Some questions about toys !

[BBBeanie]

I’m in a similar position, I don’t live alone and it was pretty daunting to buy my first set of toys. The people I live with tend to ask questions whenever I get a package and can be pretty nosy so hiding what I buy and keepin it hidden once I do is always a concern.

My solution was to order online, most fetish sites have discrete packaging which is usually just a blank box with a shipping label that reads a generic title on what’s inside, nothing to reveal the sexual nature of the contents. I have a P.O. Box that is shared among the residents so it’s not shipped to my door, I just make sure I’m the one picking up the mail for when it’s coming. Not sure if they have P.O. Boxes or something similar in Europe but they aren’t too expensive and are a good private alternate address you can have without moving out.

As for sites , I’ve had experience buying from the oxyshop, lock the cock and fleshlight for toys I’ve bought, I believe they ship to Europe, most of these sites have a US or European mode to pay with the different currencies. They take a bit of time shipping 2 weeks to a month from order date. But they came in boxes wrapped in a colored film to prevent any nosy postal employees or neighbors.

As for hidden products I don’t know if they sell them in containers that are misleading like lubricants in hand cream bottles due to the legal issues, but switching containers would be a good idea to hide them once you do get them. Unless you were looking for alternatives to lubricants, in the past I’ve used lotions for masturbation, but I don’t recommend that for any insertion play.

Hope some of my experience helps, feel free to ask more questions if you have any

[DSH]

You don't live alone?
Do you live with your partner or in a shared apartment (student or apprenticeship) or still with your parents?

Buying online is the best idea ^^.
Unfortunately, I only know a few German-speaking sites,
but you can get something like that on Amazon.

Hide sex toys get yourself a lockable metal box. No matter who you live with, everyone should understand that you should also have your secrets when you ask why it is locked.



Bad Alternatives for lubricant:

- Any kind of cream based on paraffins is not a good idea as they make latex and co. Brittle. And can promote the spread / multiplication of bacteria in the genital area.

- Any oils (edible oils, baby oils, body lotion and so on) are also not suitable as they can possibly irritate the intimate area, as the lubricating effect is not 100%, and they can contain foreign substances such as perfume or something.
Have used olive oil before that was not good and is a huge mess.

Good Alternatives for lubricant:

-Pure aloe vera gel, jelly without chemical additives or oils, is suitable.

-Vaginal cream for vaginal dryness from the pharmacy, for example, is also suitable.
But be careful, only for solo fun, if you protect yourself with condoms, you have to make sure that they are free of paraffin and not contain oil.

Top priority for lubricants you use:
-as few ingredients as possible
-Water-based

This is safest for your intimate area. There is no need for irritation, burning or sore spots there.

[mrman]

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/

https://www.bondara.co.uk/

[SilverSlut]

I can second that lovehoney is a decent site that sells good toys. They ship discreetly, too.

As for "disguised" lubes, you can try coconut oil. I am male, so I absolutely DO NOT know how vaginas et al react to coconut oil, but it's a safe lube for men. I recommend it because it's also a super common cooking oil and you can get it at a supermarket. Just make sure it's the pure stuff.

[BBBeanie]

The Oxy Shop is a bdsm site that sells a variety of toys for both sexes

As for edible lubes they exist, just look for flavored lubes, they will be clearly labeled if they are edible. They just won’t be great for insertable play. But they are safe to swallow, just don’t eat it like candy, light amounts every now and then.

[DSH]

Do someone know if there is some "edible lube" ? I don't know if my question is clear Like lube you can suck and can add a good taste ?

In theory, this should be possible with all commercial lubricants, eating them in small quantities. Since most of them are declared as medical products. Is also in the description of the respective article.
Just take a look at a large supermarket in town that will definitely sell something like that and read the product description on the back. If it is suitable for oral sex, it can also be safely eaten.
It also says "no food, but consumption is harmless"

Unfortunately I couldn't find an English description, but I hope it helps you anyway.

Spoiler: show

And otherwise I wish you a lot of fun in the future here on milovana with the many beautiful teases.

[Scattermike]

I feel with you, still remember how afraid I was to get anything when I still lived with my parents!

I am based in Germany, therefore I do not know how helpful these hints may be:

Lube: Here you can get it overpriced in pharmacies, and also some drugstores like "Rossmann" have it for regular prices. On some men's toilets in shops and restaurants, there are "Condomat" vending machines which sell not only condoms, but sometimes also lube or even toys (see below). You can even get it via Amazon, for example.

Toys: In the "Condomat" mentioned above, they sell a variety of "Pussy-in-the-pocket", which is a water-inflatable one-time-use penetratable "thing" made out of foil. This is the first toy I ever tried At least the drugstore "Müller" is now selling female toys like vibrators in the same section as they sell condoms. First time I bought toys also from a sex store. There is nothing wrong about going there. If somebody asks "why you were there", claim you were buying special condoms. Like for example, they also sell female condoms, licking sheets (for cunnilingus) and more special condoms. As for online ordering, I decided to go via Amazon and have the order delivered to a pick-up place. Amazon has their own "lockers", but they also dispatch to DHL "Packstation" and both DHL and Hermes shops. I guess the same might work for UPS and other carriers. In the old days, before Amazon, some of the stores selling everything via catalog (mostly clothes) also included a small section with sex toys. To my dismay, they only displayed the female toys, the male toys were only shown as boxes. I guess, they were afraid to show them...

If people are nosy about packages and ordering to the pick-up locations does not work, order things close to their birthday and claim there is a present inside. Or have them delivered to a friend, claiming there is a present for your parents inside...

Good luck!