A Course for the Unowned girl
By Master Ivan
[This is written for those females wishing to be trained but not yet having their own Master. Masters are welcome to explore it as well and may feel free to learn what they can from the methodology.]
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You say you wish to be trained as a slavegirl?
This could mean a number of things...
It may mean that you dream of a night of submission, where a powerful Master has his way with you for an evening...then you take your pleasure as well and everyone goes home. And never in that night of submission do you really submit, or find out what it means to be a slavegirl.
It may mean that you wish a longer term arrangement, perhaps on a live-in basis, perhaps even 24/7 (24 hours a day, 7 days a week), within your stated limits. Never in such an arrangement would you experience the feeling of being truly under the control of a Master, being His property.
You may have an image, a fantasy in your mind, of what serving a Master really means. And you may presume that your prospective Master will adhere to the conditions of that image. There too, you set limits on your submission, conditions on your giving. You are not being a slavegirl.
A slavegirl, in real life, has no limits. She demands no pleasure, gives without reservation or condition, her entire being centered ONLY on what it takes to give pleasure to her Master.
For most women, this is a far cry from their fantasies. It seems demanding, imposing, even selfish on the part of her Master. Yet, indeed, this is precisely what it means to be a slavegirl. It means to be an owned girl, subject to ONLY her Master’s desires, having no desires of her own except to please Him.
This is an ideal not easily accomplished, except for the most devoted and well-trained slavegirls. And even then, one must moderate the activity with an awareness of the demands of reality. The best Masters, regardless of how cruel or demanding they may seem on the surface, will also take great care of their property, to insure the health and well-being of their slavegirl so she may provide Him with the best service possible over a long period of enslavement.
For a slavegirl to meet that demand, to give up her ego, pride and personal needs, to eliminate the fears of serving in whatever way a Master requires, all take time, effort and a great deal of training.
Here, I present a method that will take a slavegirl a long way towards this depth of submission and give her the opportunity to experience a small taste of what it really means to be an owned girl.
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1 The Mirror
A slavegirl may not conceal herself from anyone, especially from the eyes of her Master.
To begin, the trainee must have a mirror available where she can see her entire body either from her knees or while standing upright. The space in front of the mirror would ideally be bare wood, although a carpeted surface is acceptable.
Each night just before bedtime, the trainee must kneel, naked, before the mirror. Her knees must be widely spread, opened enough to reveal her cunt completely. Her wrists must be crossed behind her back as if bound. Her shoulders should be pulled back, her chest thrust out to present her breasts, her head upright.
Kneel there and look at your body. See yourself as a naked slavegirl. See your body opened and inviting to a Master. See your tits thrust out brazenly, begging for the touch of a Master.
Do NOT break this position. Do not move your wrists from behind your back. Do not allow your knees to close. Do not conceal your body in any way. Remain in position for fifteen minutes.
When you finish, immediately go to your computer and while still kneeling and naked, start a journal of your feelings and experiences while doing this training exercise. Express what you felt like to see yourself opened and revealed, talk about your arousal, things that disturbed you or bothered you, as well as any violations of the required position if you failed to hold it.
Until you finish the journal entry, remain naked and kneeling, do not cover yourself in ANY way, do not rise to your feet, and do NOT touch your cunt or nipples.
Your body is the property of your Master. It is no longer yours to touch, to cover or to pleasure without your Master’s permission.
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Should you find it difficult to maintain your position, my trainees regularly use a rope loop to bind their own hands.
Tie off a length of rope large enough to pass both your hands thru with some slack. Take one wrist and move it up between your forearms, and around to its original position. This should put a double twist in the rope between your wrists and tighten the loop to fit snug around you. Adjust the length until it is very snug but not tight enough to cut off circulation. With practice, you will find it easy to use to bind your wrists behind your back for the duration of your exercises.
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Even with the rope, some girls find it difficult to maintain their position. If the rope loop is not enough to keep you in position for the full duration of training, use a pair of spring clothespins for punishment.
If you break position, note the time remaining in your exercise. Double that remaining time. Clip the clothespins onto your nipples, re-bind your hands behind your back, then complete the doubled time remaining.
Should the phone ring during training, you have two choices. Either ignore the phone, or put the clothespins on your nipples BEFORE answering it, being sure to also note the time. Remain kneeling while talking, allowing the clothespins to aid you in keeping your centering on your training while punishing you for the delay. When the call is completed, resume your position, including the clothespins, and double the remaining time.
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After two weeks, increase the time at the mirror to half an hour. Another two weeks, increase it to forty-five minutes. And in two more weeks, to a full hour.
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2 Cock Sucking
A slavegirl’s most important function is to bring pleasure to her Master, especially sexual pleasure. And the most important means of bringing sexual pleasure to a Master is for her to use her mouth.
Any slavegirl worth her feed and water will be trained to be an expert cocksucker. A girl who is too proud to kneel before her Master with His cock in her mouth will never be a good slavegirl. The best slavegirls find this the most fulfilling position they can be in, pleasing their Master in the way most Masters prefer. They will show no hint of pride, being willing to suck His cock in the privacy of their bedroom, or in a brightly lit living room, or in the front seat of their car as He drives down a public street, or outdoors in a public area, wherever He can provide her with security to do so--NOT privacy. Should He order her to suck Him off--or any of His male friends--at a gathering where others will watch her sucking, perhaps even wishing to use her mouth as well, this will mean nothing to her. A cock needs a slave’s mouth to suck it and bring it pleasure. Only that is important to a slavegirl.
To begin training, you must have a cock to practice on. The best thing, of course, is to use a live Master’s cock. If a real Master is not available, there is an item marketed called the “Realistic Cock”. It is of a reasonable size, actually molded from the real thing. It includes a set of balls, and it can be attached to your mirror using a suction cup on the base. Last time I saw it, it was priced at about thirty-five dollars (American).
