willingtoy wrote:congratulations! Who is the lucky slave who gets to be spanked by You?

Well I am hoping its the same one who I mentioned in the "subs not reporting regularly" section

But if not him, then hopefully someone else soon! I am dying to PLAY!!!

Happy happy joy! -Ren & Stimpy from the 90s

So today I brought my 1st paddle, whee! Sorry folks I don't know how to insert the image in the post itself only, its uploaded as an attachment

-FT

Hi there

I like to add my 2cents so to speak. Antidepressants are vital in combating depression and or anxiety, the reason why is your brain is caught in a cycle in which the stressor/anxiety causes you to produce less monoamines (neurotransmitters) that affects your psycho-social parts of the ...

As I said earlier
feedback is important,
as well as honesty.
Yes you can lie about doing assignments... but what is the point of that?

As to tasks
I have NO 'general assignments other than
using one of my webteases as an assignment (which i do, do though rarely)
Every person is different
Has ...

Here's the update

Late last night I felt bad for not replying so I wrote before going to bed to my foot toy a nice email in which I explained that this is all still so new to me and sometimes I admit I panic a little. What if he is a faker or just getting his jollies? It hard to tell when we haven ...

I was wondering, fellow Doms

What kind of tasks do you give your subs to do via online? What's the best way to teach them obedience? To make them want more and more discipline? To promote loyalty? How do you make sure they really do the assignments?

-FT

I suppose my thoughts on this are, as you are beginning the sub/Dom relationship, it should be discussed as to what you want or expect from your sub. If you want contact every day, then they should be told.
There should be understanding if they can't, with a valid reason to follow.
Each sub and ...

Hi everyone, I am new to this forum and to exploring my side as a Femdom

And I had a question for my fellow Dom/mes, what experiences did you have growing up that led you to the conclusion you were a Dom/me at heart?

For example, I was the kind of little girl that made her friends and their ...

Regular reporting achieves many things
It shows commitment to your Dom/me.
It allows your Dom/me to assess your progress in training.
It gives the subbie the option to comment on how the tasks are received.

It is pointless continually giving tasks that are not liked to the extent they are not ...

Hi
I am new to this forum and to active pursuit of bdsm. I have met a great sub from online and we are very different (such as age, outside interests, etc etc) but kinkwise I feel we are one minded. Lately the frequency and how quickly he replies has wanned some. He has just reasons to be down due ...