A Summer of Abstinence

[Banquo]

Inspired by this thread I decided to devise a little game for anyone of any gender to play that would allow them to tease themselves all summer long.

How Long is a Summer?

Summer does of course have a few definitions... For the purposes of this tease though you can choose your own definition from these sets.

1. British Summer Time ending on October 28th (hah!)
2. The Autumnal Equinox 22nd of September
3. Whenever you go back to college after a summer break

If you do not want a long denial, and you still want to play you can use this Random number generator to set a maximum number of random days you are willing to be denied for.

Once you have chosen your date, post in this thread a vow of abstinence, decreeing that you will not cum until the date chosen.

The Rules

Seeing this is a summer game I think there should be some summery rules *chuckles*

1. Apart from for tasks you may only touch when the sun is shining, if you are horny and there is an overcast sky or a thunderstorm etc. you are not to have any sexual pleasure.

2. Every morning come rain or shine, as soon as you wake you must get to the edge just once.

3. When it is sunny you can touch and edge as many times as you like.

4. Before bed each night you will watch some of your favourite porn, or read some of your favourite erotica. But remember no touching when the sun has gone down...

5. Each day you will do one of the following tasks, come rain or shine.

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• Do One Tease from the Milo Database
• Roll a 6 sided dice and do that number of edges, with an hour break between each one.
• Play with your favourite toy for one hour, no breaks, no edges, NO coming!
• Take an Ice cube and melt it on your genitals (guys head of the penis, Girls on and around the Clit)

You may not do the same task on consecutive days, and you must do every task at least once a week for the duration of your denial.

6. A daily report of your activities is to be made on this thread. (of course if not possible delayed reports are fine)

7. And most likely this is the most important rule.....

Stay Safe & Have fun!

Banquo

[Banquo]

Nice idea, albeit extremely challenging (at least, it would be for me).

Just some suggestion regarding point 5 and 6 - they seem to imply that one has easy internet-access for the whole period, which may be difficult in practice for some (you know, people doing touristic travelling trips to Abroadistan and so on). Maybe you could have some clause that people are allowed to keep some 'diary' off-line for some period and then post that once they have normal internet access again?

Small point: with dice (die?) in 5. you mean a six-sided one, I assume? (not some kind of dungeons-and-dragons 20-sided one???)

And, as to rule 4., " But remember no touching when the sun has gone down...",
I can personally only comment: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA - Excellent rule!!!
(just never apply it to a Winter game)

Thank you for your suggestion buckle.

hehe Yes a 6 sided one

[Snoopy76]

Nice idea Ban, but think for anyone in the UK its a bit tough! Only touch & edge when the sun is shining would make this a very rare occurrence!



Snoopy xx

[Banquo]

Nice idea Ban, but think for anyone in the UK its a bit tough! Only touch & edge when the sun is shining would make this a very rare occurrence!



Snoopy xx

*chuckles* yes could be a difficult task on a typical British summer

Banquo

[SexualChoc]

I think adding some "normal"
stuff a good idea like make sure to stay hydrated,
enjoy nice days as much as possible,

don't get stuck in the house watching porn all day on a nice sunny day!


getting out of the house is important


I noticed you have one maditory edge a day plus a mandotory tease
regadless of weather.

I am NOT sure about spacing out 6 edges (if I rolled a six) one an hour..
what if I had plans that day?

I think just so long as the edges were done.

Even with 24oC wether I am out biking.

staying healthy is vital too


or even
it's not just exercising relaxing just as importnat.

Now all that said I think If you want to do a long term summer denial period there some good suggestions
in the post above /\ (the ones above mine)

[Banquo]

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I think adding some "normal"
stuff a good idea like make sure to stay hydrated,
enjoy nice days as much as possible,

don't get stuck in the house watching porn all day on a nice sunny day!


getting out of the house is important


I noticed you have one maditory edge a day plus a mandotory tease
regadless of weather.

I am NOT sure about spacing out 6 edges (if I rolled a six) one an hour..
what if I had plans that day?

I think just so long as the edges were done.

Even with 24oC wether I am out biking.

staying healthy is vital too


or even
it's not just exercising relaxing just as importnat.

