Chastity Experience

[Swesub]

Iam new to this, whith very litle experience yet but that gonna change.

There is so many qustions in my head, and I think the only way to get to know is to experience them self.

But you guys who have any experience, why dont share them with all other who are curios?

# 1 What are the reson to you are in chastity?
# 2 How started your journey./ how started your intrest?
# 3 what are the longest you been locked up?
# 4 What are the benefit of it?
# 5 What kind of chastity do you weare?
# 6 who hold the key? (wife/gf, longdictance mistress/KH, mistress who you play with in person etc)
# 7 What was your feeling when you leaved away the key and the lock was clicked shut
# 8 How does that affect your everyday life ?
# 9 Do you regret it?
# 10 What do you love/hates most to be in chastity?

Well feel free to add more Qustions if i Have missed something.

And it would be intresting to hear about this qustions from a key holders perspective to. Make sure that you tell that you speak as keholder,

[Swesub]

My ansver on that from the litle experince i have yet

# 1 What are the reson to you are in chastity?

I have no reason yet, more than that i like the idea of be controlled by some one else

# 2 How started your journey./ how started your intrest?

I think I saw a pic of a locked dick and get curios...Thinked about that for about one year, and the last month before i prucased a Chastity device i serach the internet and read about it every day. First expriment was to lock me self up after work on the friday, and un lock me on monday befor work... Where I worked at that moment should made some trouble becaus of the company security check and security rules i think... To be honest, It was a sad moment that monday morning to need to take the device of, I thinked for a moment " What the hell, fucck the stupid ruels and scurity sheck...but I decide to take it of, to be safe at work.


# 3 what are the longest you been locked up?
I have a new work now, so I locked me up again 5/4 at midnight so I have been locked up 4 days and night by now

# 4 What are the benefit of it?
I dont know yet, But it strange how much you touch your self without to think abot it.
And exciting to feel that frustration to not be abel to touch you self

# 5 What kind of chastity do you weare?
CB-3000

# 6 who hold the key? (wife/gf, longdictance mistress/KH, mistress who you play with in person etc)

I hold the key self for the moment, but have decide to prucase a lock from LMJ as soon as i Get litle more experience

# 7 What was your feeling when you leaved away the key and the lock was clicked shut
I tell you later when I know.

# 8 How does that affect your everyday life ?

The only thing I noticed yet is that if you need to scratch you discreet betwen your legs its litle hard to do that discreet... And when you have peed its dificult to shake the last drips of.

# 9 Do you regret it?

Not yet, but My biggest concern is what happen if i Visit a pub, and meet some on special girl that ask me to follow her home when I am locked up (talking about when I dont have the acces to the key self any more) and that day i maby regret it... There is only one way to find out


# 10 What do you love/hates most to be in chastity?

In my case I think its a both hate/love relation at the same time. to push your limits,and dont touch even how mouch you want to tuouch.

I think I gonna love to leave away the power of when i can touch my self to some one else, but I gonna hate it to, hate to be so depende of some one else

[darkstar]

# 1 What are the reson to you are in chastity?

personal choice, i was always interested in it and decided to give it a go.

# 2 How started your journey./ how started your intrest?
random web brosing through bondage sites and stories

# 3 what are the longest you been locked up?

at the moment 18 days and counting

# 4 What are the benefit of it?

lots which are intensly personal to me

emotionaly i am much different, im less inclined to do things just for me and think about the people i am with more, sexualy i am far more interested in the other persons pleasures and ensuring they are sated. unfortunatly i am single at hte moment so it is just long and detailed plans of what i could do for different women i know and there own preferances

# 5 What kind of chastity do you weare?

i wear asteel cock gae with hinged steel ring behind the balls. very confy, easy to clean but does pinch a little. feels great when i get aroused as its got enough space for me to get mostly hard then i swell and throbn aainst it in aveyr interesting manner
tried a CB6000s which was a waste of money

# 6 who hold the key? (wife/gf, longdictance mistress/KH, mistress who you play with in person etc)
a female friend tho she doesnt know what the keys are for
time wise it was aranged by asking the cam girls on my free cams for how long i should be locked away for and evaeragingt eh results from those who replied. i did remove 2 persons times as one was infinte and one was 2 minutes which agaisnt the rest of the tiems (ranged from 2 days to 6 months) asa rule with on 9 month teh average work to my favour and it is 34 days

# 7 What was your feeling when you leaved away the key and the lock was clicked shut

it just felt right and i wished i had done it years ago

# 8 How does that affect your everyday life ?
apart form not jerking off all day every day very little, i have to watch what i wear so it doesnt show and be very careull about cleaning it after i scuba dive but other than that its no differeance for me physicaly, mentaly i am finding myself to be amuch ncier person, helping people out etc much more polite when i drive
i feel much more attractive, and confident around women because i know that despite my malke brain thinking about how to get into bed as soon as possible iu know i cant screw things up that way if i am forming a relationship by getting to sex as soon as i can.

