About blue balls...

[ballbusting12]

Hi,I have read that some guy can't reach blue balls and he create a topic about this.
This is a real problem for me too,because I also can't reach blue balls.Please help me.I'm a sportsman and every day I have a training,maybe that is a reason why I can't reach blue balls?
And please describe in details how it is when you have a blue balls.

[all2true]

Here are two ways to reach truely blue balls

1. You tie them up so they turn a light blue
(please be careful with this)

2. You tease yourself for a long time so that the blood flow
changes to your testicles and they actually become blue in color.

Plugging my own work I suggest you try the orignal Beat the Tease for one hour
and stroke twice as fast as the sounds, but keep from cumming
Or you could try one of my Fav's (I didn't write)
Kaceys end of the month challenge
http://www.milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=1098
Do as many of Kacey's challenges as you can in one try (without cumming).

[ballbusting12]

What do you mean when you say "(please be careful with this)",I have some fear now
About the tease,this girl is not very attractive for me,and I'm not very exciting.

Also I want to know how it feels when you get blue balls???
(is it hurting?how badly it hurts?...etc.)

[srb]

If you tie your nuts up you are cutting circulation to them off, which is a bad thing. That's what he meant.

Blue balls is like an aching pain, for me it starts at my balls but rides to the pit of my stomach. It's not exactly a desireable thing. Depending on the blue balls, it can be a mild ache to a pretty bad pain. It's nothing like CBT really, and it will dissipate.

The key is abstining from cumming, really. If you want to get real blue balls, just don't jerk off for a week, and bring yourself to orgasm 8 times a day. Or alternately, edge every hour, on the hour. And don't cum. YOu'll know when you feel it. Like I said, it's not desirable, unless you're a real submissive who's into pain. It's kinda like prostate milking in that sense.

[Lindsey]

The pain is due to the entire groin area being flooded with blood and semen. The semen has nowhere to go, causing discomfort. And the blood is in too high a concentration to be effectively re-oxygenated at a normal rate, causing cramping.

-L

[parr]

The pain is due to the entire groin area being flooded with blood and semen. The semen has nowhere to go, causing discomfort. And the blood is in too high a concentration to be effectively re-oxygenated at a normal rate, causing cramping.

interesting, does the semen really build up or does it simply get recycled into the lymph? i'm not too familiar with this area of the body's inner workings but i would imagine that it is like the sperm which are reabsorbed after a while.

parr

[dark]

Most of the semen you will lose while peeing or during the night

But yes the amount increases slightly, though also the semen production decreases the longer you are in denial. I think it's to 90% a mind thing.

[Lindsey]

interesting, does the semen really build up or does it simply get recycled into the lymph? i'm not too familiar with this area of the body's inner workings but i would imagine that it is like the sperm which are reabsorbed after a while.

parr

Probably a bit of both. Though i'm not sure how readily lymph can aid in waste removal during an erection, which isn't exactly a normal balance of blood. I'd imagine the amount of semen 'in the lines', so to speak, exceeds the carrying capacity of the body to deal with it...which seems to be a pre-requisite of the condition to begin with.

I've heard that if it's bad enough, the muscles will relax and release ejaculate involuntarily. But haven't exactly asked a guy, or experimented with that to find out. ;)

As a side note...i'd think it might be a turn on for a guy. Personally, I have an irrational affinity to having my body treated like...well, like a body. It's beyond my control, and I get turned on at the doctor any time they perform a procedure that involves doing something to my body and observing a response. Especially when it's something involuntary. It sounds straight out of a bad porno...but I fantasize about being in a scenario where they, say, show me pictures, touch me in certain places, ask me personal questions and see what things turn me on. Showing me one picture, then a doctor feeling me to see if i'm wet. Then showing me another, feeling me again...and taking a moment to put a check down on his clipboard.

