Real time vs Cyber play

[Dommehere]

Real Life play is wonderful. It's exhilarating, it's fun, it can be intensely erotic. And some people are lucky enough to be able to play whenever they want. Usually though, there are limitations - time, distance, other obligations - which mean we can't just whip up a scene whenever we feel like it. It's a big, wide world out there, and sometimes its hundreds - or even thousands - of miles that seperate us from our play partner. However, RL isn't the only way to explore and experience some wild thoughts. It is often said, that our most developed sexual organ is our brain - and that's were cyber play comes in. Of course, everyone's heard of cyber sex. One of the most difficult things about cyber play is that the only toy you have is your imagination. It's also one of the most exciting. This can be that grey area where fantasy and reality meet, where you can try out new things safe in the knowledge that the worst thing that will happen is the connection dropping. It can give you the confidence to explore that thing you've been thinking about for a while, but are too embarrassed / nervous / unsure whether you'll like it to bring it up face to face.

[Streetsweeper]

Hi that is a very good comparison of both you have wrote. :)

I don't think I would have been able to explore kinkier things easier in RL, where as I've come across this site instead which is helpful.

I like your profile description by the way. Mind if I ask where you're from please?

[Samuzzo]

I personally feel, that some fantasies are better explored in the cyber world.. By this I mean you may find that the fantasy is not for you and if tried out in the real world would prove to be a disappointment.. In the cyber world you can as you say explore sexuality is relative safety!