2026 Gender Adventurers Schedule - Online & San Francisco

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2026 Gender Adventurers Schedule - Online & San Francisco


Community is powerful! We offer monthly online and in-person events geared towards gender exploration - but we prefer to think of ourselves as Gender Adventurers! An adventure is open-ended; it might or might not have a final goal or destination but you gain valuable experience as you progress. Side quests are encouraged; objectives might change and there could be plot twists along the way!

We aim to give you a comfortable place to begin, whether you are going out for the first time or if you dress freely as yourself every day. Taking a small risk, successfully, can be very healing. Everyone starts somewhere in their journey. Everyone was a newbie or a "first timer" at least once in their lives.

There are no medical requirements to join our club. Some members explore advanced remedies to their dysphoria, including hormones, implants, body hair removal or enhancement and many other appearance-based gender signifiers. Overall, "passing" is not our group goal; we aim more for celebration and experimentation.

Over the past 14 years, we've found that some of our members eventually transition, some of us don't, and many of us change some aspect of how we identify along the way. Fluidity is encouraged. Change is healthy! Let's create a space where we feel safe enough to question our identities and explore.

If you're reading this, we offer you permission to participate right now, by allowing yourself to dress freely in solidarity. Even if you never log in to Zoom or join us in San Francisco, you deserve to wear clothes that feel good.

Our in person group meets at 7 PM on the third Wednesday of every month at the Folsom Street Community Center in San Francisco. It is wheelchair accessible. We have changing space available and non-gendered bathrooms. For everyone's health, we provide face masks and ensure good air flow/filtration.

After 2 hours to get to know each other and get dressed up (not everyone feels safe dressing at home), we shift into "party mode" and relocate to our afterparty, one block away, at the Cat Club. This portion of our evening is 21+ at a bar during Playland, their fetish theme night. Photo ID is required, since they serve alcohol. The bouncer at this venue is very used to people not looking like their legal ID photos and is very discreet when it comes to our "secret identities." There is a cover charge and they have a paid coat check. PlayLand features gogo dancers with a small dungeon for BDSM play and allows kinky scenes as long as your genitals and nipples remain covered.

We also have an ONLINE discussion group via Zoom on the second Thursday of each month, from 7 PM until 9:30 PM (Pacific Time). Everyone gets an opportunity to share on the night's topics, suggest additional questions, show off their outfit and get things off their chest. You do not have to turn on your webcam to participate and are welcome to use Zoom filters and "avatars" if you choose to. We also have a lively chat room during the 2.5 hour group.

No one is born knowing how to apply makeup; we are all learning together and helping each other can be empowering instead of embarrassing! The Gender Adventurers also go on field trips to other local events, including Pride Nights with local sports teams, street fairs, art shows, concerts, classes and more.

Our club is 100% donation funded! If you support our goals, please consider a one-time donation to "FriendsofAlice" via Venmo or joining http://www.patreon.com/aliceinbondageland

Here is our complete 2026 schedule of events:

ONLINE International Gender Adventurers January 8th Zoom DOLLY PARTON Night on Zoom
https://fetlife.com/events/1954953

San Francisco Gender Adventurers January 21st DOLLY PARTON NIGHT
https://fetlife.com/events/1954956

ONLINE International Gender Adventurers February 12th on Zoom
https://fetlife.com/events/1954965

San Francisco Gender Adventurers February 18th Meetup & Afterparty
https://fetlife.com/events/1954967

ONLINE International Gender Adventurers BRIDES OF MARCH 12th on Zoom
https://fetlife.com/events/1954969

San Francisco Gender Adventurers BRIDES OF MARCH 18th & Afterparty
https://fetlife.com/events/1954972

Gender Adventurers Hockey Night! San Jose Sharks VS Toronto Maple Leafs PRIDE GAME at SAP Center in San Jose
https://fetlife.com/events/1954983

ONLINE International Gender Adventurers April 9th on Zoom
https://fetlife.com/events/1954973

San Francisco Gender Adventurers April 15th Meetup & Afterparty
https://fetlife.com/events/1954984

ONLINE International Gender Adventurers May 14th on Zoom https://fetlife.com/events/1954986

San Francisco Gender Adventurers May 20th CLOTHING EXCHANGE
https://fetlife.com/events/1954988

ONLINE International Gender Adventurers June 11th Zoom
https://fetlife.com/events/1954991

San Francisco Gender Adventurers June 17th Meetup & Afterparty
https://fetlife.com/events/1954993

ONLINE International Gender Adventurers July 9th FRENCH MAID NIGHT on Zoom
https://fetlife.com/events/1954996

San Francisco Gender Adventurers July 15th FRENCH MAID NIGHT
https://fetlife.com/events/1954998

ONLINE International Gender Adventurers August 13th on Zoom
https://fetlife.com/events/1954999

San Francisco Gender Adventurers August 19th Meetup & Afterparty
https://fetlife.com/events/1955001

ONLINE International Gender Adventurers September 10th BACK TO SCHOOL Night on Zoom
https://fetlife.com/events/1955004

San Francisco Gender Adventurers September 16th BACK TO SCHOOL NIGHT
https://fetlife.com/events/1955006

ONLINE International Gender Adventurers October 8th OKTOBERFEST on Zoom
https://fetlife.com/events/1955008

San Francisco Gender Adventurers October 21st OUR CLUB TURNS FIFTEEN
https://fetlife.com/events/1955010

ONLINE International Gender Adventurers November 12th on Zoom
https://fetlife.com/events/1955011

San Francisco Gender Adventurers November 18th CLOTHESGIVING
https://fetlife.com/events/1955012

ONLINE International Gender Adventurers December 10th on Zoom
https://fetlife.com/events/1955013

San Francisco Gender Adventurers December 16th COOKIE EXCHANGE
https://fetlife.com/events/1955015

SEE YOU SOON!