I'm aware that other threads like this have sprung up in the past, but every situation is different so I figured I ought to post.
I've had the same girlfriend for a few years now. I've never quite told her about my interest in the concept of tease & denial and how I'd like to introduce it into our relationship, but recently it sort of came up. The other day the topic of masturbation was on the cards as we were texting and I casually mentioned to her how interesting it would be if she took control of my masturbation schedule. Basically, we sort of hashed out an idea whereby she'd tell me a day where I'd be allowed pleasure myself to the fullest extent and not before then.
I suppose I'm currently at a stage of T & D at it's most basic, and I'm certainly thrilled, but I was wondering if anyone here had any advice as to how one might ease someone into the idea of going a little further. We don't live with each other, so I was sort of marketing this as a constant sexual build-up that would be (and is) beneficial to our relationship in between sexual encounters, but for the moment it's 'Save yourself until Day X' and nothing more. How is one supposed to go from that to the possibility of a chastity device, tease play, ruined orgasms, cum eating, a greater D/s dynamic etc
I certainly don't expect it to come around quickly, but any and all advice would be most welcome