Attach it to your mirror at a realistic height. For reference, the best way to judge the right height is to stand at the mirror yourself, then note the height of your own cunt. Add two inches to compensate for the greater typical height of a male, then attach the cock to that point.
Kneel and take the cock into your mouth. For the duration of your cocksucking practice, the cock should not leave your mouth for any reason. Your hands should also be bound behind your back for this exercise--you do not need your hands to suck a cock, only your mouth. Too many times, a girl will use her hands to jerk off the cock she is supposed to be sucking. This is cheating, substituting a handjob for a proper blowjob. Also, girls often use their hands to limit the cock’s penetration into their mouth or throat. The only proper use of her hands should be to caress His body or to encourage Him to thrust deeper into her mouth. They should never touch the cock she is sucking. And of course, as girls proceed in their training, sucking cock will arouse them as well, tempting them to use their hands to pleasure themselves. A true slavegirl gives pleasure to her Master, sacrificing the demands of her own body for pleasure or comfort.
Begin with a loving kiss, a worshipful kiss, to the cockhead, then lick the entire length of the cock with your tongue, being sure to lick the balls as well. Be devoted and thorough with your licking and sucking--you’re not doing a school quiz here, you’re bringing pleasure to your Master. Show Him your devotion and immerse yourself in your labors. Show Him that your devotion to the pleasure of His cock is the most important thing in your life.
Take the cock into your mouth and begin sucking in earnest. Learn to keep your lips firm around the shaft, your teeth out of the way and your throat open to His thrusts. Vary your strokes to make the experience interesting and stimulating for Him. Do not rush--the longer His cock remains in your mouth, the more pleasure you can give Him. If He pulses or thrusts as if about to cum, slow your strokes and prolong His pleasure, until He forcefully takes hold of your head to fire His load where he wishes.
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When you suck off a real Master, there is ONLY one proper thing to do with his cum, and that is to swallow it. He may interrupt that process Himself if He wishes you to display His cum on your face or body, but if not, swallow every drop lovingly and with great appreciation, drinking down the cum like Manna from the Gods. Learn to love the taste of His cum, to hunger for it, to yearn for it, to beg Him for it, to find nothing in the universe more arousing for you than to have His cock thrusting deep into your mouth and filling you with His cum to swallow.
When He finishes, continue to nurse on His cock gently, soothingly. He has just has an orgasm and wishes to feel a gentle mouth on Him then. He will signal you in subtle ways when He is pleased and your mouth may move off His cock--you will then kiss and lick your way down to His balls which you will lick clean of all His sweat, perhaps His ass-crack as well, to make sure He is well-cleaned and comfortable when you have finished. Finally, be sure to thank Him for allowing you to suck His cock, allowing you to give Him the ultimate pleasure that a slavegirl can give her Master. Do not be repelled at using your tongue on any of his body parts. Whether clean or dirty, it is the duty of a slavegirl’s mouth to stimulate Him, to soothe Him, to caress and worship Him, and if He is unclean, to clean Him as well.
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You should begin doing this exercise in the morning when your mirror time in the evening goes up to thirty minutes--begin with fifteen minutes of cocksucking, first thing when you awaken. When your mirror time increases to forty-five minutes, increase your cocksucking to thirty. Always do your cocksucking for fifteen minutes less than your mirror time--but feel free to suck longer if you wish.
Same rules apply for interruptions, including the phone. Clothespins on your nipples, and double the time remaining when the interruption takes place. When finished, remain naked and kneeling and make your journal entry.
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3 Ass Training
A girl must make available all of her holes for the pleasure of her Master. Her ass is nearly as important as her mouth.
It is said that a slavegirl’s ass is more appropriate to be fucked than her cunt. Her cunt is self-lubricating, making entry easier. It stretches easier than her ass, can be fucked with less pain and provides the girl with far more pleasure. Yet, it is for these reasons that her ass is more appropriate. A Master enjoys causing a slavegirl some discomfort when using her. He also enjoys knowing that she will only take pleasure when He consents to it, when He feels she has earned it. So, for these reasons, her ass is far better a target for Him than her cunt.
A slavegirl’s ass should be opened for her Master’s use. To begin, buy a small butt plug. The smallest ones are smooth and finger shaped. Use some lubrication, insert it and keep it in place for twenty minutes to an hour. Take a length of rope, tie it around your waist, then pass it thru your crotch and up over your ass to hold in the plug, loop it around the rear part of the waist rope, then pass it again thru your crotch knotting it off in front. This will suffice to hold in the smaller plugs.
When you insert the plug for the first time, first clamp your nipples with the clothespins, then insert the plug. The clothespins come off when the plug is fully inserted.
The plug should be used every other day. In two weeks or so, when your ass is comfortable with the smallest one, move up to a medium one, with a diameter of an inch or so. These can be found in a realistic style in sizes from an inch to over three inches across. Start small; when you grow used to one size, move up until you can handle the larger ones.
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There is a very basic rule for slaves around the use of her lower holes. Whenever anything penetrates either of her lower holes, whether it is a Master’s cock, a dildo or her own fingers, she should always clean the object with her mouth, as soon as possible after withdrawal.
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4 slave garb
A slavegirl does not cover her body without permission of her Master, and then ONLY with what her Master permits her to wear. Also, a slavegirl, when she is permitted to dress, dresses in clothing that can be removed as quickly as possible to allow her Master instant access to her body.
A free woman’s clothing is unacceptable for wearing by a slavegirl. It conceals far too much, it does nothing to reveal her, it interferes with her Master’s access. So, over time, a good slavegirl will discard her “free-woman’s” clothes and replace them with clothing appropriate to a slavegirl.
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If a slavegirl is to wear a bra, it should be made of material sheer enough to reveal her aureoles and present her nipples explicitly--or else not cover her nipples at all. Ideally, she should wear bras that support and lift her breasts without covering them. Also, the closure of the bra is best found at the front where her Master’s hands can remove it with little effort.
