Suggestion

Jenna · Post by **Jenna** » Tue Jun 19, 2007 3:42 am

I don’t know, the forums have been pretty active lately. It might be best for the site to keep all these applicants waiting around so they’ll come online more often and check the forums.

If you want what’s best for Milovana I’d wait a week or two before signing up.

Post by **seraph0x** » Tue Jun 19, 2007 5:20 am

Oh boy. Didn't notice the craze, because - as the more observant of you might have noticed - I don't check the main forums very frequently as I have all hands full with keeping the technical side in check.

I have to admit that this was a really, really smart move by Teneale. (If I hear "Phoxy" one more time, I'll start calling you "Tenni"...)

Too bad for you that I won't resolve your little stalemate. I don't negotiate with terrorists!

But don't worry, there are many advantages to long-term chastity. Just read this first-hand account:

It's actually quite easy to survive, once you make it past two weeks. After that, each day you have gained more from your submission that regressing by having an accidental or intentional orgasm would be an even larger setback. For me, my last orgasm was on March 7, 2004 (almost 15 months to the day). I can't even contemplate what a loss it would be to lose the intense passion, frustration, and total submission I have towards her now.

I love giving her all the orgasms and staying horny and passionate about her basically all the time, and she loves it too, which is why we decided that I should simply never orgasm again. Since we started focusing completely on her pleasure, her orgasms have become incredibly intense, and since she cums so much better, over and over again, we both find it simply more satisfying for her to do all the cumming for both of us.

Source

You guys are really lucky to get this opportunity. Don't let Tenni down.

Man, I love this community.

Mz_Teneale · Post by **Mz_Teneale** » Tue Jun 19, 2007 5:47 am

Touche Phoxy, touche....

But. There is no skin off my nose. Im not the one who is going to be getting all these nasty private messages from every member on the site!

You can end it now Phoxy, just apply and i will make the tease visible for everyone to see

Oh and to all the boys who applied. You will not get to cum unless you send Phoxy an angry pm telling him to apply and submit to me

alpahde5 · Post by **alpahde5** » Tue Jun 19, 2007 11:14 am

..... your going to start a civil war MS teneale

Post by **dark** » Tue Jun 19, 2007 4:35 pm

Damn that's funny. "Tenni" and "Phoxy" both sound like an old married couple

You should read their conversation in the Team Forum!

Greetz

darki

PS: this guy who was quoted by seraph0x is a bit strange. But ok if he likes a life without orgasm...

Post by **seraph0x** » Tue Jun 19, 2007 6:41 pm

dark wrote:Damn that's funny. "Tenni" and "Phoxy" both sound like an old married couple

You caught us, we're actually in our late seventies and live with our kids and grandkids on a farm in Canberra. Damn, how did you find out?

dark wrote:PS: this guy who was quoted by seraph0x is a bit strange. But ok if he likes a life without orgasm...

I don't find it strange at all. I envy him if anything. That level of trust and devotion is not something many people get to ever experience.

Post by **dark** » Tue Jun 19, 2007 10:05 pm

Yes but I think every person should be selfish sometimes. I mean if the relationship breaks he would loose his essence of life. I don't want to blame people who live this lifestyle, but to have never an orgasm just for beeing a good servant is very "extreme". If this is what he want it's ok. Of course I can't understand it because I would never do that, that's why I call it strange. I don't mean it pejorative.

alpahde5 · Post by **alpahde5** » Tue Jun 19, 2007 10:09 pm

i also find this very strange, then again i also find the whole concept around actually living the lifestyle i so often write about strange.

i also can't see how any real loving relationship like this can really work, i know there must be a deep sense of trust but to an extent it's just plain abuse to never let a person orgasm again and be so selfish in a relationship. but still the idea of being in a relationship like this turns me on.... wow im complex.

Post by **seraph0x** » Tue Jun 19, 2007 10:45 pm

I think it's wrong to assume that because he has no orgasm that means he has no pleasure/satisfaction.

I suggest you read his statements again. I think both partners get the same amount of pleasure out of it. And also on a pretty high level I imagine.

Most people make the mistake of think that D/s relationship are very asymmetric and therefore out of balance. But that is simply not true. They can be very much in balance. I think the best analogy is Yin and Yang. Think of it as complements. Both sides invest different things and get different things out of it, resulting in a much closer relationship. Opposites attract.

Btw: This is why dark associated my interaction with Tenni with an old couple. It's the only kind of interaction that can keep a relationship alive and sparkling for a lifetime.

But don't worry about this right now. That's why we have Milovana. We'll have enough time to experiment, try different things and share our findings with the world.

alpahde5 · Post by **alpahde5** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 11:39 am

i think i have to much democratic values and freedom drummed into me to be able to accept a relationship like that. of coarse im not saying he couldn't be happy, simply i couldn't be happy in a relationship like that even with a deep level of trust and commitment.

Mz_Teneale · Post by **Mz_Teneale** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 11:45 am

I dont see the problem with that relationship

alpahde5 · Post by **alpahde5** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 11:54 am

well of coarse i don't see a problem in that relationship if it was with yours truly lol.

I don't see anything wrong with it, if someone wants to do that go ahead it's your life make that choice- all the best, but i believe it isn't a choice that should be entered half heartedly and should def not be forced upon someone.

goldenshowers · Post by **goldenshowers** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 1:12 pm

does that guy never get the feeling where he's just like "ok i'm bored of being horny and would like to be able to concentrate on something else other than sex.." it seems that that guy would be able to accomplish little else because he's just frustrated and horny :-/

Post by **seraph0x** » Wed Jun 20, 2007 8:37 pm

goldenshowers wrote:does that guy never get the feeling where he's just like "ok i'm bored of being horny and would like to be able to concentrate on something else other than sex.." it seems that that guy would be able to accomplish little else because he's just frustrated and horny

Nope. Contrary to what movies like 40 days and 40 nights might have you believe, it actually gets easier after about two weeks and the whole dynamic changes. Sure, you're still horny, but first of all you don't think about it all the time and secondly you learn to control it. It really hard to describe to someone who has never done it.

alpahde5 wrote:of coarse im not saying he couldn't be happy, simply i couldn't be happy in a relationship like that even with a deep level of trust and commitment.

Well, that's different. I couldn't do it either. At least not at the moment. I think to go to these extremes it takes years and years. And even then it depends a lot on whether you have the right partner(s) in your life.

Also please don't think that I think this is some kind of ideal relationship. There are many other ways to get the Yin/Yang kind of balance.