These are a bit reductive, and I don't particularly agree with the stereotypical binary masculine/feminine framework, but here are my thoughts:

It's a cliche that many of the of men who seek out professional dominatrices are from high powered professions who want to unwind and let go of their ...

You said you experimented, so how did it go?

Kegels have already been mentioned. That's a big one.

Try to be as relaxed as possible. Try not to think of the upcoming orgasm as enjoyable or overly exciting, just something that's gonna happen. Try lots of deep breathing techniques.

When you ...

Young men (18-25 or so) should do that naturally.

Once you get older it helps if you're fit and healthy, eat well, hydrated, etc. Think sexy thoughts with your partner and it shouldn't be too difficult, unless the expectation of going a second time is too much for you to handle. In which case just ...

I tried my best, hope you found it helpful. How many do you need?

This applies to ruining your own orgasm and controlling your edging but also just in general both men and women should try to strengthen their PC muscles as much as they can. It'll work wonders for all kinds of things, and even make normal orgasms more satisfying.

Stroking until you actually start to shoot is way too far to be called ruined in my opinion. If I do that I orgasm with pretty much full sensations, even though most of the spurts are handsfree.


I kinda agree, but pretty much every partner I've ever had has said that ejaculating without ...

Getting to know your body's reactions is always good. But I'd agree that edging won't help during sex, per se, unless she's in on it and plays it like a game to see how many times you can do it or if she's trying to deny/ruin you. If you just want to last long enough to allow her to cum then edging ...

Wouldn't it depend on the type of stimulation as well? Blue balls from masturbation is one thing, but I'd think it'd be more intense or maybe easier to get if your body thought it was going to cum due to actual penetration but as denied.

Usually when a man ejaculates it's because his cock head was stimulated too much.

If you think you're close, stop touching the tip. It's the most sensitive point, so even minor movements at the edge when you're not under complete control can send you over.

It's still possible, but you probably ...

It only started happening after you moved in with your gf? Maybe your body is expecting a lot of sex or sees a good opportunity for an impregnation and increased production to meet demand, as you said.

Do you guys mean shoot out like the rhythmic contractions of an ejaculation? Or more like just kinda dribble out? I've seen the latter in my partners but never the former. I mean, I've seen pre-cum shoot out a little, but usually not more than a blob or maybe one 'rope.'

I've seen clips of guys who are the 'strong silent type' -- no moaning, grunting, gasps of pleasure, leg movement, hip thrusting, lip biting, toe curling, raising their body off the bed, or pained facial expressions (kinda boring). For that type of man it seems like it'd be very difficult if not ...

Why don't you take a seat over here?

In all seriousness, being attracted to a developed teenage girl doesn't make you a creep. It's pretty normal. Puberty and sexual maturity are ways of advertising the fact that you're able to have children so your brain takes notice regardless of social ...

I recognize your sarcasm but your point eludes me.

Subsequently I can admit to having had to ruin more than one orgasm by either pulling out or having my gf and I stop any movement with myself in her, so that when I got over the edge, I suffered the agony of feeling my orgasm and that feeling of release slip through my fingers. I can say that a ...