Punishments for naughty boyfriends

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Hi everyone!

I've said before how me and my bf use teasing and denial as part of our relationship. Sometimes, if he has cum whilst being teased without permission I will punish it. Sometimes it's a physical punishment, spanking etc, other times he might be made to spoil his next orgasm (those times I always make HIM spoil it, not me!).

By reading the forums though I've found something a million times worse for him! Camel linked to a gallery he had made using fantasti.cc of Post Orgasmic Toture. There's good video of it here. It sounds rather omminous, but all it entails is continuing your pleasure after he has orgasmed. It soon becomes so sensitive that he will be begging you to stop. He'll agree to anything while you do this if only you'll agree to stop! :blush:

Has anyone else tried this? It only seems to work if he's handcuffed...otherwise he'll try to stop you touching him!

We've all heard how pain can become pleasure....now it seems that pleasure can become pain! :yes:
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What do the guys think to this? What's it feel like for you? Is it really as bad as my bf makes out?
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Honestly, it is a horrible pain. It's extremely sensitive right after!
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I used to know a Dom who liked to do this as part of his CBT sessions. After torturing the shit out of your cock and balls for a while, he would then "make you happy" by bringing you to an orgasm.

Then he'd proceed to continue "pleasuring" you after the orgasm, before administering more CBT. He really was a damn sadist. I didn't consider myself bi at the time, but he had CBT down like no one I've ever known.

Anyway yes, this definitely works.
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Yes it is as painful as he says. And we do have to be bound someway because we cannot stand it otherwise. The clip was was very exciting to watch. I long to be in that situation. She was very good!
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Sophie wrote:Hi everyone!

I've said before how me and my bf use teasing and denial as part of our relationship. Sometimes, if he has cum whilst being teased without permission I will punish it. Sometimes it's a physical punishment, spanking etc, other times he might be made to spoil his next orgasm (those times I always make HIM spoil it, not me!).
Why not combine?

Tie him down. Tell him if he cums it's going to be spoiled. Then bring him slowly but surely to the edge. And make him tell you when he's there.

Then, kick him hard in the balls. Let him go limp, and bring him to the edge again. Then kick him in the balls again.

Repeat until he's begging you to give him a spoiled orgasm. Make him say, "Please, Mistress Sophie, please ruin my orgasm!"

Then, if you REALLY want to hammer the point home... give him some of that post-orgasmic torture as well.
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While post orgasmic torture or ruined orgasms or spanking are punishment for my bf, he does enjoy them in some kind of way, whereas being kicked in the balls or anything like that is a definate no-no for both of us. I love him, I don't want to cause him pain - not like that anyway! :whistle:
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I've been dreaming of situations like this.
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i love it i wonder what it would feel like with a blow job ?
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what did he do to cause you to be that mean sophie?

that area is very sensitive after an orgasm.
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I think the video looks fun!

You'd lure him into thinking he was getting a treat- by cumming and then doing that after would be the punishment! I think you would have to tie him down though, Men tend to wriggle around too much when you go for that area after cumming!

In my opinion its a good punishment but not something i would do every time, i think it would be a fitting punishment for someone who has cum without my permission though!
I would enjoy doing this because i get love seeing a guy frustrated! lol :lol:

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Post by Jaberwocky »

Yes, this is torture.

Still, if this torture is the price I have to pay to get a handjob from a lovely Lady, I will gladly endure.

And yes, you better tie me down.
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;-) I love tying a man down...

They look so helpless, I'd blindfold too when doing this... Just to make it more extreme!

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I think this looks really great. It kind of reminds me of something an ex used to do, where she would use a lube with 'heat' and have me squirming around on the bed. It makes you feel so powerless, and the combination of pleasure with extreme discomfort is really wonderful
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That's something awful, you are one terrible human being.




Just kidding
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