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Panties should always be transparent, should always have little more than a thread to pass thru her ass. The best selections should be removable with a tie at the sides so they can be put on and taken off while wearing leg irons.
Pantyhose is completely unacceptable. All pantyhose should be discarded and replaced with stockings and garter belts. Stockings should run the range from conservative pastels up to fishnets or patterned seamed stockings. Her Master will indicate His preferences.
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Footwear many times says a great deal about a girl. Sneakers or running shoes should never be worn unless it is for actual exercise or for activities where her Master permits them to be worn. At all other times, she should grow accustomed to wearing heels at least three inches high, both pumps and sandals. Over time, she should learn to tolerate heels of up to six inches in arch.
Note--the arch of a foot is not the same as the heel height. If you have a five inch heel and a platform sole two inches thick, the net arch of the foot is only three inches. Girls with a longer foot will be able to tolerate a higher arch.
Take a couple of paperback books a total of about two inches thick. Place them on the floor, then stand with your heels on the books and your toes on the floor. This is effectively the equivalent of a two-inch arch. Add more height, to see what you can currently tolerate. Most girls can tolerate a three inch arch. If you add more height to the stack of books, you’ll get to a point where the front of your leg forms a straight line from your knee to your toes. When you reach this point, the height of the books is the maximum arch for the size of your foot.
Learn to wear shoes with this maximum arch as soon as possible, so that you can tolerate them for some hours without complaint.
The result of wearing the higher arched shoes will be a walk that will move your body in a far more provocative manner, as well as an appearance that will send the right kind of message to men who observe you in public places.
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Here’s a good exercise that will help you to strengthen your feet and enable you to wear higher heels.
Take a pair of bottle caps, the kind used on beer or soda bottles that require a “church key” to open. Use some duct tape or adhesive tape, and securely tape one cap to each of your heels, right to the flesh of your foot. Walk around your house for awhile, noting that when you place all your weight on your heels, you feel pain. There will be no danger in this, so long as you do not jump hard on your heels. Over time, you will find yourself putting more and more of your weight on your toes, and less on your heels.
As you become used to this, tape on the caps and then put on a pair of high heeled sandals or strapped pumps. This will require you to raise your heels even higher to avoid discomfort. When you become confident in this exercise, prepare your feet with the bottle caps and wear your high heels out into town for a full day.
Your feet will quickly gain the strength to tolerate the higher heels.
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Pants are off the list, unless they are both easily removable and tight and thin enough to be revealing in the extreme.
Skirts should be either short enough to expose you to mid thigh, or slit high enough to reveal most of your thigh on at least one side. Also, the best skirts for slavegirls will be wraparound, so that you do not have to step in or out of them or pull them over your head.
Shorts or hot pants can work if they are of the same revealing materials as described for pants, or if they are short enough to reveal your lower ass cheeks.
All pants or shorts must be low cut at the top, to a point at least half way down from your navel to your cunt.
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Shirts, blouses or tops must accentuate your bustline and reveal your tits. Again, they should be of a material transparent enough or thin enough to explicitly reveal your nipples. Depending on the shape of your bust, there should be enough flesh showing in the neckline to expose the dividing line between your tits to a length of three inches, or alternately to the lower part of the base of your breasts. Tops should support and accentuate your shape, offering lift and separation, never compressing the breasts so as to conceal them. Weather permitting, halter tops are ideal when they meet the other criterion listed. Some halters conceal the lines between the bust but reveal a great deal of the breasts from the sides--these are also acceptable.
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Swimwear should meet the criterion for tops and panties...although transparency should be up to your Master, regarding both His wishes and the need for personal security and safety. A good rule of thumb could be taken from the ancient fifties when bikinis first became popular-- “Its not a true bikini unless you can fit it entirely inside your mouth.”
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The best approach to accomplishing the changeover to proper slave clothes is to spend an evening and go thru your entire wardrobe. Place the acceptable clothes in your closet or dresser, then store away the unacceptable items where they will be well out of the way. Now, you will probably need some clothing for work, since not all work environments will accept the kind of slut clothes a slavegirl must wear. Push the edge as far as you can safely in this regard, but do nothing that will threaten your job. Keep work required clothes in a separate place. Save also one or two changes of bad weather clothing, but put the rest in deep storage. Eventually, discard or give away the unacceptable clothes, and purchase more items to fill out your slave wardrobe.
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You will likely not be able to accomplish the entire conversion overnight. As you proceed, once you put an item away into deep storage, do not wear it again. Some items can be modified to become acceptable. Some bras can be made acceptable by removing the linings; some skirts can be shortened, or the side slits raised to bring them into compliance.
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Begin to get used to being naked. Most Masters prefer their slavegirls to remain naked or nearly naked when inside the house. For this purpose, beginning about two weeks into training, begin stripping as soon as you come in the door. Be able to remove all your clothes within thirty seconds. Should you fail to get everything off in the allotted time, do five minutes with the clothespins as punishment for every second overtime. After two weeks, lower the time to twenty seconds. In another two weeks, fifteen seconds. And two more weeks, lower it to ten seconds. A few sessions with the clothespins will teach you much in how to dress for your Master.
If you must wear disallowed items for anything but work or a court date, punish yourself with five minutes with the clothespins for each item if done before putting them on--or ten minutes each if done after. If you do not strip immediately when entering your home, or if you move into the house away from the doorway without stripping first, again it costs you five minutes per item.
If you have house guests, the punishments still apply.
Find yourself a very revealing bathrobe. It should be thin enough to be revealing thru the material and short enough to show some thigh. It should allow you to reveal some serious decolletage as well. Have it available to answer the door, stored right near the door. No need to get sued by UPS...
One final rule, this one on panties. Whenever you wear panties of any kind, when you remove them, immediately place them into your mouth. Leave them there for at least ten minutes.