Now all that said I think If you want to do a long term summer denial period there some good suggestions
in the post above /\ (the ones above mine)

I think it goes without saying that ordinary day to day activities come before doing any tasks that may arise from a tease or a forum game.
We are all adults here, and I do not see it as my place to tell people how to live their lives or that they need to stay healthy, I think the users of Milo can be given more credit than for me to baby them by telling them things that most adults are capable of taking care of themselves.
We could take your line of thinking to it's logical conclusion and explain to people that they need to remember to breathe. But then I fear that most pages of Milo would be taken up with health warnings and instructions on how not to die.

Banquo

[DoxysTurtle]

Wait... I'm not supposed to die? *goes off to a corner to rethink everything*

[shell]

Well...lookie what I found. *giggle* I hadn't noticed, until just a minute ago, that games had it's on forum now. *lol*

This looks amazing, B! You did a great job!!

And Turtle....*laughing so hard.....*

[LittleElfBoy]

I join this. Will post every day. I will start my abstinence on the 21st and I will go until September 22st, so exactly 93 days if I calculated right.

[frakker2]

This looks tempting, but hard.

I have problems with couple of those tasks (no ice cubes, and no sex toys).

Another thing, I was looking forward to some actual sex this summer, so I was thinking, would it be ok if I had sex without comming (using those controll condoms with numbing chemicals that prevent orgasm in guys during sex)?

[Sett]

Well, for me the summer is from now (it's FINALLY getting warm enough to hang around/in the pool) until the end of summer holiday, which is Sunday the 2nd of September. If the next day weather is extremely favorable, i'll have three dice decide how much longer in days will my "summer" last, with the latest possible point being 14:49 GMT, SEP 22nd (i like the equinox idea, though it's usually already too cold here for this)

I'm afraid however, that i'll modify the rules quite a bit for myself.

No cumming at all is VERY unlikely (see THIS), but i'm tempted to try and at least not have full one.

I'll change the summer rule to "only touch it when sun is shining ON IT". So no bathroom at work, no masturbation in front of the computer (unless it's laptop). It's totally doable in Europe. Besides, i'm not THAT much of an exhibitionist, i have a fairly secluded balcony to resort to and one can always sit/lay down next to a window if the sun is in the right position. Anyways, just a twist to make it that bit more interesting. And it could actually help me last longer. And the warmth feels good too. You get the picture

Morning edge, while it's ever so popular, is also the single most dangerous thing to do when it comes to accidents, so i'll change that to ten minutes of slow teasing, perhaps only lower half of the shaft, or using left hand. Ideas?

I also most likely won't report every day. Just being realistic here...

One more thing: If my GF says i cum, i cum, no way around that.

[Banquo]

Wait... I'm not supposed to die? *goes off to a corner to rethink everything*

I would really rather you didn't *smiles*

Well...lookie what I found. *giggle* I hadn't noticed, until just a minute ago, that games had it's on forum now. *lol*

This looks amazing, B! You did a great job!!

And Turtle....*laughing so hard.....*

*blushes* Thank you Mistress x

I join this. Will post every day. I will start my abstinence on the 21st and I will go until September 22st, so exactly 93 days if I calculated right.

Excellent *wicked smile* I hope you have a fun time, and I look forward to reading your posts *grin*

This looks tempting, but hard.

I have problems with couple of those tasks (no ice cubes, and no sex toys).

Another thing, I was looking forward to some actual sex this summer, so I was thinking, would it be ok if I had sex without comming (using those controll condoms with numbing chemicals that prevent orgasm in guys during sex)?

Nice to hear you are tempted by this little challenge of mine. Now as for your limits with Ice Cubes that is fine, feel free to adjust the tasks to cater to your limits. The no sex toys thing *wicked grin* you can always improvise... there are many websites out there that tell you how to make toys out of household items etc.

Here is one
And here is another

Sex? *Look of utter shock......before giggling* You want Sex when denied? *chuckles* you must be some special kind of crazy *grin* I like that. Yes it is fine to have sex, and it is fine to enjoy it too. If you have intercourse you are allowed to come. But if you are determined to stay denied then the guy to talk about sex without coming is Doxy's Turtle.

Well, for me the summer is from now (it's FINALLY getting warm enough to hang around/in the pool) until the end of summer holiday, which is Sunday the 2nd of September. If the next day weather is extremely favorable, i'll have three dice decide how much longer in days will my "summer" last, with the latest possible point being 14:49 GMT, SEP 22nd (i like the equinox idea, though it's usually already too cold here for this)

I'm afraid however, that i'll modify the rules quite a bit for myself.

No cumming at all is VERY unlikely (see THIS), but i'm tempted to try and at least not have full one.

