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Longest denial period

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Well as the title says, what's been your records for longest denial periods. this can be either as a punishment from a superior, or a self imposed thing.
And for a second question how'd it feel to finally get your orgasm afterwards?

I personally have never done a denial period, but I try to make sure my toys never go more than a month without a ruin or two.
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Re: Longest denial period

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1 month with edging everyday, and 3 months with only the occasional edging or anal session. The realease after both times was incredible, was lucky enough not to be made to go back into chastity after and was made to cum 2 more times after the 3 month session
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MissLily wrote: Mon Jul 01, 2024 11:15 am Well as the title says, what's been your records for longest denial periods. this can be either as a punishment from a superior, or a self imposed thing.
And for a second question how'd it feel to finally get your orgasm afterwards?

I personally have never done a denial period, but I try to make sure my toys never go more than a month without a ruin or two.
Well, my longest denial period was around a month. I think it was slightly over by 1 or 2 days. It was my first NNN that I finished successfully. Though I have to admit that I had one wet dream during this time. If you count that wet dream as the end then it's probably only 3 - 3.5 weeks. I personally enjoy denial periods of 2-3 weeks the most and the orgasms afterwards feel most of the time mediocre. You're so long on the edge and enjoyed the frustration and rush of it that the certain burst and decline of horniness in the end leaves me with regret. A ruined orgasm then is way better as it gives an amazing relief and doesn't let you fall down too hard :blush:

In my opinion it's a good idea to try out denial yourself and experience the ups and downs of it. You can learn a lot about your slaves motives, how and where you can push them more. Also how to see if it's too much at one point :-D
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I made three weeks through an online interaction, with an option to stop after each week. She was disappointed when I couldn't go any further :\'-(

I was pretty desperate to cum at that point :w00t:
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When I was a teenager I denied myself from touching for just a little over 8 months once, this was without chastity device or without knowledge this was a fetish, or that it would turn into a fetish.

With a actual physical chastity device only 14 days unfortunatly, my first time wearing it with an ex girlfriends supervision.

Any play after never made it much more past a week, several days tops usually, this play being solo.
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Well i have never tried more than a month of now masturbation at all. The result when i finally ejaculated was a almost like precum. All my semen had been broken down. This is actually a natural thing in the body to break down semen and if your are not masturbating or cum you will not produce any either at least in my age. When it comes to how healthy it is to your prostate in long term and developement of cancer in it is hard to say, there are no definite conclusion and with almost all cancer its hard to find the cause of it. But there is no indication that it is healthy either to go denied. But one thing for sure it is a natural thing for the body to orgasm, ejaculate, even for me who is 57. So its up to you if you want to experiment with your body either knowing is healthy or unhealthy to do it. But of what i can understand is that its natural for the body to swithch on and off producing semen and i dont think the quality of it either is harmed by long denial period.
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My personal best is 107 days. About 90 days of that was in chastity, then a couple weeks of slowly working into stroking and edging again before release. The release was fantastic, but I'd had orgasms just as good, maybe even better with much less denial, and I don't plan on ever going that long again.

I have since gone longer than that (120 something days) with regular (almost daily) stroking and edging, and being allowed only ruins, and that was way more fun. I would do that again, but 60 to 90 days with ruins only is a better fit for me personally, and the chance of accidents is pretty high. I have to be really focused to stay in control.

Generally I go at least 3 to 4 weeks between releases, but regularly go 6 to 8 weeks too.

Like perik43 I'm older so that's a factor too. When I was younger I'd have gone mad with that much denial :lol:

I'll also second what Augustulus said and recommend that you try a period of denial yourself, and one that will stretch you a bit. It would likely be a very eye-opening experience.

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Mine was a little over a month with teasing here and there but with someone controlling me, I find that when someone else controls the teasing I receive I can hold it for a much longer time then me by myself.
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My personal record is 30 days of edging everyday without even a ruined orgasm (I count a ruin as an end of denial).

It was during NNN in 2022 I think and my girlfriend didn't believe I could endure that much. We were having sex as usual but she was the only one cumming...

The funny thing is that in the end the orgasm was awful. I expected something truly remarkable after so much edging and denial but it was painful and not fun at all. Since then I really don't like denials longer than 2 weeks because I forget what I'm even being denied from if it lasts longer than that.
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Re: Longest denial period

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One month with constant, daily teasing and edging. That was a pretty intense period.

The orgasm at the end of that month felt incredible, because of the build up on anticipation of it. But I've had orgasms that felt just as good or better when I've had an orgasm the previous day or even the day before. That build up teasing and denial brings on does add to the feeling of orgasm, but it's just one factor.

The other thing I learned from that is my maximum felt desperation/need/want to cum was somewhere between 5-7 days in. After that denial and being really horny just kind of became a status quo. Part of that may be I knew I was denied for the month compared to not knowing if a certain sessions would let me cum or not. But in terms of build up towards a bigger orgasm, I doubt there's much difference beyond a week of denial or so. Of course, remaining in a horny denied state is still different than say, orgasms once a week.

For me ruins aren't really any sort of relief. They are fun in one way, and almost worse than denial in another way. :lol:
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5 weeks no release, 6 weeks caged releases.

I dont intend to repeat it and to be honest it was so long ago I dont specifically remember the ending :lol:
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Little less than 8months. Had a relationship where she had me in chastity ( shitty original cb2000) and was only out two times a year bday in mid August and Christmas in the end.

Orgasms felt the same, also vey quick. They were no longer something I craved either but mentally those days allowed a special kind of sexual intimacy. We had a sex life while locked but was limited.
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Re: Longest denial period

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6 or 7 days :lol:
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Exactly 30 days. Did it two times, both self-imposed.

Once, I allowed myself to edge, but never cum whenever I felt like for 30 days.
The other I completely avoided porn or any erotic material and went completely no-touch for 30 days.

The orgasm was good. The first one was better. There is a sense of relief with it. Better than most other non-edging orgasms, but nothing actually too special. I think it's just a mix of feelings and a high expectation that it would be a better orgasm, then a confirmation bias that it was better simply because it took me 30 days. Hours of edging or daily edging for shorter periods produced better orgasms... I think if I went 30 days edging every single day it would be more significant, but, nonetheless, nothing too special that I can't get close to or replicate within a few days of hardcore edging.

The ending is definitely not a reason I would care about when trying long denial periods. It's more the challenge of it and the submission to a dominant force that would make me want more of it. The struggle is where the fun is.
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Re: Longest denial period

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I believe my longest was about two weeks. I do find that after just 1 orgasm after denial, the fruseration of denial definetly comes back much sooner than the initial denial periods.

Mixed feelings on ruined orgasms. After the rare ruin after a denial period, possibly even more desparate for a real orgasm. Takes a couple ruins to feel semi drained.
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