Another good exercise can be done if you have to throw away a bra that does not pass muster. Wear it out on a trip to town, beneath a top that is within the rules. During the trip, remove the bra and discard it, leaving you with only the top you wore to cover your upper body. Extra bonus points for removing your panties as well and putting them into your mouth until you are home and have stripped.
Yet another useful exercise is to select clothes for a trip into town the night before, when you have been doing your exercises and are aroused in your slavery. You will no doubt pick out things more revealing than you would have the following morning. By selecting them ahead of time, you will be bound by your decisions.
“A slave’s clothes do not cover her body, but reveal it for the pleasure of her Master.”
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5 Humiliation and Degradation
A free woman, if asked by a man, even her regular lover, to suck His cock, would probably feel hurt, unless she was of a mind to do so on her own anyway. Even then, such a demand coming out of the blue, not in the context of other sexual activity, would still seem an imposition on her.
A slavegirl is not allowed to have such reservations. A slavegirl might well be summoned by a Master when he has a group of guests present, and told to suck Him off...or to suck off any or all of His guests...or perhaps to service free women as well.
slavegirls are not allowed pride. They are not “above” any task, ordeal or use. To properly condition their minds to unconditional obedience, they must be degraded and humiliated on a regular basis.
The exercise at the mirror begins this process. The practice in sucking cock continues these efforts, as do the rules on clothing, the requirement of putting worn panties in the mouth, that of cleaning by mouth anything inserted in her lower holes.
But there must be far more to insure the slavegirl will not have second thoughts.
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One powerful tool used in this facet of training is piss.
At about the third week of training, put on a pair of your old, thick cotton panties. Sit on the toilet and piss, right thru the panties. When finished, kneel before your mirror.
Remove the panties, then put them into your mouth. Use a length of rope to fasten them there. Rope your hands behind your back, then kneel in position for at least fifteen minutes.
Two or three days later, repeat the exercise, but instead of putting the panties in your mouth, place them over your head so that the wettest part is stretched over your mouth and nose. Bind your hands, and experience the concentrated odors. Sample the tastes on your lips as well.
Alternate the two exercises for a couple of weeks or so.
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Two weeks after beginning this exercise, a new rule goes into effect...
If you are kneeling at the mirror, either for your evening exercises or for your morning cocksucking practice, have available a tall glass.
If you have to piss, rather than breaking position, use the glass, pissing into it. Set it on the floor right in front of you, close enough to see it and smell the odors.
When your exercise is finished, place clothespins on your nipples. Then, drink the entire contents of the glass. You may remove the clothespins when the glass can be held upside down over your head.
When sleeping, have the piss glass handy. Do not unchain your collar if you need to piss--use the glass. As above, always empty the glass by drinking it down before unchaining your collar.
Think. Your Master may be in bed and not yet wishing to rise...or perhaps working hard at His desk...when He needs to piss. Why should He interrupt His activities when He could summon you to drink His piss straight from His cock?
The best slavegirls perform this service for their Masters regularly without hesitation. Many eventually develop a yearning for it, a taste for their Master’s piss, become aroused intensely by drinking from Him. By training yourself to be able to offer this service, you will increase your value to Him and make Him proud to offer you for the use of His friends.
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Whenever your activities require you to drink piss, do NOT rinse your mouth until the following morning.
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There are other forms of humiliation and degradation that will do a great deal to free up the mind of a slave. When you buy your butt plugs, for instance--ask the person behind the counter at the store if you could use a private space on the premises to install the plug, then wear it home. Spend some time in the store afterwards, perhaps looking at the leather restraints and such, to allow people to see how the plug affects your walk and movements. Let there be no mistake that they will be watching a plugged girl. Experience those eyes on you, those minds imagining what is obvious. Feel what it is like to know that those watching you are fully aware that you are a slave and a slut. Get used to that feeling. Learn to love it. Learn to be aroused by it. You will find that over time, you will not be able to avoid being aroused by it. You will eventually crave it and go out of your way to seek out more of it.
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Some other examples:
You have already heard my suggestion to remove panties and wear them home in your mouth.
Go to a restaurant. At some time during your meal, use the ladies room. Piss into a small container and bring it back out with you. Find a way to drink it from a glass right at your table.
Take a lover. With no concern for your own pleasure, suck him to orgasm, and do so when you are near the time you intended to leave to go home. Allow him to cum on your face--then walk home wearing the cum. Do not wash your face until the following morning.
If you find yourself wearing an old shirt otherwise acceptable by the rules--or perhaps one you feel may be too conservative--pluck off a button right on the street and allow it to fall. Wear the shirt home as is, regardless of the increased exposure. Do not replace the button later.
For summer, wear ONLY a tee shirt for a top. When done for the day, take a paper punch and randomly select a pinch of the cloth of the shirt and punch a double hole in it. Pop it into the wash without even checking to see where the hole is. Next time you wear it, wear it...regardless of what the hole reveals. And when you finish wearing it that time, punch another hole. Make an effort to wear it into town at least once a week, punching new holes each and every time.
If you feel courageous, try doing the same for a bathing suit.
Take an old skirt. Shorten it an inch each time it is worn. Same rules.
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slavegirls are not free women. They are animals, trained and conditioned only to please a Master. As such, if they are allowed to use furniture, they may very easily be spoiled and forget their place.
There are a series of steps that can be used to eliminate this problem and train a girl well to know her position.
The first is for meals. Whenever you eat, you do not eat as a free woman does, sitting at the table. For the first stage, bring your plate to the floor, kneel by it and eat there. For the second stage, do any cutting (such as for meat, etc.) beforehand, then eat directly off your plate, without silverware, using only your mouth, as would a dog. Bind your hands behind your back with the rope loop until you finish eating. Drink any liquids from another bowl, again lapping it up like an animal. NEVER eat anything at home unless you eat it from the floor, including tasting the food while cooking. Should you be cooking for a Master, you could be punished for tasting the food before your Master eats, or for eating anywhere but from the floor.
