How long have you lasted?

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How long have you gone without an orgasm

< 1 day
0
No votes
1 - 3 days
6
4%
3 days - 1 week
34
25%
1 week - 1 month
71
51%
1 - 6 months
26
19%
6 months - 1 year
1
1%
> 1 year
0
No votes
 
Total votes: 138

yamaonda157
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Re: How long have you lasted?

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I have gone over 90 days by choice without a chastity device. The first orgasm after that was great but I don't plan to ever go that long again. Take care all.

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Re: How long have you lasted?

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i have gone for 2 1/2 month last year

have to say was quite embarassing when it came to an end really. only lasted a couple of minutes but it was the best feeling i have ever had
very tempted to try it again though thinking about it now
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Re: How long have you lasted?

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I have gone 1 week - a month. (Three weeks to be exact). The Idea of T/D is very arousing to me but I usually cave in too quickly. The longest I have gone just doing it by myself is probably 4 or 5 days. But that three weeks was with a girlfriend with lots of teasing.

It makes me feel energized. It sucks because all the energy is usually sexual, but if she denies me any touching then I can usually find something to use my energy (running, working out, etc). Its not so much the act of it, but the thought. I like the thought that she is in control of my orgasms and even though I know I wont be getting an orgasm, I still want to follow her every command. The orgasm is also a lot more powerful when done correctly. All that stored up frustration just unleashes in seconds (minutes for women I guess :-D ). Only thing that sucks is Blue balls. Sometimes she is nice and grants me a ruined orgasm
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Re: How long have you lasted?

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14 Days. It was years ago when my Mistress and I got married. We were on our honeymoon (together nine years before marriage so don't think we were virgins or hadn't done anything with each other). Believe it or not the teasing games began the minute we stepped off the plane, throughout our entire stay in the Caribbean. 14 days later on our last day before returning to the East coast to starting our new life together my Mistress allowed me to cum. Pehaps this is why we still have the bond that we have after all our years together.
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Re: How long have you lasted?

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I went just under one year. The wife was pregnant, and couldn't stand to see my "thing". (as she referred to it). It sucked, but I wasn't going to take matters into my own hands. (No pun intended). I'd love to try it again with some teasing going on, but I won't if there isn't any teasing. It was HELL!!! Even the people at her doctor's office were asking why I hadn't just cut my dick off. Basically, if it's going to happen again, I want to have some fun (and suffering) with it-not because she hates me and all of mankind.
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Re: How long have you lasted?

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Lindsey wrote:Does an orgasm feel that much more intense after weeks or months, or is it something else alluring about it?

That being said, i've gone about 4 or 5 days a few times, just out of circumstance...and I was climbing the walls.
When you have been denied long enough you would lost your libido. Edging would be so wonderful experience and you wouldn't miss orgasms. When you want it be a real torture, you in fact have to give them orgasm once in a while to remind them what they are missing. Ruined orgasms are also useful, but you have give the full ones from time to time. It's natural physiological reaction to new mental state (teasing and denial of orgasms) so it would be wanted and normal for you in some time. So don't worry, first few weeks are worst than it would be much more easier :-D

That is one of the reasons why I find shorter periods satisfying when it comes to chastity.
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Re: How long have you lasted?

Post by Incubo »

OK, judging by the poll numbers, I'm obviously a light weight here.
Without teasing, I can go weeks at a time with no problem at all. Never really tried to go longer than that, but I suspect I'd be able to. However, start teasing me and I'll be lucky to go further than 1 day. My brain just turns to crap and I can't think of anything else. I'm a very un-productive member of society then. A raving lunatic desperate to finish what the teasing started.
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