when I edgo too fas i cum, why?

[lust]

The title saiy it all, sometime in tease, when i'm asked to edge fast a lot of time, I cum, like that, do you guys have any trick agaisnt it?

[Nezhul]

stop earlier? Don't come THAT close to it?

[Nwah]

If you cum from edging, you're not edging. You're cumming. Let go earlier.

Doing a lot of edges in a row can push you, though. Flex your PC muscles if you do get too far and you can usually stop it.

[Nezhul]

and you can usually stop it.

depends on a strength of this muscles.

[Triple Alfa]

Maybe you should train yourself to hold the edge. That'll help you better recognize how far you can go. To me it seems that you are either just not stopping soon enough on the last edge, or you are still on the edge without realizing it. It may seem strange, but you can be very close or even on the edge without feeling much of it. The moment you try to go for another edge then, you are pushing too far.

Also, keep in mind that sensitivity plays a very large role here. After edging several times you should be much more sensitive. This means that another edge will ramp up much faster then before. Consequently this also means you need to stop earlier then before as there is some overshoot. If not stopping soon enough is your problem, then you will see that when you try to stop earlier the sensation will still peak at the edge even if you think it won't.

Lastly I'd like to suggest trying the same repeated edging but slower. Try to stroke slowly to the edge, take a small break and repeat. The slower you go, the easier it is to find you limits. This is because(as mentioned above) there is an element of overshoot. This is why it is possible to ruin an orgasm while still stopping seconds before going over the edge.

I hope this helps. Have fun!

[Snot]

^^^ Well said.

Also if you feel like you are about to go over the edge start taking slow deep breaths. Works every time for me. No idea why. It also works during sex if your close to the edge and she starts an orgasm. It's really bad form to bust your load right when she starts to cum. =p

[mbop]

Stop touching your cockhead?

[janmb]

Triple summed it up quite nicely...

It's clearly harder to find the perfect timing on when to stop if you are stroking fast, but it's quite doable. Just practice - and make sure to approach the limit from the correct side, stopping too early rather than too late.

[lust]

Ok thanks sorry i didnt answer, i didn't really had time, but i'll take all your answer in mind next time i'll try ^^