Next is the use of chairs. slavegirls do not sit in chairs. They kneel on the floor, usually at their Master’s feet. Begin kneeling yourself instead of using chairs. Make whatever adjustments you need to accomplish this--set up your computer monitor and keyboard where you can use them while kneeling, move the telephone, use a low table for a desk, whatever else it takes. You should sit on nothing but the toilet--and a Master may even deny that someday.
slavegirls do not sleep in a comfortable bed, covered by blankets and sheets, with a nice fluffy pillow. Good slaves sleep on the floor of their Master’s bedroom, usually with a leash and collar locked on attaching them to the bedpost, sometimes with additional restraints depending on her conduct and her Master’s whims. she may even be provided with a cage. Begin making this adjustment by first eliminating the outer covers on your bed, leaving nothing but the one sheet and pillow. After a week, eliminate the pillow. After another week, sleep on the floor twice a week, then three times, working your way up to doing so every night. When you have a collar, attach it to the footpost of the bed with no more than three feet of slack. When you have adjusted to this, add the rope loop, fastening your wrists behind your back twice a week to learn to tolerate sleeping in such restraint.
Important note: as you eliminate the various items of furniture from your use, or the covers from your bed, this does not mean removing them. You are preparing yourself to serve in a household run by a Master. He will still be using the furniture, the bed covers, etc., and you should maintain them for His use and comfort. Even when you cease using your bed altogether, you should still remake His bed each day, with fresh sheets, to insure it will be comfortable, clean and refreshing for His use. It is HIS bed, the chairs are His, the table is His. And you are His.
When doing housework, similar rules apply. As you become used to wearing heels, do the house cleaning in those heels. Work naked otherwise (except for your collar--see next section). When doing floors, always do them on your knees, sweeping with a small broom and scrubbing with a hand brush--or rags--and working with a bucket. If you use a vacuum (on rugs only!), do not use any of the long pipes you would use while standing--remove those and, again, work on your knees.
6 The Collar
A slavegirl should be collared.
Go to a pet store and buy yourself a collar.
The ideal collar for a slavegirl should be two inches wide, have a lockable buckle and, for my own color preferences, be black and trimmed with chrome. Narrower widths might be necessary depending on your dimensions. Sometimes a locking buckle is hard to find--if so, you can pass a small padlock thru the holes in the leather after it is buckled around your neck.
Needless to say, buy a small padlock to lock it with.
Once purchased, the collar should always be worn for every training activity, as well as whenever you are doing anything else as an exercise or as punishment. Always lock it on when worn, keeping the key on a hook on the wall.
As soon as possible, begin wearing the collar outside the house. At first, you may wear a scarf to cover the collar, particularly for work or other activities where it could produce problems on the mundane side. When worn outside, always wear it locked, and keep the key at home.
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The collar is a symbol of your slavery. When you are taken by a Master, you will likely wear a tag on the collar stating you are owned by Him. Therefore, when wearing the collar, you should be particularly careful to obey all the rules of your slavery.
Service to a real Master may involve different states of relative freedom. The slavegirl may be allowed to travel outside the house to work. She may be in the house, but unoccupied. She may be in direct service to her Master. She may be performing training activities. Or she may be in punishment. Each of these states is successively more demanding of the girl and should be treated appropriately.
To get a good feeling for this, some trainees always double punishments for offenses committed while wearing the collar.
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Eventually, you should work up to wearing the collar permanently, 24/7. When you have risen to this level, you are to be punished for removing the collar for any reason--five minutes with the clothespins before removal, or ten minutes if done later. If you take a trip outside your house without the collar, the following day wear the collar AND rope in a butt plug for the entire day.
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To enhance your cocksucking practice, use some thin cord. Kneeling at your cock, tie one end of the cord to the ring on the collar. Move forward and take an inch of your practice cock into your mouth, then tie the other end of the cord to the base of the cock, leaving no slack. If done right, you should not be able to remove your mouth from the cock until the cord is untied. Then, rope your wrists behind your back and begin your cocksucking practice.
7 Taking Pleasure
slavegirls exist to provide pleasure for their Masters, not for themselves. It has been said that when a slavegirl takes pleasure, she steals from her Master. How much pleasure is granted to a slavegirl differs from Master to Master--some are generous, or even force their slaves to take pleasure repeatedly, while others allow them little or no pleasure at all. But the universal consistency is that the pleasure of a slavegirl is always under the control of her Master.
To reduce the temptation to touch your cunt for your own pleasure, use ropes to connect your wrists to the ring on your collar, making sure they are short enough to prohibit you reaching your cunt. Perform all your activities while wearing these rope restraints, unless the activity requires otherwise. You may release them to bind your wrists behind you for training or sleep, or when bathing or using the toilet, but always re-fasten them immediately after.
When serving a Master, you may well not be allowed to take pleasure at will. Most likely, pleasure for yourself will only be granted by your Master on certain days, or under certain circumstances, or when earned by performing specific duties or enduring ordeals.
One tradition that I share with a number of other Masters is that a slavegirl is never allowed pleasure on Friday nights. (This presumes an ordinary work week, ending on Friday. If you work Thursday thru Monday, with Tuesdays and Wednesdays off, then Monday will be your “Friday” for these purposes.)
When you arise Friday morning, you may take a pleasure. You may not take pleasure again until Saturday at bedtime. For any day you are denied, the same will hold true--from right after rising until bedtime the following night.
After two weeks of training, add a second night of denial--Tuesday. So you will not take pleasure Tuesdays or Fridays at this stage.
After two more weeks, the denial days become Monday, Wednesday and Friday.
And after another two weeks, add Saturdays to that list. When you reach this stage, you will only be allowed pleasure on Sundays, Tuesdays and Thursdays.
