Dominant person attitude.

[Nezhul]

Let's see what everyone likes more. I'm not talking about any particular fetishes or the ammount of your freedom or flexibility of orders - nothing like that. I'm talking about how your dom should act to make you the most satisfied sub in the world? Should dom act sweet and loving, or on the contrary strict and cold. Or should he/she treat you badly, be rude to you, or bitchy (again, not the tasks themself. Highly humiliating things might be said in a sweet and loving tone of voice).

Let's check. That's just a little poll to flood.
If you think of other patterns - do tell, if you want.

[Nezhul]

Personally I (while not been dommed a single time in the life, but finding the idea amusing) would prefer "Sweet" type. So the girl would tease and harass me, while expressing much compassion and care about my feelings.
For me there wouldn't be a thing hotter than hearing words of compassion and encouragement from her while she STILL deliberately doing it worse for me.

[SexualChoc]

Actually I like Playful and strict...
so Other..

Playful meaning tasks are sometimes just for fun, other times very sensual
Strict because I have found it important to be firm!

[AngelAnna837]

For me, I like a combination.

Sweet and loving for sure, being cared about is such a wonderful joy and just knowing that you are is a major positive factor in any relationship, be it D/s or any other kind. If you know your Dom cares for you and you care for him, it will definitely strengthen the bond of trust in the D/s side of things because you know he will have your best interest at head.

But on the flip side of the coin, if he's the Dom, he is in charge. So there defiantly has to be a level of strictness in there, not so much verging on rude (though a little name calling now and then can certainly liven things up ;) ) but i am a very old fashioned girl and for me the power lays with the guy. I know it is a little over-used but i like being told what to do :)

I really don't this can be defined that easlily, there are far to many factors about Indy that I love, all of which make him a wonderful Dom :)

[Quazwierdcev283]

I have never had a Dom or Domme (and I'm not really interested in having a Dom, a Domme on the other hand . . . :) ), but I have read several stories and researched this and that and I have chosen to compare it to calling cock control (or a similar site). I have never called Cock Control, but I have been looking into it and they claim they have strict Mistresses and Sensual Mistresses with the Sensual ones being the nicer ones of the bunch. While that is nice to know, I don't think a person can be summed up as easily as all that. For example Mistress Cloe is sensual, but she likes to push limits.
I would like a Domme who has a voice sweet as can be. She never raises her voice, but you still jump to her commands all the same. She gives her commands in a soft voice and the way she phrases it, most people would assume she's just asking a favor, though her sub/subs know it is a command. If they don't obey there will be serious punishments (like more time in the chastity belt). One who can lavish you with adoration at one moment and pretend like you don't exist the next. There is never any question about who is in control of the relationship, but she finds a way to make you suggest the things she wants you to do. Examples: "Honey, you know I trust you, but when you are gone on long business trips my imagination gets the best of me. I wish there was some way I wouldn't have to worry about you having sex with other women" and/or "Darling, now that you've been wearing this chastity belt my mind is at such rest, but I miss getting orgasms from you. I know that if I removed the belt you would help me get off, but I don't know if you'd ever let me put it back on. How can I make sure you don't struggle/Do you have any other ideas of how you might help me orgasm, you know how I love wet things in my pussy." Only giving commands when she has to. One who has a body to die for and uses it to turn her sub and other men on, but the idea of cuckoldry is not a fetish of mine. She can flirt with other men as much as she wants, but they are left dreaming about what it would be like with her. If any men start to make serious advances she makes it clear that she is happily married, linking elbows or holding hands with her submissive husband. Sorry this explanation is so long, but I just had to describe what I like. Oh and if she can roleplay the innocent schoolgirl or the strict teacher (while not inflicting any damage that is permanent as well as inflicting it only on places that your clothes can conceal) that would be just lovely.
That's my description of the perfect Domme.
btw, in case you can't tell I chose other :D
Quaz. (Not Dom or sub, but I have submissive tendencies).
P.S. It would also be sort of fun if the Domme let her sub choose between two choices. Example: I can whip you 50 times, or I can whip you 20 times while giving you 50 spankings on each cheek (or something like that).

[Nezhul]

Strict because I have found it important to be firm

well again I hope you get my idea that by strict I don't meen how much freedom she leaves to you, but how does she talk.

[dix]

I find it difficult to 'classify' my preferred style of domination. Because it really depends on your mood and your partner.
I've gone with "Strict and cold" as that suits my style best but then there's nothing wrong with the "Sweet and loving" side of domination either.

Dix.