Ruined orgasm or no touch?

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Ruined orgasm or no touch?

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Hey.

I have decided to deny myself for a little while to achieve stronger orgasms. I was wondering if anyone had some experience on what builds up the strongest orgasms, ruining an orgasm every day for a week or no touching at all for a week?
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Re: Ruined orgasm or no touch?

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Re: Ruined orgasm or no touch?

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I agree, edging is the way to go.

If a ruined orgasm means just a small ammount of cum, I think it's okay to have a ruined orgasm every two days or so. It doesn't really change anything and it allows you to edge harder. You can really push it with the edging and you just stop once you had a ruined orgasm, but preferably stop without having one.

Also, not to discourage denial, but I feel like correct edging is way more effective in creating stronger orgasms than denial is. Edging half an hour and then cumming increases the orgasm by maybe 100% for me, even if it's my third orgasm of the day. Denial for me adds maybe another 30%, but also sometimes doesn't do anything to the orgasm. Also, edging+denial=blue balls, which is a thing. Walking like John Wayne can be annoying.
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Go atleast a few days without touching. More days if youre older
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Re: Ruined orgasm or no touch?

Post by Vaol »

Thanks guys :) Ill guess I will go for no touch then. And maybe some edging one or two days. And of course alot of edging right before I cum!

I kind of agree with you, Itslate, but after going a long time with 2 or more orgasms a day I think it not really quite the same. Even with a long edging session before cumming.

Either way I guess it will be a big change to go from about 2 orgasms a day to one week without any ;)
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