The intent is to slowly reduce the slavegirl’s self-indulgence, while continuing and intensifying her servitude. My own feelings are that cutting back to three days a week where the girl is allowed pleasure is sufficient--a Master may adjust her schedule from there.
If, however, you wish to take it further, later stages would be...
Two days: Sundays and Thursdays
One day: Sundays
Again: Remember that this list of days presumes the normal work week.
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When a slavegirl takes pleasure, she does so not for herself, but to entertain and stimulate her Master and or His friends. And she should also learn to associate her pleasure with her servitude, for two reasons. she should learn to be aroused by her use, punishment, exposure, degradation or confinement, so that those activities stimulate her sexually. And she should be conditioned to associate her pleasure with such activities, so that her fantasies move in those directions and her pleasure is based on the image of herself as a slavegirl.
So how does a slavegirl in solitary take pleasure?
Some examples:
She should always pleasure herself at her mirror, on her knees, watching herself. She should never pleasure herself in bed.
She ought to add some element of her training to her pleasure--sucking her practice cock for the scheduled time and then bringing herself off before the cock leaves her mouth. Or while on display naked on a table. Or while in partial restraint, such as having her collar attached to a fixed object. Or pleasuring herself while wearing her clothespins on her nipples...or when penetrated by a butt plug...or while cleaning a used dildo from her lower holes with her mouth...or with a piss taste in her mouth or odor in her nose. The well-trained slavegirl will learn to revel in her degradation and key herself to reach the most intense orgasms while in such degradation.
The penalty for taking pleasure while not doing any of these things--or for taking pleasure on a day when prohibited--is to lose the next allowed pleasure day and remain denied--instead of taking pleasure, do an extra session practicing your cocksucking.
As always, when finished, clean your fingers, dildo or anything else used for your pleasure by mouth immediately when you are done. Penalty for failure--re-insert the item while wearing the clothespins, then clean it immediately.
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8 Deportment
slave deportment is the way a slavegirl physically conducts herself. Posture, movement, grace and the erotic nature of her movement are all a part of it.
A slavegirl may not conceal her body in any way, and she is required to conduct herself in a way that displays that body for the entertainment and stimulation of her Masters. Additionally, her availability is symbolized through her deportment.
Some general guidelines follow...along with suggestions for discipline.
Free women often cross their arms over their breasts to conceal them. slavegirls must never do so, and must always pull their shoulders back to thrust out their chest for the best exposure and display of her tits. Note: the use of words here is intentional. Words, like postures, conceal or display. Free women have breasts and vaginas. slavegirls have tits and cunts. Use the words, in speech as well as in your own thoughts.
If you catch yourself outside concealing your chest, unbutton one button of your blouse immediately (or increase your exposure in some other way to display your tits), then place your wrists behind your back as if bound for at least ten minutes.
slavegirls never cross their legs, and should always maintain at least an inch between their knees. Similarly, if you catch yourself with legs crossed, uncross them, move your knees at least six inches apart, and raise your skirt an inch or two, again for at least ten minutes.
When riding a bus or subway, always stand in a place where you can be displayed well. Use both hands to hold the overhead bar, and do not release your grip on that bar until you reach your stop, even while the bus or train is stopped. Imagine yourself bound or chained to that bar, naked, subject to the eyes and hands of any of the other passengers. (Don’t allow the hands, of course, unless ordered to by a Master who is present to protect his property.)
A slavegirl is not defiant to a free man. Your dress, deportment and attitude may well attract the attentions of men. Should a man appear aroused by you, be thankful that you have given him pleasure. It is the function of a slavegirl to arouse a man in all she does. Should he leer at you, wantonly, it would be dangerous to invite his use unless it is your choice. But it would also be unsubmissive to glare back defiantly. Instead, lower your eyes and maintain your display. If you catch yourself, again, moving to conceal your body, see above instructions for punishment.
A good Master will often punish a slavegirl on the part she tried to conceal. If you have a bad day around displaying yourself properly and earn punishment, use clothespins on the appropriate part--nipples or labia, or both--and kneel at the mirror for a block of fifteen or thirty minutes. Additionally, choose slave garb for the following day that will increase the exposure of the part you tried to conceal.
Important: Weather permitting, NEVER bring additional cover for your body.
Synopsis of Training
Week 1
Evening: 15 minutes at mirror
slave garb: Eliminate Pants
slave’s pleasure: Denied on Fridays. For violations, lose next available day of allowed pleasure.
Week 2
Evening: 15 minutes at mirror, with small butt plug on alternate days
slave garb: Eliminate half of unacceptable bras and panties. Have your collar by this time and wear for all training activities. Strip when entering house--be naked in thirty seconds.
Furniture: Stop using chairs. Eat meals from plate on floor. Sleep on floor one day a week, with pillow and blanket. Eliminate covers from bed.
Week 3
Morning: 15 minutes Cocksucking Practice
Evening: 30 minutes at mirror, with small butt plug on alternate days
Begin piss training.
slave’s pleasure: Denied on Tuesdays and Fridays. For violations, lose next available day of allowed pleasure.
slave garb: Eliminate most conservative shirts; begin buying stockings and garter belts to replace pantyhose. Have a lock for your collar. Strip when entering house--be naked in thirty seconds.
Furniture: Eat meals from plate on floor with wrists bound behind you, no silverware. Sleep on floor three days a week, with pillow only; when using bed eliminate pillow and outer covers.
Week 4
Morning: 15 minutes Cocksucking Practice
Evening: 30 minutes at mirror, with medium butt plug on alternate days
Continue piss training.
slave garb: Eliminate any unacceptable footwear such as running shoes and flats, except for activities that require them. Eliminate all pantyhose. Wear collar at all times when home. Begin wearing outdoors as well two days a week, covered or uncovered, locked, leave key at home. Strip when entering house--be naked in twenty seconds.
