How do you ride and edge ITS SO HARD?

[Human]

I'm not very good at edging, but so many hot videos from digital desire...Anyhoo, 2 days ago I for the first time managed to ride an edge for 3 minutes or so. Decided to do so again for the full 9 minute duration of the video as a tribute to the gorgeous Ms Andie Vanlentino. Failed after 4 minutes, and "blew" it.

Its SO freakin hard, there are ebbs and flows but at the very edge, it feels like electricity is coursing up the penis(like when I am ejaculating) and I must concentrate really really hard to relax all involuntary muscles (a contradiction?). The SMALLEST beginning of a twitch deep inside, just the beginning, and its game over.

At the edge, stopped stroking, was struggling, and 2 seconds later, a single spurt. And then I decided to screw it and went ahead.

How do you prevent that twitch that breaks the O?

[Nezhul]

I don't have problems with twitches. I have problems with self control. I actually CRAVE riding the edge for several minutes, but as I get to it, no matter how hard I swear not to give in to the temptetion, I just send all this to hell and cum. I feel really bad about it later because I can't get what I want not because of some technical reason but due to the lack of willpower

[Human]

I don't have problems with twitches. I have problems with self control. I actually CRAVE riding the edge for several minutes, but as I get to it, no matter how hard I swear not to give in to the temptetion, I just send all this to hell and cum. I feel really bad about it later because I can't get what I want not because of some technical reason but due to the lack of willpower

You need some female encouragement, there are some hot sexy promo audios by women from LDW to get to edges, and its easier not to come if there is a sexy crooning voice telling you to not come.

At least these are the ladies which have enabled me to edge, I too had edging problems before.

Can you do edges? Multiple edges in one session? What is the longest you have ridden an edge?

[strokerboy3]

Any way you can post the vids or the links to them?

[Human]

Any way you can post the vids or the links to them?

One video here:
http://www.milovana.com/forum/viewtopic.php?f=13&t=7261

[SexualChoc]

first off it depends on what you mean by "riding the edge"

your body can only handle so much,
even weight lifters can only do so many "reps"

Of course the more you do it the stronger you are and the more you can handle.

After a few minutes it is best to start backing away from the edge just a little more..
so say normally an edge is 2 more strokes and you would cum

back away a bit means you in the 5 to 10 stroke area
Okay it is not a "HARD" edge
but I was able to get to 8 min just once
on a hold.

so exercise PC muscles daily and keep trying.. if you fee that tickle
Inside you have pushed yourself to long.
and your body is exhausted.

you may have found a physical limit.. while it's good to challenge those..
know that they are more difficult.

remember a journey of a thousand miles begins with one step..
and know when to take a break

Maybe next time try shorter edge holding but More edges?

[Human]

so say normally an edge is 2 more strokes and you would cum

The edges which overwhelm me go as follows:
My hands are off, and if I DONT concentrate mentally I will cum. With no strokes or contact.
So basically my hands come off, and then its a struggle. I struggle and struggle. For basically about 3-5 secs with no contact. Many times I can prevent that twitch and prevent from coming (no muscle contraction = no orgasm). Sometimes, aftre 2-3 secs the twitch happens and then a spurt.

Hmmm, I realise that I am doing some hard edges if I dont even need contact to cum.

[Sagan]

so say normally an edge is 2 more strokes and you would cum

The edges which overwhelm me go as follows:
My hands are off, and if I DONT concentrate mentally I will cum. With no strokes or contact.
So basically my hands come off, and then its a struggle. I struggle and struggle. For basically about 3-5 secs with no contact. Many times I can prevent that twitch and prevent from coming (no muscle contraction = no orgasm). Sometimes, aftre 2-3 secs the twitch happens and then a spurt.

Hmmm, I realise that I am doing some hard edges if I dont even need contact to cum.

I had the same problem as you when doing hard edges. What worked for me was being able to control my "twitch" at all times. Like you said, if you can prevent that "twitch" you can prevent an accidental spurt. Practice and fortitude when it comes to denying yourself release at that moment are going to be your best two allies in this situation. Good luck to you.

[Nezhul]

Can you do edges? Multiple edges in one session? What is the longest you have ridden an edge?

Yes I can do multiple, but there are periods in my life when I can take almost any ammount of edges (once I did like 30 or 40 of them and could continue no problems but had an accident. I do not deny myself normally, so I simply relaxed and enjoyed it), but there are times when I go crazy even after 2 or 3 edges and just forget everything and cum.

The longest I did was maybe 30 seconds? It feels great but I can't force myself to hold it longer - I always begin to stroke fast and cum.

[mbop]

I think you guys are beating yourself up more than necessary (heh). A man's body just isn't supposed to work like that, you're really going against nature and your instincts. Just doing as much as you are is pretty crazy in and of itself. What a guy is designed to do way back in the caveman days is pretty pedestrian, really...just stay hard for what, maybe 3-4 minutes, cum deep inside for the best hope of planting his seed, and that's it. So you're way ahead of the curve.

When you guys say there's a twitch and then a spurt, what happens after the spurt exactly? Do you lose it because you can't resist the temptation to beat your meat to completion, or is it because you pump your load up using your body (voluntarily or non?).