Cheating in bed.

[Tillit]

Besides being extremely sensual and teasing, and playing very hard to get.... I don't have any tricks in bed!

So........ I want all of you boys and girls to describe and teach all the newbies-in-bed all your tricks tips and basicly anything that can help achive maximum joy!

[SexualChoc]

Lily
I use a variety of techniques to please a lady in real Life
You maybe familiar with...
http://www.fhm.com/upgrace/sex-advice/n ... #pagetitle
one of several inventive position from ancient texts.
9look at all of them... there are several, I have tried ALL of the ones with just 2 people)

the key though
as you know is not bedroom prowess as many guys think
but sensual amore
scented candles, by the tub
Incense in the front room.
All of this is a part of what is sometimes called: Sex Magic
In that you are 'casting a romance spell"
there are candles specifically sold for this purpose.

I also use Sensual Massage
here are examples:
http://xhamster.com/movies/506469/sensu ... mrno_.html
http://xhamster.com/movies/506495/sensu ... _mrno.html

As well as good oral licking
http://xhamster.com/movies/472085/how_to_eat_pussy.html

as well as mood and positions
to keep a girl so satisfied
she does not even notice
I have not had even one orgasm yet.

[shell]

Am thinking on this................*smile*

[Tillit]

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Am thinking on this................*smile*

How about you teach us some cheats and exploits? ^^ I'm sooooooooooo looking to learn what you know

[Tillit]

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Lily
I use a variety of techniques to please a lady in real Life
You maybe familiar with...
http://www.fhm.com/upgrace/sex-advice/n ... #pagetitle
one of several inventive position from ancient texts.
9look at all of them... there are several, I have tried ALL of the ones with just 2 people)

the key though
as you know is not bedroom prowess as many guys think
but sensual amore
scented candles, by the tub
Incense in the front room.
All of this is a part of what is sometimes called: Sex Magic
In that you are 'casting a romance spell"
there are candles specifically sold for this purpose.

I also use Sensual Massage
here are examples:
http://xhamster.com/movies/506469/sensu ... mrno_.html
http://xhamster.com/movies/506495/sensu ... _mrno.html

As well as good oral licking
http://xhamster.com/movies/472085/how_to_eat_pussy.html

as well as mood and positions
to keep a girl so satisfied
she does not even notice
I have not had even one orgasm yet.

These are really nice but it's not really what I was asking for......
I know romance can do a lot for a person but
A) Some guys barely care/notice (Maybe massages will add but won't have a big impact)
B) I was looking for more practical stuff like for example; guys thinking about somthing else for more stamina or something like that etc etc.....

[Tillit]

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I think this is an awesome thread idea. In fact, I'm willing to offer some incentive to post in here ...

If this thread gets 100 useful tips, or bits of info, I will author another tease. (Perhaps even a series ... )

Oohhhhhh how nice of you!! thanks for the support I'd LOVE it if we'll get alot of tips!

If we get to 50 I'll host a chat room game

[shell]

Okay.....idea number one.....

Start making love, standing up, fully clothed. Too many times, partners, especially ones that have been together for awhile, strip, get in bed and then do the same thing they always do.

Starting with clothing on, keeps both partners thinking about what is going on....a lot of men forget all the practice they did to be able to unclasp a bra and women, how to unbuckle and unzip pants.

The longer you can make it, with the clothes on.....the hotter the sex will be, when the clothes get off.

Is this what you had in mind Lilly? *smile*

[Tillit]

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Best pieces of advice I can give to *anyone*

Don't be selfish. Make sure your partner is enjoying themselves too!
More foreplay! The more you build arousal before actually engaging in sex, the more enjoyable it's going to be, - for both partners!
Don't be in a hurry - rushing things is one of the worst mistakes you can make. Take your time, enjoy yourselves! Take the time to "feel things out", find out what your partner enjoys most, and go with that!
Be attentive. If you're licking her clit just right, and she's moaning and clutching your hair, DON'T CHANGE! You're doing it right!

Just a few thoughts ...

Yes indeed after all you can't have sex alone... and if one side doesn't enjoy it neither does the other
(Assuming we're all sain and not rapists or necrophiles )

I will add to this; don't be shy and ask.... ask her or him what do they like best or what did they like best when you're done... or even while still doing it!

