i am new to the Tease and Denial stuff and i cant stay denied for a long time my maximum is 4 days is there any tips for me to hold for a longer days
I need your help
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Anafake22
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I need your help
Hello guys i need some help
i am new to the Tease and Denial stuff and i cant stay denied for a long time my maximum is 4 days is there any tips for me to hold for a longer days
i am new to the Tease and Denial stuff and i cant stay denied for a long time my maximum is 4 days is there any tips for me to hold for a longer days
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Re: I need your help
What is it that makes you give up? A lack of willpower or is it that you physically can't handle it longer?
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Re: I need your help
I don't know if this will help any, but, in the past, I tried several times to edge once a day for three days without cumming. The first two days went fine without any flaws, but on the third day I always ended up having a discharge. It wasn't fully cumming, because as soon as it started I let go. Some of us just have different limits.
You COULD try to have ruined orgasms to work yourself up to staying denied, idk. Hope this helps.
You COULD try to have ruined orgasms to work yourself up to staying denied, idk. Hope this helps.
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Re: I need your help
its a lack of willpower i feel like i cant control my self anymoreSexless Dummy wrote: Fri Jan 03, 2020 10:01 pm What is it that makes you give up? A lack of willpower or is it that you physically can't handle it longer?
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Re: I need your help
Thank you so much anything being said in this topic is most likely helpfulmike225 wrote: Fri Jan 03, 2020 10:19 pm I don't know if this will help any, but, in the past, I tried several times to edge once a day for three days without cumming. The first two days went fine without any flaws, but on the third day I always ended up having a discharge. It wasn't fully cumming, because as soon as it started I let go. Some of us just have different limits.
You COULD try to have ruined orgasms to work yourself up to staying denied, idk. Hope this helps.
and if there is anything else please tell me :D
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Re: I need your help
What does staying denied mean for you exactly? Just edging or no touching at all? I think that's a big difference. I am fairly content with just edging, but not getting to play at all drives me nuts.
Social events are a good distraction. Weekend visits are the best. When you're going to be away for the weekend, deny yourself starting on monday before that. Four days later you will be trapped and you get an extra 2-3 days of denial on top for free.
Apparently exercising is said to help, too.
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Re: I need your help
Thank you so much for the great tips it will help me alot .. i meant staying without touching at allundeniable_denial wrote: Sat Jan 04, 2020 7:30 pmWhat does staying denied mean for you exactly? Just edging or no touching at all? I think that's a big difference. I am fairly content with just edging, but not getting to play at all drives me nuts.
Social events are a good distraction. Weekend visits are the best. When you're going to be away for the weekend, deny yourself starting on monday before that. Four days later you will be trapped and you get an extra 2-3 days of denial on top for free.
Apparently exercising is said to help, too.
Yeah it makes me feel crazy .. maybe because i am new to this, after a while i will get used to it :)
