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first time belt question.

Post by little_bear »

Hiya folks,

Kinda new here, second post. Have done some teases but thise site makes me keep coming back, the problem is also when i'm denied. Now for my holiday i'm thinking about buying a chasity belt to keep me from touching myself. I've seen one for not to much money (seeing as i'm a student i don't have a lot).

My 2 questions

is a cheap chasity belt comfortable. I'm kind of curious what's the advantage of buying a more expensive one (although i saw one with spikes, which looks painfull although i'm kind of curious to that seeing as it denies you completely).

my second question, i saw a topic about encrypting a picture but not sure about how that really works, next to that can i buy a number lock that doesn't set off an metal detector in most sex shops?

Thank you very much in advance for any answers.

greetings,

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Re: first time belt question.

Post by SexualChoc »

first do some extensive comparison
viewtopic.php?f=13&t=9905&p=139016#p139016
click this link for an extensive list.
and compare.

Next you need to decide: metal? Plastic?
I lean towards metal cages, but there are many who are very happy doing long term denial in plastic.

it helps to know your sizes, Base (under balls) , flaccid length, width.. when looking at cages they usually tell you how big they are. Unless you really love pain do NOT buy anything that is smaller than you are when you are flaccid (not a good idea)

there ares some good deals, but look even at the stuff you can not afford just to get a "feel" of what is available and what you might like/ or suits you.

Now, people will NOT notice you are wearing a cage unless you wear super tight clothing or a small bathing suit.
I have worn cages at work while bending, lifting, walking distances.. so it is possible. But it is up to you , your comfort level and..well your job.

Anyway hope that helps!
Luck!
and feel free to share if yo have narrowed it down.. or made a choice (you do not have to share if you do not want to)
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Re: first time belt question.

Post by MistressHarper »

^^^

this.

And I'll second and emphasize the warning about not going too small. You can damage yourself with a too small cage, and no one wants that!

It might be better to save up your money to get a better quality cage later, rather than a lesser one now.

You could try using a jock strap and cup, with tight panties, as an interim 'cage' device... while you're saving up for something better. Just don't leave the sweaty pre-cum filled mess overnight. You'll need to clean it and yourself very regularly, to keep from growing things on your junk. Also, jock straps tend to concentrate the musky scent pretty bad. They just don't breathe well. lol!
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Re: first time belt question.

Post by little_bear »

Thanks a lot for the answers,

I've indeed decided to spare up some money before purchasing. Seeing as I live at home (and no one looks at names at packages) I'll be going to Amsterdam to buy one there when I've found one that's comfortable.

Seeing as I am not really into panty's etc. I'll leave that option open, probably it'll be fun for a day or two when I'm home alone.
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Re: first time belt question.

Post by servus »

Does anyone know how expensive a cb 6000 usually is at the moment. I found this offer
http://www.ebay.de/itm/CB-6000-MALE-CHA ... 1682523315

which seems awesome compared to that one.
http://www.adulttoyoasis.com/cbmachde.html

Do you think there´s everything allright with it or is the ebay-offer some sort of trick?

Thanks!
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