I think I broke my libido?
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Re: I think I broke my libido?
Don't freak out man! Every man goes through this sooner or later. The harder you try to get it up, the less hard it will be. Its a vicious cycle. Just give it time, and it will sort itself.
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Re: I think I broke my libido?
A lot of things effect sex drive
even in us men
Stress is a much bigger factor than many guys will admit
Are you in Finals week?
Are you Ill?
Seriously worried?
Having Job problems?
Significan other leave you?
All these things effect sex drive
Here something that works
Say to yourself
I will not think about sex during the day
usually causes the mind to kick right into thinking about it.
Give yourself permission to NOT and then it may help Yes I can
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even in us men
Stress is a much bigger factor than many guys will admit
Are you in Finals week?
Are you Ill?
Seriously worried?
Having Job problems?
Significan other leave you?
All these things effect sex drive
Here something that works
Say to yourself
I will not think about sex during the day
usually causes the mind to kick right into thinking about it.
Give yourself permission to NOT and then it may help Yes I can
return.
to thine own self be true
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Re: I think I broke my libido?
If you still have this problem in a day, PM me.
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Re: I think I broke my libido?
I would have to say you've got quite the legitimate health concern on your hands, although a lot of it could deal with your emotional status (or bouncing off what alltrue said) and general stress. That said, maybe you just need the right spark, and if Lindsey can't jostle your libido from off to on, then perhaps you should look into seeing a Doctor...or something.
Re: I think I broke my libido?
LOL!Lindsey wrote:If you still have this problem in a day, PM me.
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baultista all I can tell you is that a man has not to be always horny. Sometimes I am not in the mood, even after I was teased and denied for a couple of days. But a whole week with 19 years is not common. Maybe you should visit a doc and ask him about
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Re: I think I broke my libido?
Hmm.. Porn is.... a funny thing, in porn you can escalate your senses, always looking for a bigger and bigger thrill until you hit a wall where nothing will turn you on anymore. I dont think you should ever stress it :)
If you are turned on but nothings going on downstairs, i'd say THAT is a reason to see a doctor, but i donno.... better safe then sorry i guess. You'll need to be the judge.
If you are turned on but nothings going on downstairs, i'd say THAT is a reason to see a doctor, but i donno.... better safe then sorry i guess. You'll need to be the judge.
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Re: I think I broke my libido?
That remembers me to the new South Park episode:Salt wrote:Hmm.. Porn is.... a funny thing, in porn you can escalate your senses, always looking for a bigger and bigger thrill until you hit a wall where nothing will turn you on anymore. I dont think you should ever stress it :)
If you are turned on but nothings going on downstairs, i'd say THAT is a reason to see a doctor, but i donno.... better safe then sorry i guess. You'll need to be the judge.
Randy: I haven't jerked off for 2 weeks.
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Randy: You don't understand. I need the Internet to jerk off. Once you jerk off to two japanese girls puking in each others mouth, you can't go back to Playboy.
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Re: I think I broke my libido?
dark wrote:LOL!You like the challenge
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Re: I think I broke my libido?
These medical reasons almost never come over night. Unless you have had an injury or something.
You could try to test if you have any nocturnal erections, by wrapping some thin paper loop tightly around your best part during sleep and see if the paper is ripped in the morning. (I know it sounds silly....)
If thats positive, its all in the head. In that case see my post from above: The more you force it, the less likely it is going to happen. Relax and wait. Don't watch porn, and don't touch.
If it is negative, that still doesn't mean much, could just be the paper is too strong or so.
You could have "him" locked away in a CB3000 for a couple days. That could fix your head maybe :)
You could try to test if you have any nocturnal erections, by wrapping some thin paper loop tightly around your best part during sleep and see if the paper is ripped in the morning. (I know it sounds silly....)
If thats positive, its all in the head. In that case see my post from above: The more you force it, the less likely it is going to happen. Relax and wait. Don't watch porn, and don't touch.
If it is negative, that still doesn't mean much, could just be the paper is too strong or so.
You could have "him" locked away in a CB3000 for a couple days. That could fix your head maybe :)
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Re: I think I broke my libido?
You don't get a problem from that bike seat you mention from one day to another.
The fact that you mention it (and your other remarks) tells me that you worry about this way too much to be mentally relaxed. It's like when you have a cramped muscle, the pain makes you cramp more instead of less. Think of it as a cramp in your brain.
If there were a "technical" reason behind it, you would feel the drive, but just wouldn't be able to get it up.
baultista, I was sort of half joking, half serious about that CB. Because that could change your thoughts from "trying desperately to get horny" to "I'd rather not want to think about it right now..."
The fact that you mention it (and your other remarks) tells me that you worry about this way too much to be mentally relaxed. It's like when you have a cramped muscle, the pain makes you cramp more instead of less. Think of it as a cramp in your brain.
If there were a "technical" reason behind it, you would feel the drive, but just wouldn't be able to get it up.
baultista, I was sort of half joking, half serious about that CB. Because that could change your thoughts from "trying desperately to get horny" to "I'd rather not want to think about it right now..."
Re: I think I broke my libido?
baultista wrote:Well, what the heck is a CB 3000 anyways??sbc12345 wrote:You don't get a problem from that bike seat you mention from one day to another.
The fact that you mention it (and your other remarks) tells me that you worry about this way too much to be mentally relaxed. It's like when you have a cramped muscle, the pain makes you cramp more instead of less. Think of it as a cramp in your brain.
If there were a "technical" reason behind it, you would feel the drive, but just wouldn't be able to get it up.
baultista, I was sort of half joking, half serious about that CB. Because that could change your thoughts from "trying desperately to get horny" to "I'd rather not want to think about it right now..."

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Re: I think I broke my libido?
;) No need for thanks. You should only talk with me if you want to.baultista wrote: I guess anything is worth a shot at this point. Thanks?
That being said, i'm online right now, and you take priority over any other interested parties if you happen to pop in. ;)
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