wearing / stroking with cock plug

[Jackall]

Im a beginner with this but I tried steel sounds before. Now I bought a silicone plug with sterile water based lube , but its more like a gel, very thick and didnt do the job well. Maybe precum is the safest option for lubing, it worked with the steel, but I didnt have enough when trying the silicone toy. But now Im concerned to leave it in or use it for a longer tease. Water based lubes tend to wear out / dry, other types are not recommended. Stroking is fine at first but I guess because it moves around a bit inside it starts to scrape after a few dozen strokes. The burning after tends to ruin it for me. Silicone plug seemed like a good idea because id like to combine it with jerking or cbt tasks and a bit worried that the hardness of steel could hurt with sudden movements. Plus steel doesnt stay in place.
If you have experience / recommendations please chime in, whether its toy shape /material or kind of lube that can make things easier.
I noticed there are not many sounding webteases (or at all) and I start to understand why, this kind of thing seems to require a personalized approach and doing things at your own pace. But im still hoping to crack the code so to speak

[stallionBoi]

It's definitely a tease that you want to ease into over time. I gradually found myself plunging the toy continuously deeper, but was afraid to actually stroke with sounding toys inserted....

So I used a couple fingers from each hand on either side, teasing both sides, up and down, quickly but gently. Had a very intense "minimized orgasm" with this method.

Have never actually used lube with urethral sounds, preferring to slowly tease myself up until I'm oozing copious amounts of precum. Normally try to drink lots of water for overall health, plus (hopefully) more bodily fluids.

[Jackall]

Hmm this I something that could be put into a tease reasonably safely (stroking the sides gently)