# 9 Do you regret it?
my only regret is i dont have a woman in my life to do it with and that i didnt do it sooner

# 10 What do you love/hates most to be in chastity?

tbh this isnt something which i can describe it just feels great like its how things should be for me. no controll over when or if i can cum and thus my desires being subservient to womens/



one thing which would be interesting for me and highly arousing is to actualy end up with a woman when im locked in espeicaly after a night out, end up at theres or mine and them fidning it and me explain it to them and what it means and then spending afew hours making them satisfied. .

[Swesub]

one thing which would be interesting for me and highly arousing is to actualy end up with a woman when im locked in espeicaly after a night out, end up at theres or mine and them fidning it and me explain it to them and what it means and then spending afew hours making them satisfied. .

Yes that day will be intresting if that day are comming... And that the only thing that I am litle affraid of, I am litle shy but if they cant take it, I guess they are not the wommen of our life any way...

I am now on my 6 day...7 H left befor I went into day 7. This weekend I have visit my parents, It was not anthing that i had planed, it just happend and the time driving the car (2 Hours drive) was litle hard... The viberations from the seat did my drible more than before... Well i dont know if it was from the viberations or just that the balls begin to getting over loade

But it have begin to drible betwen my legs now and i should have needed a few extra underpants.

Its seams like that our intrest started on the same way....

Well it still would be intreting to hear more from others, you dont need to ansver the qustions, tis ok to say what ever you want about chastity.

[Little Miss Jay]

I like this thread, would be interesting to hear other guys experiences with chastity You boys here must already know I love to hear about desperate frustrated cocks! *giggles*

This kind of thread could help others that are also considering buying/wearing a chastity device...

Little Miss Jay x

[darkstar]

a few more bits i find and ill add as i think of stuffs

physicals.

the belt i am in moves around a fair bit around the balls possibly as they contract and release on there own so i need to pull the scrotum though the ring a few times a day for comfort. also the ring can rotate around the balls so the lock isnt always central. i need to file the points off of the corners of mine as they dig in. cheepy chinese locks no doubt.

i do find that if i dont keep myself shaved then the hairs cause more pinches,

it will pinch its just finding acomfy place for it to sit when doing things. and if it is make sure ou dont leave it as a punishment because it will cause damage. and dont do things like drive if its not right. take a few minutes to sort things out.

im at 19 days and i know my sctorum is feeling very swollen adn tender. i definatly have the beginings of blue balls. which is actualy a first for me.

emotionaly

i am finding my attitudes to sex and how i think about it very different. ive been looking at past relationships and realised quite a fw things about myself and how i acted which wer not realy on as a result of the desire to cum. i am aiming in my next relationship to be much less demanding in that way and much more intersted in the other person and ensuring they are pampered and comfortable instead of just going for thinsg and cumming.

im also much more helpfull towards people. i wasnt a muppet before but im thhinking of how i can help people and generaly performing random acts of kindness like given people lifts up steep hills (i live in a hilly area near the coast and toursits are always caught at hte bottom of them with ahuge hike)

im taking alot more pleasure out of things likedriving, natuire etc

getting hard

well in the cage i am in its possible and hapens every morning. and its quite painfull. not oww its agony pain but a very constrictive tightness that wakes me up at 7 ish every morning
it feels very nice tbh reminding me of what i cant have and what i want but am being denied so much mroe than the cb6000s i was in did. that one just prevented it totaly so there was very little penitance and time to think about what i had "lost" over a painfull, throbbing hardon which wont go away keeping my mind on things.


got more to add later

[Swesub]

I like this thread, would be interesting to hear other guys experiences with chastity You boys here must already know I love to hear about desperate frustrated cocks! *giggles*

This kind of thread could help others that are also considering buying/wearing a chastity device...

Little Miss Jay x

Yes it would be intresting to hear about other guys experince but tha seems to be litle shy

Tha was one of the reason that i Started this thread, and other reasons was that thrad would help others who considering to weare a chastity device, and that could help me to get ansver on things that I always have woundering about.

I have read moch stories and blogs, but almust no one tells how there intrest started and whta the reason is and what they love and hate about to weare a Chastity.