Thanks again

[Tillit]

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Okay.....idea number one.....

Start making love, standing up, fully clothed. Too many times, partners, especially ones that have been together for awhile, strip, get in bed and then do the same thing they always do.

Starting with clothing on, keeps both partners thinking about what is going on....a lot of men forget all the practice they did to be able to unclasp a bra and women, how to unbuckle and unzip pants.

The longer you can make it, with the clothes on.....the hotter the sex will be, when the clothes get off.

Is this what you had in mind Lilly? *smile*

Hmm this is something I've been doing all along and never put a thought about it!....
It sure does bring arousal all around... even if you know your partner's body head to toe... you'll still be curious about it and that will only intensify the heat!

[AngelAnna837]

Best pieces of advice I can give to *anyone*

Don't be selfish. Make sure your partner is enjoying themselves too!
More foreplay! The more you build arousal before actually engaging in sex, the more enjoyable it's going to be, - for both partners!
Don't be in a hurry - rushing things is one of the worst mistakes you can make. Take your time, enjoy yourselves! Take the time to "feel things out", find out what your partner enjoys most, and go with that!
Be attentive. If you're licking her clit just right, and she's moaning and clutching your hair, DON'T CHANGE! You're doing it right!

Just a few thoughts ...

Me sooo lucky :D

[MistressD]

I will add to this; don't be shy and ask.... ask her or him what do they like best or what did they like best when you're done... or even while still doing it!

Thanks again [/color]

And the opposite is true too - if you like something that is happening, or want something to happen just tell your partner. I like to know that what I'm doing is working, and also want to be aware of the naughty little likes and fantasies that my partners have.

[MistressD]

Best pieces of advice I can give to *anyone*

Don't be selfish. Make sure your partner is enjoying themselves too!
More foreplay! The more you build arousal before actually engaging in sex, the more enjoyable it's going to be, - for both partners!
Don't be in a hurry - rushing things is one of the worst mistakes you can make. Take your time, enjoy yourselves! Take the time to "feel things out", find out what your partner enjoys most, and go with that!
Be attentive. If you're licking her clit just right, and she's moaning and clutching your hair, DON'T CHANGE! You're doing it right!

Just a few thoughts ...

And every so often - be really selfish and do it hard and fast and enjoy every second of it even if there aren't very many seconds involved.

A nice, hard quickie when you aren't used to them can be fantastic.

As Shell mentioned - change things up, don't just have a single routine.

[SexualChoc]

After to talking in chat for a bit
I have the following insights to share

Basically
How does a lady have an orgasm before a guy if she takes a bit...

Talking about thing before hand is perhaps a good way to go,
telling him to NOT be selfish.
Generally all people are.

also being in control of position
as a woman is the best way to orgasm before the guy does
is to as the lady, keep him from fully penetrating,
or "shallow'
despite porn industry
the g-spot to stimulate a lady is usually just inside the vagina
so length really isn't everything, honest
(no I am not a 'small' man)

so having very short fast strokes on the g-spot is
usually a good way to orgasm.
If you can not or do not orgasm like this,
you may actually talk to a gynecologist.

[SexualChoc]

Anouther way is to distract the guy
while having sex
with a little bit, or even a lot of
pain.

a little bit of spanking
or cbt
can help keep a guy from cumming quickly
however there are guys who enjoy pain
and this actually causes them to cum quickly
but you have a balance of to much pain can cause... shrinkage

[Tillit]

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Best pieces of advice I can give to *anyone*

Don't be selfish. Make sure your partner is enjoying themselves too!
More foreplay! The more you build arousal before actually engaging in sex, the more enjoyable it's going to be, - for both partners!
Don't be in a hurry - rushing things is one of the worst mistakes you can make. Take your time, enjoy yourselves! Take the time to "feel things out", find out what your partner enjoys most, and go with that!
Be attentive. If you're licking her clit just right, and she's moaning and clutching your hair, DON'T CHANGE! You're doing it right!

Just a few thoughts ...

And every so often - be really selfish and do it hard and fast and enjoy every second of it even if there aren't very many seconds involved.

A nice, hard quickie when you aren't used to them can be fantastic.

As Shell mentioned - change things up, don't just have a single routine.

And watch your partner go to sleep grumpy while you laugh with a victory dance