Are you in chastity? Experience with chastity?

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Are you in chastity? Experience with chastity?

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Hi all, I'm in the middle of writing a few teases, and I want to take into account those people in chastity.

Most teases here (and also mine and my thoughts of) are more about stroking, stroke control, tasks etc. So i would love to hear from some people in chastity who can let me know what YOU like to see in a tease when you are wearing a chastity device. You see all these commands saying "stroke 50 times slowly" or similar - what do you do? Do you replace withanother action? If you are locked up how can you be teased effectively?

Some quite ignoramis questions I know, but please help me out as I'm trying to also cater for the chastity enabled!

If you don't want to admit your chastity here of course you can just pm me. Discretion assured.

Thanks!
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when i am in chastity, which is quite often then it always ends with me on the floor and playing with a dildo. I also enjoy humiliation, etc. knowing that other laugh about me beeing all locked up and unable to masturbate.
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I have a CB-3000 which allows me to stroke the device as if i was stroking myself i get a little stimulus from it, enough where i will attempt to get hard in the chastity belt but obviously i am unable to stimulate enough to cum which really adds to the frustration and teasing.

Another thing i enjoy is putting on a Venus Butterfly vibrator underneath the chastity belt and turning it on at various speeds, it helps me to get hard while still wearing the belt which is quite frustrating yet a pleasurable tease. I wish there was a attachment to go with the CB's the would allow vibration but the Butterfly works most of the time for me.

Anyway that's what i usually do when i am locked up reading teases.
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I don't think you should think too much on this matter. The range of kinks and preferences here are so big that you can't suit us all. The best way to write a good tease, is to write a tease that's interesting and hot to YOURSELF. And who cares that someone would like more pain, another girl as a model, or anal play included? Don't bother. There will be people who'll write teases for chastity users, and maybe you won't find those hot for yourself. The best advice I can give you - write only what YOU find hot, don't try to please everyone. You won't write it good if you are not into a certain kink in the first place.
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Yes an author should write about what turns himself on .
I think @ponderhk, is carrying out some research for a particular kink he is unsure of and that I feel is no bad thing.

I have never been caged but I am still interested in the restrictions it places on those who have .
With SexualChoc being our guru in this field.


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I have written 4 chastity teases
and a few posts on it

basically there are in the device and out of the device teases
Mostg webteases are written assuming you can unlock yourself.

Very very few teases are written while you are in the device
erin has som ideas, and again there aare my teases
other than that there are very few.

I would love to see ay ideas you have for staying in your belt tease
so far i have used Vibrators on the belt.
Looking forward to your ideas!
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I should probably clarify that I'm not trying to write a tease for people in chastity - not my thing. More for the fact that as I've no experience with it, I wanted to hear how those who are chastity enabled get through teases here.
So thanks to those who have chastity experience and answered my question, and thanks to those who suggested I stick to what I know.
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I applaud learning new ideas.


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I should probably clarify that I'm not trying to write a tease for people in chastity - not my thing. More for the fact that as I've no experience with it, I wanted to hear how those who are chastity enabled get through teases here.
So thanks to those who have chastity experience and answered my question, and thanks to those who suggested I stick to what I know.

When i am locked, as i currently am in a cb2k, then i am made to look at the teases to remind me of what i am missing out on. Not being able to touch, stroke, play with myself is very frustrating and also makes me horny as well. How do i deal with it? i just have to deal with it until i get told i am allowed to play with myself. If you would like to know more on my situation feel free to drop me a message Ponder.
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