Chastity contract draft

[Sub-Routine]

What I've been up to:

As you may know, on February I left my kinks at the door to pursue a romantic relationship with what I believed to be a clear head and purest intents, which didn't work out - a really interesting story, and very surprisingly kink-related, but one I'm not ready to tell yet. Maybe soon. Suffice to say: I don't regret the decision to back off a bit, but I certainly couldn't stay away from you guys.

The entire thing actually got me being more open about kinks, and I'm up in Portland now going to munches and trying to make a few friends in the scene while I set up a real life here (here is my fetlife profile if you are interested: https://fetlife.com/users/251915).

As such, I've been busy and haven't had time for the serious demand the Year of Denial series I was working on requires. I'm hoping I'll have enough content on it that it'll be something people can legitimately try following next year, but right now my laptop is broken and with it all of the files I was using to write the things. The same goes for my spellchecking of the classics, which I was just about finished with. It'll get fixed eventually.

In the meantime I am working slowly on another old tease for you all, which is sheer dark fantasy and pretty fun so far.

I was thinking about trying another thirty day chastity run but the weird mental states I get into while in chastity, while often very productive, have to be pretty structured or else I don't end up doing anything but working on erotica (and this doesn't work out for anyone in the long run) until I unlock myself for some reason that I come up with on the fly.

So I did what I normally do: I wrote a little contract for myself designed to set terms. This is the rough draft. Would you mind telling me what you think or adding suggestions?

1. Terms of chastity
(a) The submissive shall enter into a period of chastity at his or his mistresses behest. The submissive recognizes the exceptional pleasure and delight of sexual activity and the exquisite frustration, desire and arousal caused by the denial of such activity, and as such voluntarily suspends his own rights and privileges to create limited methods by which he may obtain his relief.

This contract is sealed by the clicking of a lock. No orgasm is required to enter a period of lock-up, and days of denial shall be considered from the point of the lock shutting.
2. Length of chastity
(a) While unsupervised, the submissive's lock-up shall consist of a denial of at least thirty (30) days, with special exceptions for temporary release given the following events:
i. obtainment of gainful employment
ii. publishing of a work of writing
iii. a beginning to a romantic relationship or other circumstance that makes termination of the contract necessary.
3. Terms of release and allowed relief
(a) Each period of chastity will last thirty days from the sealing of the lock. At the end of a thirty day period, the submissive is allowed as much as a three (3) day reprieve and as many as three (3) orgasms, one per day, of which only one – the second - may be reached in the manner of a submissives choosing. The submissives methods of orgasms are to be performed in order as follows:
(b)
i. An elaborate sexual fantasy of the submissives choosing, with denial or release dependent on chance regardless of the nature of said fantasy. Unless more harshly specified the chance of a full orgasm will be no more than one in three, the chance of complete denial no less than one in three, and the chance of a ruined orgasm no less than one in three. This is the submissive's primary orgasm and is a definition of his submission, the results entirely at his dominant's whim.
ii. When and how the submissive chooses within either of the two days following his first orgasm. This orgasm, while secondary to submission, is a celebration of sexual pleasure and exploration and should be treated as such. This orgasm may not be removed or coerced from the submissive, however, he may choose to give it up of his own free will.
iii. A teasing session culminating in a simple coin toss, dice roll, or orgasm at direction by an unknown tease or mistress, upon which time the submissive will be locked with or without relief. The submissive's tertiary orgasm is an entirely unnecessary gesture of his dominant's good faith and may be suspended at any time.
iv.
(c) The submissive may at any time choose to end his release period prematurely. If so, he is allowed no additional benefits or releases and his period of denial begins again from day one.
4. Required behavior
(a) During his period of chastity the submissive is required to endeavor to be the best submissive he can be both inside and outside of kink. To that end, during the course of each day the submissive will work to excel in the following areas:
i. The acquiring of gainful employment and financial stability
ii. The building of relationships with friends and potential lovers
iii. The creation and distribution of works of creativity and imagination of substantive quality.
iv. Further submission under a fictitious or real dominant and practice in the art of pleasing.
5. Punishments
(a) Two forms of punishment shall be devised, those of a pleasurable, submissive nature and those designed to enhance the submissive's suffering in such a way as to increase productivity in the submissives endeavor to improve.
i. Pleasurable punishments include teasing, pain play, protocol and humiliation play, and any activity designed to sexually frustrate while titillating and teasing the submissive.
ii. Displeasurable punishments include extended chastity time, a higher percentage chance of ruined orgasms, a denial of pleasurable punishments and stimuli.
(b) The submissive may always choose to lightly punish himself in a pleasurable fashion given the fulfillment of his required behaviors. He may not spend more than an hour on these activities unless he has demonstrated exceptional progress in his endeavors.
(c) A system of random chance will be enstated such that at the end of each day the submissive may receive a moderate to severe punishment of a desirable nature. The chance of such punishment will never fall below one in four on days when the submissive has fulfilled his required duties.
(d) The submissive will not receive pleasurable punishments for bad behavior or failure to fulfill his roles. If the submissive fails to perform his duties, a displeasurable punishment must be selected and the submissive must endeavor to do better next time.
6. Termination
i. The contract is intended to supercede the submissive's choice in favor of pleasure and thus may not be ended at will. However, it may be terminated of the submissive's own free will under any of the following three circumstances:
A. Beginning of a romantic relationship such that further chastity might interfere with the submissive's capacity to support, bond with and please his potential lover
B. In the event that life presents the submissive with opportunities or activities that cannot be performed while under contract.
C. At the submissive's own free will during a period no less than six hours and no more than twelve hours following his secondary orgasm. His submission is a choice, and one he must reaffirm while of sound mind and body.

[SexualChoc]

hmm
A decent contract that looks like it would work well in real life.

My concern is the "gainful employment" are you not employed at the moment?
just wondering.

Hope it all goes well

[Snoopy76]

Wow - certainly more detailed than the last contract I signed for a rl relationship. You really seem to have all eventualities covered.

Good Luck.

Snoop.