I'll change the summer rule to "only touch it when sun is shining ON IT". So no bathroom at work, no masturbation in front of the computer (unless it's laptop). It's totally doable in Europe. Besides, i'm not THAT much of an exhibitionist, i have a fairly secluded balcony to resort to and one can always sit/lay down next to a window if the sun is in the right position. Anyways, just a twist to make it that bit more interesting. And it could actually help me last longer. And the warmth feels good too. You get the picture

Morning edge, while it's ever so popular, is also the single most dangerous thing to do when it comes to accidents, so i'll change that to ten minutes of slow teasing, perhaps only lower half of the shaft, or using left hand. Ideas?

I also most likely won't report every day. Just being realistic here...

One more thing: If my GF says i cum, i cum, no way around that.

This is fine, everyone has their own individual limits and kinks. However, I think it would be fun for you to try and go without the ruins...for now. As for the morning edge, I would rather you did that. The risk of accidents is the whole point *chuckles* You will find a way to control that edge. *smiles* you can do it. However if you are really struggling, and keep having to ruin when doing an edge, then by all means modify it to this:

In the morning you will do ten minutes of palming, that's right lube up your cock and gently palm the head in slow lingering circle.

Reporting is something that can be done as and when you can, just be sure to give reports for the days you miss when you do manage to get the time to make them.

As for your girlfriend making you come....see above. If it is for her pleasure that is fine, but you are not allowed to come through masturbation. I hope this eases your worries about the task. If not feel free to PM me to discuss it further.

And remember everyone..

Have fun & Stay Safe

Banquo

[Sett]

This is fine, everyone has their own individual limits and kinks. However, I think it would be fun for you to try and go without the ruins...for now. As for the morning edge, I would rather you did that. The risk of accidents is the whole point *chuckles* You will find a way to control that edge. *smiles* you can do it. However if you are really struggling, and keep having to ruin when doing an edge, then by all means modify it to this:

In the morning you will do ten minutes of palming, that's right lube up your cock and gently palm the head in slow lingering circle.

Well it's not like i slip off the edge and ruin it on purpose The purpose, for me, is to be as horny and responsive as possible, and summer is good time for that. Orgasm, ruined or otherwise would obviously set me back quite a bit. So i'll go with the palming for now. Palming is EVIL though, so i may change my mind real soon

About the reporting: It's bound to be quite a lot of text from a lot of different people. Should i just ignore it and post as it comes? Should i make one post about it and just add to it? Or should people make their respective threads even?

Or PM? I'd like to keep it public (sort of), to have some motivation and to entertain fellow denied folks. Then again having personal supervision might be much better motivation than any crowd...

[Banquo]

About the reporting: It's bound to be quite a lot of text from a lot of different people. Should i just ignore it and post as it comes? Should i make one post about it and just add to it? Or should people make their respective threads even?

Or PM? I'd like to keep it public (sort of), to have some motivation and to entertain fellow denied folks. Then again having personal supervision might be much better motivation than any crowd...

For reporting, just make posts in this thread, no need to make a new thread. And you can make an individual post for each report, editing wont show up so well. As for PMs feel free to PM if a personal issue arises that you don't want discussed on the forums, otherwise, reporting should be public and on this thread.

And yes Palming is eeeeevil mwhahaha but you have chosen it now *chuckles*

Banquo

[Sett]

Alright, so for me, in this order of authority:

1. No full orgasm until the end of summer holidays, maybe longer, GF excluded.
2. Every morning it's either a careful edge or 10 minutes of palming, no further stimulation
3. one of these every day:

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A tease from Milovana.com, getdare.com or similar site (will provide links). If it's tease that's split into more days, only one part is done each day and they must be done consecutively.
Roll a 6 sided die and do that number of edges, with an hour break between each one.
Play with your favorite toy for one hour, no breaks, no edges, NO coming!
Take an Ice cube and melt it on your genitals (guys head of the penis, Girls on and around the Clit)

I'll do each at least once (though i'll probably save the last one for a VERY hot day...
4. I can do anything i want as long as it's in direct sunlight. No sunlight, no fun. Except for instructions from teases. Conversely if i'm denied by a tease in progress, i'm denied, obviously.
5. Every day, i'll have some hands off erotica. Be it video, story or just reading through teases.
6. I will report on regular basis. If i'm more than a week behind, it's no touch for me until the situation is rectified.

Wish me luck