Furniture: Stop sitting on chairs altogether. The penalty for using a chair will be to sit in the same chair for one hour before the mirror with your largest butt-plug inserted, ankles bound to the chair legs, and your hands bound behind the back of the chair. (This is to be done after your standard training.) Sleep on floor five days a week, collar chained to foot post of bed, with pillow.
Week 5
Morning: 30 minutes Cocksucking Practice
Evening: 45 minutes at mirror, with medium butt plug on alternate days
Begin using piss glass at mirror activities.
slave’s pleasure: Denied on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. For violations, lose next available day of allowed pleasure, and substitute an extra session of cocksucking.
slave garb: Eliminate any underwear that does not meet specs for proper slave garb. Eliminate any footwear with heels under three inches in arch. Begin using bottle caps taped to heels as exercise at home to train yourself for higher heels. Buy at least one set of heels of at least four inch arch; wear these for at least two hours a day at home. Wear collar outdoors four days a week, covered or uncovered, locked, leave key at home. Strip when entering house--be naked in twenty seconds.
Furniture: Sleep on floor only, no pillow, collar chained to post.
Week 6
Morning: 30 minutes Cocksucking Practice
Evening: 45 minutes at mirror, with large butt plug on alternate days
Continue using piss glass at mirror activities.
slave garb: Eliminate more unacceptable tops, skirts. Always wear bottle caps on heels with any footwear of three inch arch or less. Wear collar outdoors six days a week, covered or uncovered, locked, leave key at home. Wear uncovered at least one day a week. Strip when entering house--be naked in fifteen seconds.
Furniture: Sleep only on floor, rope hands behind back overnight two days a week.
Week 7
Morning: 45 minutes Cocksucking Practice
Evening: 60 minutes at mirror, with large butt plug on alternate days
slave’s pleasure: Denied on Mondays, Wednesdays, Fridays and Saturdays. For violations, lose next available day of allowed pleasure, and substitute an extra session of cocksucking.
Use piss glass when sleeping. Never unchain your collar to use the bathroom.
slave garb: Eliminate all remaining clothes that do not meet specs for slave garb. Buy at least one set of heels of at least five inch arch; wear these for at least two hours a day at home. Wear collar outdoors at all times, covered or uncovered, locked, leave key at home. Wear uncovered at least three days a week. Strip when entering house--be naked in fifteen seconds.
Furniture: Sleep only on floor, rope hands behind back overnight three days a week.
Week 8
Morning: 45 minutes Cocksucking Practice
Evening: 60 minutes at mirror, with large butt plug on alternate days
slave garb: Begin searching for heels sized for your maximum arch (See text to figure out your maximum arch). Always wear bottle caps with heels of four inches arch or less. Strip when entering house--be naked in ten seconds.
Wear collar 24/7, uncovered. Punishment for removal (15 minutes w/clothespins before, or 30 minutes after, plus loss of next scheduled day to take pleasure).
Week 9 and beyond...
Continue to intensify your slave garb, always buying clothing to reveal as well as that which can be removed quickly.
Stick with your regimen at the mirror, both evenings and your morning cocksucking practice.
Optionally, reduce your pleasure days to two a week, Sundays and Thursdays, and two weeks later, to one day a week, Sundays. For violations, lose next available day of allowed pleasure and substitute an extra session of cocksucking. Wear clothespins on your nipples for the latter half of that session.
For punishment, purchase some alternates for your clothespins, such as cloverleaf clamps. Get some weights you can add to the clamps which will allow you to add anywhere from one to six ounces to each clamp. You may also use more clothespins, on other parts of your body.
Always be aware of your deportment. Develop the habit of moving to display your body, never to conceal it. Select items for public wear which can increase your exposure when you need to punish yourself for concealment.
Think of your furniture as your Master’s at all times. You are not permitted to use it, but you must always keep it immaculately clean and fresh for His use.
When you are ready, buy a tag for your collar. Go to one of the pet stores and use machines often provided for such purposes. Let the tag read, “slave <your slave name>”, “property of Master” If you can, get the tag while wearing the collar locked on, with the key (as it always should be) at home. Have the help in the store attach it for you while you are wearing the collar.
Stay with the schedule. Sometimes, slavegirls increase their own ordeals on a whim, but later regret it. It is important to pace your training properly to achieve the maximum effects. If you add on something which is not in the program, do not forget to include defined punishments for failure.
slave garb: Some extra punishment items
Find two burlap bags.
Turn one into a “poncho” by cutting up the two long sides, then making a hole of the right size to put your head thru. Use a leather thong to tie around your waist to fasten it.
Use this poncho for garb inside your house when you wish to cover your body. Its uncomfortable feel against your skin will remind you of the penalty for concealing your body against your Master’s wishes.
Find a bra and pair of panties that cover well and fit very tight. Line these entirely with the material from the second burlap bag. This set will be punishment garb, to be worn under conservative clothes outdoors, or on its own while indoors. For violations like major concealment of your body, or taking pleasure when denied, or failure in training efforts, wear the set overnight or for a full-day weekend shopping trip.
Ordeals
Ordeals might be ordered by a Master as punishment, or as training exercises and tests, or for the sake of entertainment--His OR the slavegirl’s.
As a mild example, here is one that I actually assigned to an email trainee a few years ago:
The next time you do your cocksucking exercises, use this variation...
Set up normally, but add some more light to the scene so that your body is well-illuminated, almost like you were going to be shown on camera, or as a part of a private show.
Now, when you are ready to begin, blindfold yourself.
Suck the cock as you normally would, hands bound, using all your skills. Consider that your practice is being watched either on camera or by men and women in the room with you that you are not allowed to see yourself.
Of course, you will have to guess when your time requirement has been met. When you think enough time has passed, release your hands and remove the blindfold and check.
If you fall short, use the clamps and double the remaining time, as always.
My guess is that you will run over, proving to us both what we already know--that you are a true slut, who enjoys having a cock in her mouth, and who would be even more turned on by sucking cock with an audience watching you.