Im in litle hurry now so I check in later and tell about daay 7 locked up... and ansver Darksters coment

[darkstar]

to carry on from where i was before i had to go out.

im not sure if i can posts pics if i can i will to illustrate a few points

getting hard
when i get hard my cock realy fills the cage and due to its relativly open nature its able to swell outside of the cage with the bars of it keeping it down. the result is something like a well tied meat jpoint with my cock/

i cant get any stimulation at all because of the cage and how tight my cock is within it. but i can tocuh it which is even worse

[Swesub]

a few more bits i find and ill add as i think of stuffs

physicals.

i do find that if i dont keep myself shaved then the hairs cause more pinches,

it will pinch its just finding acomfy place for it to sit when doing things. and if it is make sure ou dont leave it as a punishment because it will cause damage. and dont do things like drive if its not right. take a few minutes to sort things out.

I also find that the hair caused som pinches, Not used to shave, but I shaved most of the hair away, but was litle afraid to iritate the skin, so i took it very gentel and think there is some mor hair to shave.

And i have the same problem somtimes when I do stuff, But often there is no problem to adjust that

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getting hard

well in the cage i am in its possible and hapens every morning. and its quite painfull. not oww its agony pain but a very constrictive tightness that wakes me up at 7 ish every morning
it feels very nice tbh reminding me of what i cant have and what i want but am being denied so much mroe than the cb6000s i was in did. that one just prevented it totaly so there was very little penitance and time to think about what i had "lost" over a painfull, throbbing hardon which wont go away keeping my mind on things.

to carry on from where i was before i had to go out.

im not sure if i can posts pics if i can i will to illustrate a few points

getting hard
when i get hard my cock realy fills the cage and due to its relativly open nature its able to swell outside of the cage with the bars of it keeping it down. the result is something like a well tied meat jpoint with my cock/

i cant get any stimulation at all because of the cage and how tight my cock is within it. but i can tocuh it which is even worse

Well i hav not have the probleme to wake up in the morning....well the first nights Iwaked up and it was pain...I thinked for my self, maby i should try one size bigger ring and after that i havent had any problem.

Well, tha cage feels small ofcurse, but no pain


Thanks for sharing your experience. Im sure that will help some one and i want to hear more experienc from you and other as well

[Swesub]

In less than 2 H i have been locked up for a week now. Yester day it dribled out of the cock the whole day.

Its better to day. But it was frustrating when it driped all the time. I was thinking of any way to make the dribling stop, and thinked that maby i should try a vibrating butt-plug So I went off to the local sex shop and get one... well when I tried it some of the pree cum leeked out...

Beside of the dribling thing I dont find any frustratins any more... Day 3-5 was most frustrating, but today i havent feel any frustrating at all beside of the dribling as i said.

Dont know how it comes, Maby I have past some line now and acceped the destany to be locked up... Well I have access to the key, but If i hadn´t...

[darkstar]

well i have been locked for 20 days now, 21 as of midnight tonight GMT and its hte longest i have ever been without cumming for as long as i can remember


physical stuffs

i personaly havnt had any issues with precum at all even when i have been very hard.
i think this would vary from person to person.



the pinching is getting slowly worse the longer it goes on for possibly as a reult of the balls becoming more swollen.
all i need to do is adjust myself by pulling the skin through the ring away from the body. i do use a little lube for this and i also use iot to allow me to adust my foreskin when i needs to be for hygine, or comfort reasons.

as to stimulation.

i cant get any PHYSICAL stimulation, at all which is the reason for the belt.
i did use Electrical stim on myself when i was in the CB6000 using a sound and a ad near my prostate.
this gave me intense stimulation which could not make me cum at all. .

in the metal cage it acts like a fardays cage and carrys the current away from the head of the penis where the sound is to the ring which gives no stimulation then to the pad.

its a bit of a sod because i do like the feeling of estim and the constant edging it gives to me without the risk of cumming.


SOUNDS

in the CB 6000i worse a hollow sound for a week with no ill effects. it was very stimulating , and allso made pissing much easier. as i could pull the bar out of the cage a little like a hose.
also it was held in place by the cage section quite well. and allowed me to use estim alot. frustrating me even more.


in the metal cage it just doesnt feel comfortable for long term wear at all and it has none of the positive facotrs it had in the plastic cage.

emotionaly

at hte moment i am getting flucuations of massive hornyness when all i cna think about is cumming and other times when i am resigned to what i am doing.

but normaly its in the middle where i am pleased for doing it. with hornyess second,

i do want a real life keyholder so i can totaly submit myself to them and give the keys aware perminatly for them to choose when or if i get to cum based on my behaviour and there moods and also to be totaly under a womans controll.

i do feel that this is the best thing for me on a great many levels not just sexualy.


i also think that being locked could have been a good thing for past relationships for short periods. makeing me much more understanding and caring.

