My eternal struggle with chastity ... anyone else?

[sub_Peter]

To make this quick: Whenever I don't have a Mistress, I fantasize a lot about chastity. I want to be locked up, I want her to hold the key, etc. I think you all know the thoughts :)

But then I get into a new relationship, and I do get locked up. So coool!
1h later: gosh I want out and cum
24h later: I really want out and cum
48h later: ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
72h later: *sobs* *begs* Why did I ever wish for this? I wanna cum so badly!
....

And that cycle starts all over again after I am unlocked. What is wrong with me?

[GodDragon]

To make this quick: Whenever I don't have a Mistress, I fantasize a lot about chastity. I want to be locked up, I want her to hold the key, etc. I think you all know the thoughts :)

But then I get into a new relationship, and I do get locked up. So coool!
1h later: gosh I want out and cum
24h later: I really want out and cum
48h later: ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
72h later: *sobs* *begs* Why did I ever wish for this? I wanna cum so badly!
....

And that cycle starts all over again after I am unlocked. What is wrong with me?

You only want out or also want to cum?
Well first of all I myself think that chastity without any teasing done, like as a daily or every other day thing is kinda boring.
So of course you want some action. And of course I want to cum as well, but, it's also part of the fun. I mean tease and denial is about the sub wanting to cum but being denied. That's the fun. And it would defeat the point if the sub wouldn't want to cum.

Additionally you might want to try to work your way there with your Top. Like 2 days denied, 3 days, 4 days, 5 days...
And once you've reached a week you can start like playing games that are limited to like 10 days at max. Maybe introduce ruined orgasms as a means of help to get you through it (and also being evil and replacing your scheduled orgasms with a ruined one ).

[sub_Peter]

Well getting unlocked for play is good, play and cumming is better xD

But I think I didn't explain to well. I have been in chastity for 9 days straight and been denied for over two weeks before. But still, put me two days in chastity and my brain starts to crave that orgasm. To the point where when I do get out and cum, I feel great, not disappointed that I couldn't do more days.

It feels like a lot of denial and chastity fans like to go longer and longer and push themselves.

I dont know, maybe I am just weird.

[GodDragon]

Well getting unlocked for play is good, play and cumming is better xD

But I think I didn't explain to well. I have been in chastity for 9 days straight and been denied for over two weeks before. But still, put me two days in chastity and my brain starts to crave that orgasm. To the point where when I do get out and cum, I feel great, not disappointed that I couldn't do more days.

It feels like a lot of denial and chastity fans like to go longer and longer and push themselves.

I dont know, maybe I am just weird.

Everyone is different honestly. I wouldn't want to go longer than like a month at max. I think after that it starts to get repetitive and boring.
Don't let yourself be influenced by other people. And if you can't enjoy more than 2 days in chastity that's you. If you want to push yourself make your Mistress push you, but not too hard. Go for like 5 days in chastity instead.

[forbiddendesire]

I agree with GodDragon. Chastity is mostly fun for me if there is some regular teasing, atleast a little everyday. I don't always have to be unlocked, sometimes just teasing by watching porn/rubbing balls/perineum or anal is great. But I would want to be unlocked for some stroking every few days, let's say every 3 days. And I've found in general after about 15 days, I kind of get saturated and start getting bored (but I think this is because at that point I've been so crazy horny I'm watching a lot more porn, so I think I just start to get desensitised). I've never managed to go more than 15 days without cumming accidentally.

I recently introduced my gf into chastity. She's usually submissive, but into tease and denial (on both of us, but not chastity). When I've played around with chastity with her, my interest usually drops (though I think that's because I'm slowly getting less interested in sex and more into masturbation...)