to walk out of the theater with a wet spot, or sticky patch in their underwear or panties ... :lol:

Then, push them over the edge anyways, and watch them try desperately to control themselves!
:thumbsup: :bounce:


You adorable thing!........ you just keep loving anything indi suggests........ i wonder how well (Mentally) you will be after your visit to him.......... *Imagines you a mind-numb quivering zombie due to too much arousal* :-D
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jp wrote:
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If you're in a dominant role pause at some point and ask a question such as "what do you think I want you to do next?" It doesn't matter what the answer he gives is... you slap him after the first answer and say "No." Then ask the same question again.

Repeat this 3 or 4 times. After that, if he gives you an answer you do like you can say "Yes" and then do that and carry on.

It's a mind game, trying to get someone to think while they're aroused.



Did you write that before or after your chat with me? :lol:
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Indigo™ wrote:
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Spend an entire day working your partner up. Find something that they find arousing - doesn't have to be massively so. Then, take that desire, and make it completely overwhelming. Say they enjoy panties. When they wake up in the morning, start by slowly stroking his cock, and whispering in his ear ... ask him leading questions, like "Would you like to see me in your favorite panties?" "Would it make you hot to watch me sucking your cock in nothing but a pair of sexy panties?" Things that inflame his lust. Then, don't let him cum ...

Throughout the day, keep him focused on his arousal - and yours. Tease him with glimpses of you in your panties, or if he's working, send him sexy lil text messages. Make sure he knows not to touch himself (Don't tell him you're denying him, just make sure he knows that if he waits, he's in for a great orgasm tonight!).

Make sure you touch him as much as possible. Not always sexually, just run your hands over his shoulders, or kiss him. Make him completely unable to resist, and then slowly turn him up until he's crazy with desire for whatever you want.

When you're finally prepared to enjoy the fruits of your labor, encourage him to touch *you* After all, you've put in this much work, it's time to sit back and enjoy it ... let him touch you, kiss you, lick your pussy, and suckle on your clit, nipples, ass, whatever you'd like. It'll only serve to make him even more aroused. When you're finally ready to make him cum, prolong it as long as possible. Some guys don't like outright frustration, but stringing it out a bit isn't a bad thing ... go slow, lick, suck, touch, and stroke him until he's crying and begging for it ... When you finally make him cum, it should be one of the most earth-shatteringly intense orgasms of his life!

Guys, this is harder to do with women, but it works too! *Every* person likes to feel special, and by making her the number one focus sexually, you're going to build intimacy, and she's going to be more responsive to you. Just find something she enjoys, and then tease her with little bits of it, ramping up her arousal throughout the day. Women have the advantage of maintaining arousal levels better than guys, use that to your benefit!


Nawwww don't use spoiler on the original post this is straight out ugly :-P
The spoiler is only because there's no real need to have a double post


Anyways I'd like to know if you need to change anything in that strategy when you work it on women........... Say Anna for example :innocent:
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Tigerlily wrote:
shell wrote:
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Idea number 3 -

Both partners strip naked. One partner lays on the bed spread eagle...no tying up.
The other begins to rub their "sex" everywhere on the other person, except for the other persons "sex".

The one being rubbed must lay perfectly still. They may moan, beg and want...but they can not have.

When neither can take anymore, they can either finish with penetration or oral sex, or the one partner doing the rubbing can rub off....cumming on the other.

To feel a cock rub on my arms, my legs...my tummy......God that is freaking exciting!


*Thinks this over a few time*...................................... I think my partner would be driven crazy.............. But it won't work on me :-P



By the way are my spoiler quotes o.k or are the annoying? :shutup:
Why won't it work on you?

And your spoilers are just fine *Smile*
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Indigo™ wrote:Hmm ... modified for someone like Anna ... :-D

Okay!

Anna likes kissing (I mean, who doesn't?) ... so, first thing in the morning, before even getting out of bed, (since I usually wake up first) .. I'd snuggle up next to her ... start gently caressing her breasts, and ass, and whispering in her ear until I'm sure she's having nice fantasies. As she gets more aroused in her dream (usually apparent by her moans, and the hardness of her nipples), I start slowly touching just above her pussy, while whispering in her ear about how much I love kissing her, how hot it makes me, and how hot it would be to have her sit on my lap, with her knees on either side of my hips, slowly sliding my cock into her warm, wet, soft pussy while we kiss. Then, before she gets too excited, I slowly, softly wake her up with soft warm kisses.

While we're kissing, I'd gently reach down and start sliding a finger into her pussy, slowly stroking along her g-spot, to ramp up her arousal even more. Then, I'd ask her questions, like "MMM, baby, don't you just love the feeling of a warm, soft pair of lips gently kissing you?" or "Have you ever wondered how hot it would be to only be allowed to cum, while kissing me?" I'd slowly bring her to a few edges, and then let her get on about her morning rituals.

Just out of the shower, I might sneak in, giving her a deep, passionate kiss, while slipping my fingers back to her pussy, or maybe stroking her ass, or tweaking her nipples, and whispering to her about how absolutely horny it makes me to be kissing her ... eventually bringing her to yet another edge ... a nice slow one (she *hates* those ... )

After a while, letting her calm down a bit, I'd snuggle up behind her, and start gently kissing the back of her neck, while sliding my hands up her sides, under her top to softly caress her breasts, and ask her to put her hands behind her back. Then, I'd tie her hands securely, and spend some time kissing her, while not allowing her to touch me at all.

During shows, or out in public, I'd point out a cute girl, and ask her, "Do you think she'd be a good kisser? What do you think it would feel like, if she were to slip up, nice and close to you, gaze into your eyes with that horny-want to slip my hand into your panties-look, bite her lower lip a bit, and press her soft, pink lips to yours?" "Do you think you'd like it if she slipped her tongue gently into your mouth, and slowly rolled it over the tip of your tongue, while she touched you?" Just creating little fantasies to keep her focused on the possibility of sex - the more exciting, the better.

Sooner or later, she's going to ask for an orgasm - that's when I spring my little surprise on her. "You can only have an orgasm while we're kissing." ... and then avoid kissing her ... driving her crazy with desire for exactly that.

Eventually though, its time to give her a treat, so I'd take her back to bed, make slow, passionate love to her, edging her over and over, before finally holding her on the edge until she's absolutely insane with lust - then I'd remind her that she's only allowed to cum with a kiss from me ...

Now, do I give her one?

:whistle:

Oh my.... :blush: :blush: :blush: :blush: :blush: :blush:

Well...i ...umm....

*runs to get a towel*
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