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Advice For Application Letter

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Hi there, long time lurker , 2nd time 'poster'.

i was just after some advice if i could.......

I was playing around with a 'Queen' for all of last year on and off with varying tasks and things being completed until she dumped me about a month ago and said 'if i want to worship her any more i have to write her a letter explaining why i am worthy and i deserve to be her bitch.

I really want to be her toy again but i need some advice for what to put in the letter. any ideas?

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for the start.
Any toy gets boring after some time. That happened to you. If you write something abstract pleading her and telling her how worthless you are you won't get a positive respond IMO. It's easy to throw a toy away. She, as all of us do, needs a person near her. That's what I think. If you are long distance - you should always know that eventually such relationship breaks. If you are close, then date her IRL.
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I agree with Nezul, do not humilate nessisarily
tell all the good thing about yourself.

Okay Why would anyone want to date you?
You don't say the negetives
You 'sel' you possitives.
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This is strange because a letter or request such as this is not unusual, before any fun and games start.
Much the same is done on dating sites in different guises.

Now there are a few reasons why this has happened
As you have already been "Dumped" has she found another and feels the need to compare you to decide her way forward?
Has she just read or found out about this idea and wants a clarification of your desires and wants?

I will always give a "partner" a limits list if it seems we will progress to more than the odd "Fling".
Although sometimes this has proved unnecessary.

So my conclusion is; the letter is not unusual the timing certainly is.
Proceed with caution.


Above all else be brutally honest in the letter no wishful thinking.

Be careful what you wish for!
It can come back and bite hard.



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