Been kicking around this idea for quite a while and I finally have the gear I need to do it, a Venus 2000 and a harness to hold it in place. Harness is still in the mail but should be here in a week or two. I also have a nice (and safe, mind you) self-bondage setup I can lock myself in. The idea is as soon as I start cumming, I set the timer on the keys for a predetermined amount of time with the Venus still pumping away. The only question is for how long and at what speed.
The longest I've kept it turned on post-orgasm was 3 minutes at maybe a "fast" speed (not max), and I've tried several times now. It wasn't too bad especially sensation-wise, like it would be hard to call it torture, but I am still prettty sensitive. If I clear my mind I can handle it pretty easily but eventually I lose the mood and get tired of manually holding it in place, so I turn the setup off. I'll probably be more turned on and sensitive if I'm locked with no way out, but who knows, that's part of the fun.
Obviously I really like the idea of regretting what I've gotten myself into once I'm locked into it. What's reasonable? I'm planning to play some really kinky (probably ballbusting) porn that I wouldn't typically want to keep watching after I cum.
I will go with community consensus and report back.
What's a reasonable amount of time for post-orgasm torture?
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What's a reasonable amount of time for post-orgasm torture?
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Re: What's a reasonable amount of time for post-orgasm torture?
I have a somewhat different suggestion, which would be to somehow have a randomised time, that way you have the additional mind f*ck of not knowing how long it will go on for.
But really interested to hear how it goes (and also what porn you watch for this)
Good luck
But really interested to hear how it goes (and also what porn you watch for this)
Good luck
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Re: What's a reasonable amount of time for post-orgasm torture?
If you endure POT for long enough, you eventually just orgasm again. Soooooo I don't think any time is too long enjoy and let us know how it goes, it sounds so hot ~
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Re: What's a reasonable amount of time for post-orgasm torture?
A randomized timer would indeed be interesting, though I don't think I'd do it on this first go-around until I'm very sure there's enough lube to last as long as I'll be forced to. I would also have to get a different lock setup, right now I'm using a kitchen safe with a key inside (tether to something on the outside). I've had my eye on these Magbound locks and their smart timer for a while now...boundupone wrote: ↑Fri Jul 07, 2023 3:21 pm I have a somewhat different suggestion, which would be to somehow have a randomised time, that way you have the additional mind f*ck of not knowing how long it will go on for.
But really interested to hear how it goes (and also what porn you watch for this)
Good luck
We'll see about that. Right now the votes are split pretty much down the middle...Roblsforbobls wrote: ↑Fri Jul 07, 2023 10:43 pm If you endure POT for long enough, you eventually just orgasm again. Soooooo I don't think any time is too long enjoy and let us know how it goes, it sounds so hot ~
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Re: What's a reasonable amount of time for post-orgasm torture?
Sorry for the delay in following up, but the harness has unfortunately been stuck in customs for almost four weeks now.
Also, it seems the majority of votes are at 5 minutes with 4 strokes per second, each one up and one down. I actually managed to achieve this on my own without any restraints, so now I'm considering making it even worse for myself. It wasn't exactly torturous, more just uncomfortable. Is keeping that speed and doubling the time a dumb idea? Not sure yet...
Also, it seems the majority of votes are at 5 minutes with 4 strokes per second, each one up and one down. I actually managed to achieve this on my own without any restraints, so now I'm considering making it even worse for myself. It wasn't exactly torturous, more just uncomfortable. Is keeping that speed and doubling the time a dumb idea? Not sure yet...
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Re: What's a reasonable amount of time for post-orgasm torture?
I've been practicing self bondage ( also bound by my wife at the controls ) while using the Venus many times.
It is much more tortuous to have the Venus go slow after orgasm, you don't get as much stimulation for very long at fast speeds after you cum.
Going slow will drive you crazy longer. You will get used to the fast speed much sooner.
And yes you will come again if you just keep going.
I'd say try both fast and slow and see how it goes.
Have fun
It is much more tortuous to have the Venus go slow after orgasm, you don't get as much stimulation for very long at fast speeds after you cum.
Going slow will drive you crazy longer. You will get used to the fast speed much sooner.
And yes you will come again if you just keep going.
I'd say try both fast and slow and see how it goes.
Have fun
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Re: What's a reasonable amount of time for post-orgasm torture?
Thanks for the tip. I did manage to go the 5 minutes on my own, I really would just like the self-bondage to be something I can't do without it. It feels a little cheap going away from the poll results at this time though, but I also want the first experience to be something exciting and unknown.ridgeracer wrote: ↑Tue Jul 25, 2023 3:18 pm I've been practicing self bondage ( also bound by my wife at the controls ) while using the Venus many times.
It is much more tortuous to have the Venus go slow after orgasm, you don't get as much stimulation for very long at fast speeds after you cum.
Going slow will drive you crazy longer. You will get used to the fast speed much sooner.
And yes you will come again if you just keep going.
I'd say try both fast and slow and see how it goes.
Have fun
What's slow enough to go crazy? 2x/seconds (each one up and down) for 15 minutes post-orgasm? Or longer/shorter/faster/slower?
Harness made it through customs so it's only a day or two away at this point.
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