There is no punishment required for being a good slut.
A more intense ordeal was one I included in my “Slave By Mail” novelette...the last I tested her with before she committed herself to enslavement...
Tonight, you sleep in punishment bonds.
Tie the large plug in your ass. Take a towel and soak it with your piss. Place it on the floor to be your pillow tonight. Put on your punishment bra. Tie your ankles wide to the bedposts, like last time, but with you lying face-down. Now, rope your hands behind your back.
As you go through the night, think of what punishments I might impose upon you for failing to properly submit your ass for fucking, or for failing to drink my piss gracefully from my cock, or for masturbating without permission. You might easily be punished in such a fashion for several days running, simply on my whim. Perhaps I might have a free woman lover in bed with me as you suffer.
It is time for your last decision before total and irrevocable enslavement.
In the morning, after your training, if you still wish to submit to me completely and unconditionally, mail me the key to your collar.
This one is called “The Hotfoot Ordeal”:
On a hot and sunny summer day, drive to a large mall. Park your car in a far corner of the lot. Be dressed in clothes that clearly mark you as a slavegirl and slut, and wear no stockings.
Remove your shoes. Leave the car and walk, barefoot, around the entire mall, limiting your path ONLY to the black asphalt heated by the sun.
This one was done by one of my live trainees with interesting results...
For a minor punishment, she was dressed in a loose fitting shirt, tucked well in to a pair of tight jeans and wearing some sandals with very high heels. her nipples were clamped with clothespins under the shirt, and she was ordered to walk to the local variety store and buy me a pack of cigarettes, remaining clamped under her shirt for the entire trip.
The store was less than a ten-minute walk away, so if she did not delay herself, she would be clamped about fifteen to twenty minutes.
As things turned out, there was a long line of people at the store, forcing her to wait. By the time she got to the front of the line, she was in some serious distress. Worse, the clerk in the store, noting her ass and legs well-displayed by the tight jeans and high heeled sandals, flirted with her before she was able to leave, delaying her almost another fifteen minutes. she was not able to simply walk out, which would have been disrespectful, so she had to conceal her pain while maintaining proper deportment. By the time she returned, she had been clamped nearly an hour.
Naturally, I punished her for the delay, beginning with adding weights to her clamps...
As a variation on that theme...
Try dressing in a skirt without panties. Clamp your labia, with some weights hanging from the clamps. Walk to a place that will take you fifteen minutes to travel, each way. As you walk the return trip and begin wishing for the ordeal to end, note the effect the clamps have on your movements, especially when combined with your heels.
Final Words
This article deals with fantasy enactment. Regardless of how much some activities appear to be “forced”, it is all consentual, done by a Master (if present) and a girl wishing to experience the feelings of real enslavement. At all times, should there be health issues, or conflicts with work or family, or even issues of emotional crisis within the mind of the girl herself, such issues--the real world--must always take precedence. Anyone for whom this obvious truth is not absolutely clear at all times should not be playing these games.
Safety is always of paramount importance. You cannot enjoy these games if you do something stupid resulting in your injury or death. And if you expose yourself to needless risks that result in the discovery of your activities with consequences, you do harm to both yourself and to others who play these games.
There are other forms of activity that I have not included--such as asphyxia, which causes a small but significant number of deaths in the real world each year--and the use of combination locks and lights operated by timers, to commit a girl to a predetermined time in restraint. Such activities, while carrying a high level of excitement, can also have far-reaching consequences which no responsible person would wish to experience.
A locked collar, with the key at home, is a thrill for a slavegirl in training to wear. However, should she wear it into a courthouse or try to board a jet in an airport while collared? Worse, should she attempt those activities while wearing something locked on her body hidden under her clothes?
Fantasy is powerful, an amazing source of pleasure and enjoyment for those not afraid to explore it. Yet, it does cross paths with the real world in ways that should not be taken lightly. When mistakes are made, they reveal themselves in ways that can be dramatic and destructive when inexperienced people attempt to push the limits of safety and common sense. There are regular stories in the press about someone having to call a locksmith or the fire or police department to be released from a toy locked on their body. But the stories can turn tragic if the victim is locked to a fixed object and the key accidentally kicked out of reach.
Use your heads. Either play responsibly, or play something else.
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These games are designed to give life to fantasies. Your fantasies and mine will not be the same. While the elements of actual training are present, for the girl wishing to become a real slavegirl, it is always a consentual experience. Do nothing until you are ready.
The program is prepared in a way that will slowly allow the girl to evolve into her slavery, to endure more in training than she felt capable of at the outset. So, never think that you will not be able to do things that are mentioned in later stages of training--they are at those later stages because the girl needs to be prepared, to be taken forward a step at a time, laying the groundwork early for things to be introduced later in the training.
If you reach a stage where some activity is beyond your capabilities, then hold at that level. You will find exercises you can repeat until such activities become endurable. This is where the knowing hand of a good Master is essential. And you will find that one result of proper training is that the act that is impossible today will become endurable tomorrow, and some weeks in the future it may well become arousing and fulfilling for you in the extreme.
Why?
It is because this course of training does not create slavegirls. It brings out the slavegirl who is present within every girl and allows her to flourish, simply by removing the free-woman shell within which she hides, one stage at a time. It allows her to be herself.
And that is the secret of its power, the reason why it is more intense than any other form of sexuality--it reflects a reality within us all, one even more real and powerful than the surface.
So, use this material in that context. Do not think of it as molding the girl into a predetermined form, although it can be used to do that. Think of it as a process of revealing the girl, uncovering something that is already there and real within her, something which she needs the courage and support to bring out, confront and enjoy.
After all, you would not be reading this if the seeds were not already there.
Now, if you wish to begin training, remove your clothes, kneel at your keyboard, and begin typing your journal, beginning with your reactions to this article.
Master Ivan
7/23/05
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