How many times better is a real woman than your hand?

[welcome saviour]

I've been coming to this site for a while before I finaly registered, so although I'm new, I'm not too new...

I have a question for the community, and it seems appropriate that I share some background. I have recently met a woman, much younger than me, who with a playful grin, whispered to me that no woman should allow a man an orgasm until she was satisfied first. I haven't told of this site, and I'm certain she's not talking about teasing me for teasing's sake. And in a way, isn't that what the teasing is about: proving your endurance and thus, your ability as a lover?

So I asked her how many days that would take, ha ha....she looked at me and laughed then said that a man should be able to last at least an hour. I don't think this will be a problem for me, as I have discovered edging and denial and am able to make myself "last" for hours at a time, day after day....

But it then occurred to me that being with a real woman is always far more exciting than I can ever imagine while edging/denying myself. All that beautiful flesh...her breathing and scent...the feeling of being inside her....it's a much more powerful experience, no? Here's my question to you all, then: how much better is it with a real woman? 10 times better? 20? 50? 100? I have decided that, in preparation for my hour (at minimum) with this far too beautiful woman, that I shall not cum until I have teased, edged and denied myself for X hours, with X= the amount that a woman is better than my mere hand. Thus, if it is determined that a woman is 25 times better than I can do without her, then 25 hours of self-tease/edge/denial = one hour with this absolutely stunning creature.

I look forward to all of your thoughts - especially the thoughts of the women in the community.

Best, Saviour

[camipco]

I have decided that, in preparation for my hour (at minimum) with this far too beautiful woman, that I shall not cum until I have teased, edged and denied myself for X hours...

My advice, Saviour, is to not confuse your solo play with your partner play. You want to experience the teasing she shares with you on it's own merits, not as part of an extended self-teasing game. If I were you, I just wouldn't cum for a day or maybe two, but leave it in your pants during that time, and stay away from the site.

If it turns out that the teasing you experience at her hands is more than you can take, you want that to be for real, not because you over-prepped yourself.

If it turns out that the teasing she gives is mild, enjoy it for what it is (not every sexual experience has to be the most kinky ever to be fun), and challenge her that you think you can take a lot more for next time.

Consider it from her point of view. Ignoring teasing for a second, how would you feel if your lover told you she had to masturbate a bunch before being with you?

Now if, after this encounter, she wants you to be better prepped, you could offer to wait longer or to do some regular edges or whatever. But you should make that decision with her, not with us.

Have fun! Sounds like an incredible opportunity.

[all2true]

I agree with Camipco
look at it this way

You now have a new mistress
one that is NOT on this site
she is real,
Find out what she likes
please her
and perhaps are some time suggest your kinks to her
don't hurry the process

As for lasting an hour having sex
Kama Sutra techinques are helpful
they are kinda like edging
you delay by varing depth, speed, but stimulate her so she O's
Lots of helpful tips out there in print and on the net

[toybdsm]

I think his point & mine are very similar. I don't believe you can prepare yourself for an experience with another by yourself. It is different. Otherwise why be with someone else. Who could be better at pleasing me than me. But I would still take a woman every time.
So if we tell you a woman is 1000 times better than your hand, a 1000 hours of teasing still isn't the same.
I suggest a little different than camipco. I prescribe to the "What About Mary" idea. Don't go in with 1 in the chamber. If I have been teasing a long time I would pop off quick when i finally got that next level. So don't cum 5 min before the activity but I wouldn't wait a week either.

Does sound like a great opportunity. Congrats.

[Makarov]

I agree with earlier posts! Don't worry about getting prepared! Besides, making yourself desperate to cum beforehand will probably just make you cum faster.

And, as for a numeric value...

The sexual awesomeness = (Attractiveness of woman multiplied by stimulation effect) plus presence

Meaning...

The more attracted to the woman you're with, the more awesome it's going to be. The less attracted, the less awesome. Stimulation effect goes towards how your cock is being stimulated. And presence is the only constant value; it only requires you to be there.

So...let's make the constant a 20. Attractiveness ranges from -100 to +100, and stimulation effects ranges from 25 to 100. That means the most attractive woman working your cock the hardest would be...

SA=(100*100)+20=10000+20=10,020

Which means that the most attractive woman stimulating your cock the best is 10,020 times better then jerking off.

Also note, if attractiveness goes into the negatives, it means that no matter what, you might as well jerk off than be with that chick.

[eteased]

Interesting thread... I'll agree with others that there's no x factor where x hours of self-teasing=1 hour with a woman you're really attracted to.

Here's a more important point... based on what was actually said in the original post, there's really no reason to think that this woman is gonna be your "mistress" or even that she wants to tease you for an hour before you can cum. More likely, she's saying that she'd want *you* to spend an hour focused mostly on *her* before you cum. It doesn't take any super powers for you to hold back an orgasm for an hour if you spend most of that hour giving her a massage and going down on her.

My advice would be this: if you do get into bed with her, be unselfish and patient and stimulate her more than she stimulates you. I'm not sure how you prepare for that, but it's probably not by teasing your cock for hours and hours. Know what I mean?