BDSM Dating

[Cider]

Hey community! i've been gone for a while and have recently started browsing the teases yet again. I have a question about the online dating sites. Does anyone have any recommendations on any of the BDSM geared sites like alt.com? i use collarme because it is free, and even though i have had a little luck with it, it still seems that i have to wade through bots and scammers because of the fact that it is free. I've looked at alt before but never bought a membership. If anyone has an account or has in the past with any RELIABLE site like that i would be very interested to know. and maybe some others can get some good out of it too. Thanks as always

[Cider]

i understand completely...i dont necessarily live in a real small town but it is small enough that a lot of people know me and each other. but honestly, these days i dont give a sh** and just want to meet like minded people. thanks for your help i'll definately check it out

[tallguy2241]

I totally agree with FetLife. I've been on there almost a year now, and have actually met people! Like, face to face and everything! The munches are a great way to get to know people in a non-threatening environment.

I guess we need to set up a Milovana group there.

[aldorax]

Fetlife is rather well-run and mature from what I can tell.

That said, I'd love to find a "wingperson" to attend local munches - I absolutely hate going to such things alone and having to start off "cold' so to speak.

[Timshel]

I recently joined FDS (http://www.femdommesociety.com/) and while it took a while to meet someone in my area I eventually did. It does get it's share of spam profiles, but the management is doing it's best to eliminate those. It has a free level, as well as higher levels which you pay for and hence get more options... So you can create a profile, see what you think without paying to join...

There is a little bit of co-ordinate of events in differing local, but it's an Online site on the Majority.

[Cider]

so i joined fetlife...it is a great site (so far) but why do all the Dommes have to be unattractive or married/in a relationship? i guess i'll have to experiment with the munches around my area...that will probably be my best opportunity.. thanks for everyone who helped out

[darkstar]

i find that in my area there are a few male uber doms who snap up any new and especialy young females before anone else gets half a chance then get shitty if anyone else even chats to them.

[Heathcliff]

so i joined fetlife...it is a great site (so far) but why do all the Dommes have to be unattractive or married/in a relationship? i guess i'll have to experiment with the munches around my area...that will probably be my best opportunity.. thanks for everyone who helped out

I'm sure if you looked at the single male subs it's probably even more dire. Like most things in life, the good ones get taken fast-on both ends of the equation.