There's just something about someone inflicting intense sensations on you...but you having to keep yourself composed, and act like it doesn't feel good. I find myself doing that to a guy sometimes. Especially doing things like pushing the envelope to see how much I can turn him on while trying to hold a coherent conversation that has nothing to do with sex. Or while he's on the phone with someone, where he has to try his hardest to completely ignore the sensation of my mouth wrapped around him while i'm staring up at him with relentless eye contact and unwavering stimulation. It's become a bit of a game to me. ;)

But I digress. No, I don't have a concrete answer to your question. Though i'm sure we could look it up somewhere.

-L

[parr]

Probably a bit of both. Though i'm not sure how readily lymph can aid in waste removal during an erection, which isn't exactly a normal balance of blood. I'd imagine the amount of semen 'in the lines', so to speak, exceeds the carrying capacity of the body to deal with it...which seems to be a pre-requisite of the condition to begin with.

I've heard that if it's bad enough, the muscles will relax and release ejaculate involuntarily. But haven't exactly asked a guy, or experimented with that to find out. ;)

As a side note...i'd think it might be a turn on for a guy. Personally, I have an irrational affinity to having my body treated like...well, like a body. It's beyond my control, and I get turned on at the doctor any time they perform a procedure that involves doing something to my body and observing a response. Especially when it's something involuntary. It sounds straight out of a bad porno...but I fantasize about being in a scenario where they, say, show me pictures, touch me in certain places, ask me personal questions and see what things turn me on. Showing me one picture, then a doctor feeling me to see if i'm wet. Then showing me another, feeling me again...and taking a moment to put a check down on his clipboard.

There's just something about someone inflicting intense sensations on you...but you having to keep yourself composed, and act like it doesn't feel good. I find myself doing that to a guy sometimes. Especially doing things like pushing the envelope to see how much I can turn him on while trying to hold a coherent conversation that has nothing to do with sex. Or while he's on the phone with someone, where he has to try his hardest to completely ignore the sensation of my mouth wrapped around him while i'm staring up at him with relentless eye contact and unwavering stimulation. It's become a bit of a game to me. ;)

But I digress. No, I don't have a concrete answer to your question. Though i'm sure we could look it up somewhere.

-L

"yeah the i get at the doctors to....." *snaps back*

that does seem like a good explanation - i'm sure you could find lot of guys willing to help you out with your experiment

although are the lymph vessels affected by the blood flow?
just not too sure

parr

[cumhardy]

funny as fuck

[ballbusting12]

I didn't come almost for 3 days,I only tease myself,stroke and edge.Than go soft.And again,and again...
But I did'nt fell any pain in my balls,I even torture and slap them,but I didn't feel like I get blue balls.
Please help me to get blue balls.

[cumhardy]

dont worry about it, everyones different maybe you wont get it...for some people when they say blueballs they just refer to the frustrated feeling, not a physical pain.
come to think of it... i dunno if ive ever had blue balls either....

[srb]

I didn't come almost for 3 days,I only tease myself,stroke and edge.Than go soft.And again,and again...
But I did'nt fell any pain in my balls,I even torture and slap them,but I didn't feel like I get blue balls.
Please help me to get blue balls.

Blue balls has nothing to do with external pain, IE slapping, hitting, or squeezing. It's not an exact science, that's just how I've done it in the past. Part of it maybe is mental, really believeing that you're going to cum.

But I'm a bit of a different nut. Long term denial isn't a problem for me, I'm more stressed out by constantly edging, stopping, edging, stopping, being on the edge, and so on. When I put it away I put it away. And that's it, I just go play a game or watch a movie or chat or go to work or whatever. For me when I edge and then don't cum, it's not that big of a thing, but long ago I 'mastured' the art of multiple (or dry) orgasm. So to me I can edge and cum just about as hard as I ever do with the liquid. It's just the physical aspect of the semen and prostate fluid building up that makes it a physical thing. But I meditate a lot, so maybe I'm different.

Sorry if my advice didn't help, but hey, after the end of 3 days of nonstop edging denial, you should have a hell of an orgasm.

And as is the custom these day's, let's wiki it, shall we? What, is anyone else going to do some research?