[Swesub]

well i have been locked for 20 days now, 21 as of midnight tonight GMT and its hte longest i have ever been without cumming for as long as i can remember



the pinching is getting slowly worse the longer it goes on for possibly as a reult of the balls becoming more swollen.
all i need to do is adjust myself by pulling the skin through the ring away from the body. i do use a little lube for this and i also use iot to allow me to adust my foreskin when i needs to be for hygine, or comfort reasons.


emotionaly

at hte moment i am getting flucuations of massive hornyness when all i cna think about is cumming and other times when i am resigned to what i am doing.

but normaly its in the middle where i am pleased for doing it. with hornyess second,

i do want a real life keyholder so i can totaly submit myself to them and give the keys aware perminatly for them to choose when or if i get to cum based on my behaviour and there moods and also to be totaly under a womans controll.

i do feel that this is the best thing for me on a great many levels not just sexualy.


i also think that being locked could have been a good thing for past relationships for short periods. makeing me much more understanding and caring.

I have feelt the pinching more to day than befor. I was at a Café to day, and the chair was so soft that I sink down and that was litle unconfortable..but try diffrent way to sit soloved the problem...

Iam only on my 8day...

I think that are mouch + to be locked up in a relation... I think that the partner get more attention...but what can I know...

A real keyholder are both scaering and exciting... That are a dream that I have had for awhile, and that is somthing that I gonna get in the future... Need to be sure to find right fit first...

One of my locking pin get broken, that pin who fits best. I waiting for a replacment pin for the moment... but found out that if i used the one of the spacers on the wrong side of the cage the long pin like the medium pin, but thats not the best soultion...so I will wait for the replacment pin...

I have found a Keyholder(LMJ) that offer diffrents offer, 2 weeeks, month, as long she wish or a time frame time something between min weeks-max week... But the whole ting are you to leave all control to her so I see the only opions is "Up to her"

Dont know how it gonna feel but the time will tell...

[darkstar]

yes i have seen that, it does interest me to go for as long as she wants as ultimatly thats what i want a keyholder to do, not give me a release date to count down to just do it spontainiously based on emotion in a relationship.

. but i would prefer it to be a real life person who i know and have some form of relationship, be it firend or otherwise, with before agreeing to hand the keys over.

it is a great trust issue and i mean no diresepct to missJ i dont know her from the next person in the street so i cant make such a massive choice on a mainly unknown person. its the same for all the online keyholding places i have looked at. there is no way of knowing the person is what they say they are.

im also not that trusting o fpeople untill i get to know them well, its a flaw of my own, so i couldnt take such a large leap of faith
if i met miss j and got to know hew and it felt right then i woulkd hand the keys over


a few people i have been chatting to on cam sites have asked a few thinsg about why and how it feels.

this is possibly the best way i have been able to describe it.

"imagine what its like when you edge alot of times and then cum. how the feelings build up and up and up then explode out, well for me its building constantly getting more and more intense with no possible release to bring it back down"

[Swesub]

yes i have seen that, it does interest me to go for as long as she wants as ultimatly thats what i want a keyholder to do, not give me a release date to count down to just do it spontainiously based on emotion in a relationship.

. but i would prefer it to be a real life person who i know and have some form of relationship, be it firend or otherwise, with before agreeing to hand the keys over.

it is a great trust issue and i mean no diresepct to missJ i dont know her from the next person in the street so i cant make such a massive choice on a mainly unknown person. its the same for all the online keyholding places i have looked at. there is no way of knowing the person is what they say they are.

Well I agree, to find some real person IRL to hand over the key would be the best thing... But i dont know someone that i can give the key to, or there is no one that I could say so kinky things to... I have one friend that I could ask, but she is to nice, so if i ask for the key she would give me the key in one secund....

I have been seeking for a on-line keyholder for a while and diffrent mistresses have asked to hold the key in other couminties. But so far there is only 2 people that I meet online that I feel that i can trust.

One of them are my first mistress that i tried to serve, she was respectful, but also a financial domina and wanted control of my econmy and control of other things in my life... That was not what I looked for... Well she didnt pushed me more than I could handle, but I feeld so tied to the computer and web cam that i dont had any time left more than work and serve mistress

The other online person that i feel that I can trust is Miss Jay.. Well I dont know her i person, but i know that she not would harm her pets...

And I know that if it would be absolutly necessary to get out of the device, cnat that be to hard to cut the lockingpin of with a cutting pliers, I have broken one already by accident, so in an emergancy it should be possible to cut it of...

It like a life assurance

[Swesub]

Have just past 9 nights and 9 days... My goal was 5 days...maby a week...

Well today come the replacment locking pin so I have replaced the pin so now its a better fet to... But the balls gegin to be litle heavy now...

Not sure how long I stay locked up...but one more day... its soon bed time, and to morroe I have some stuff to do down town before work so I guess that i could stay locked up for one more day with out to big trouble.

But I begin to be ltle frustrated now