Trouble ruining an orgasm

[shnaw]

So like the title says, I've only very rarely been able to ruin an orgasm. If I follow a tease and stop just before I go over, I cum anyway and it's just as intense as ever. I've even tried stopping earlier than I find necessary and either don't cum or slowly go over the edge with a full satisfying orgasm. Any advice is helpful.

[billlr]

Try pinching it off at the base of your shaft.
Then milk the semen that becomes trapped in the penis back into your bladder.
That's what worked for me.
If you do that enough, you should be able to train yourself enough to pull back before you have a full orgasm.

Personally, my specialty is multiple orgasms, one right after the other, but I have had some experience with ruined ones as well.

Bill

[Nezhul]

Are you sure it's full orgasm, or do you just ejaculate? It's supposed to be pleasurable, after all it's still going over the edge. It's just that it isn't very much satisfying afterwords, meening you feel horny very soon again.

[janmb]

As Nez says, don't take full ejaculation or spasming as a sign of it being a full orgasm.

- Does it feel every bit as good as a full orgasm where you keep stroking longer?
- Do you get sensitive/soft after ejaculation and lose interest to keep going?


You might wanna play around with stopping sooner, or approaching slower anyway - it is perfectly possible for most guys to have both slow and spasming ejaculations without actually having a proper orgasm - the best tell tale sign being that you do not turn super sensitive or go soft, and you do not lose interest in keep going.

[mbop]

You might wanna play around with stopping sooner, or approaching slower anyway - it is perfectly possible for most guys to have both slow and spasming ejaculations without actually having a proper orgasm - the best tell tale sign being that you do not turn super sensitive or go soft, and you do not lose interest in keep going.

This is probably good advice, although in my personal experience there's a lot of variance. When my BF cums inside me he will continue to go until he becomes soft or becomes sensitive and withdraws, then goes soft after that. But sometimes he'll just stay stiff and continue to fuck himself into a second wind and then have another orgasm. I'm pretty confident he's having a full orgasm the first time. He's not the only guy who's done that either.

That may be related to continued pleasure though. He rarely stays hard if I jerk/suck him -- he just gets soft usually, although he has stayed hard there too. Just less frequently.