Wikipedia's Blue Balls

Cause

Two primary causes identified for "blue balls" include sexually transmitted disease and or lack of orgasm in a sexually aroused male.

Sexually transmitted Infection

Some men who are infected with sexually transmitted lymphogranuloma venereum may experience enlarged lymph nodes in the groin that become fluctuant - and unable to flush lymphatic fluid correctly, resulting in edema (swelling) of the affected area.

Lack of orgasm

The cause is the prolonged sexual stimulation of the erect penis (intentional or unintentional), that does not result in orgasm and ejaculation. This can, in some circumstances, be a consensual sexual act as part of erotic sexual denial.

During sexual arousal in a male, the sympathetic nervous system increases its inputs to the genital tissues, resulting in increased blood flow to the testicles and prostate areas. As this happens, other fluid outflow muscles constrict, causing less bodily fluid to leave the area than enter, ensuring a high enough regional blood pressure to allow a sustained erection for penetration during sexual intercourse. Erection occurs with the parasympathetic nervous system's local release of nitric oxide, causing relaxation of the smooth muscles in the arteries of the corpus cavernosum and resulting in blood engorgement.

If orgasm is not achieved, blood and lymphatic fluid tend to pool, and the blood becomes oxygen-deprived. The technical term for this is vasocongestion.

Some men may deprive themselves of an orgasm purposely to prolong sexual activity. Their sexual partner may also request that they refrain from ejaculation for a longer period to increase their duration of sex. If this is the case, massaging the testicles or using a vibrator on the testicles during the prolonged sexual activity may prevent the blood from pooling and actually prevent or decrease the severity of blue balls.

Men with priapism or orchialgia may experience an extreme, prolonged form of blue balls, which may require medical attention.

Treatment

The easiest way to relieve the symptoms of blue balls is through ejaculation. The resultant ejaculation jump-starts the sympathetic nervous system, which increases blood flow through the penis area, dissipating the fluid buildup. Even without orgasm, the symptoms of blue balls usually subside within an hour of onset, but they can also last much longer, up to 12 hours or longer in men older than 40. While well known in folklore, there was scant information in the medical literature until an article by Chalett and Nerenberg in Pediatrics 2000 which found little formal data regarding the condition but concluded that "the treatment is sexual release, or perhaps straining to move a very heavy object—in essence doing a Valsalva maneuver."[1] Simply lying down can also sometimes help the pain associated with blue balls.

One folk remedy for blue balls is the cold shower. Putting cold substances on the crotch region supposedly helps. Coolnurse.com states that "the cool water of the shower would stimulate new warm blood to the scrotum," but local cooling might instead work by causing arterioles in the scrotal skin to constrict, thus decreasing blood flow to those tissues and allowing fluid to leave the congested areas.[2] Sometimes pseudoephedrine can help quicken the process; however, analgesics do not generally help as they do not involve prostaglandins.

Homologous condition in women

Women can also experience discomfort due to unrelieved vasocongestion as their pelvic area also becomes engorged with blood during sexual arousal. They can experience pelvic heaviness (aka blue walls or blue labia) and aching if they do not reach orgasm. The general term pelvic congestion refers to such pain as it occurs in either sex.

But hey, don't let a well researched and informed post hurt the speculation

[Jobicek]

I've heard that if it's bad enough, the muscles will relax and release ejaculate involuntarily. But haven't exactly asked a guy, or experimented with that to find out. ;)

You could say it's fail safe. Spontaneous ejaculation affect mostly teenagers. Ejaculation is critical for health of male and from time to time body will just do it for you. Latest research suggest that ejaculating almost every day significantly reduces possibility of prostate cancer (21 times or more per month). So it's not the optimal rate but I think without it we could get into some serious health issues. Because some men enjoy massage of prostate (or even considering better than ordinary orgasm) I would recommend draining him with repeated ruined orgasms :evilgrin:.

One way or another health should be top priority. If you are into denial or CBT you should visit a doctor for complete check at least once a year. Especially making a spermiogram and checking your testicles, urethra and prostate.