I have the honour of serving a wonderful domme, and very occasionally we enjoy switching things up a little. Right now we have begun one of those sessions, which will last until we get to spend the whole weekend alone together, at the beginning of April. (We live apart, meeting for dinner once a week but nothing more, so most of this will be online only)
At the moment I'm starting slowly with her. I now, of course, control her orgasms, but right now I like the idea of her cumming rather often. It will make the denial so much worse later on ;)
She will sleep naked, and wish me goodnight and good morning as the last and first thing she does each day, to remind her that she is mine.
I'd love to keep the wonderful people of milovana informed as to how we are getting on, and also I'd love to hear any ideas you might have. I can't promise that I will use them all, as a lot of this depends on our own personal dynamic (and indeed, limits), but I think, between us, we can ensure she has a memorable time!
I hope to hear from you,
EG
Switchy Session
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akds1337
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Re: Switchy Session
One of my favorite things to do is make the sub play with, or edge her pussy, then wipe some of her juices on her upper lip or on her nostrils. As a constant reminder that not only is she an aroused little slut, but also that she was ordered to complete that task. Have her reapply throughout the day as necessary :)
Conversely you could have her put some of that green plastic scrub pad (for washing dishes and pans) into her bra, taped in place with where her nipples would be. This obviously becomes irritating and painful. I've never had a sub do it myself, but I have heard of it being done and I sort of keep that one in my back pocket.
Have her edge several times, then drop a mild bomb on her. like the only way she gets to cum today is if she goes out in public somewhere right now and then calls you. From there you can have her get in the back seat of her car in a parking lot or something, and partially or fully disrobe and be able to cum.
Ordering her to not wear underwear obviously is a decent idea, especially if you also demand she wears skirts (Doesn't have much effect if she already does this for fun :P)
that's just some off the top of my head. I usually like to include her taboo's / specific fetishes if I can.
Conversely you could have her put some of that green plastic scrub pad (for washing dishes and pans) into her bra, taped in place with where her nipples would be. This obviously becomes irritating and painful. I've never had a sub do it myself, but I have heard of it being done and I sort of keep that one in my back pocket.
Have her edge several times, then drop a mild bomb on her. like the only way she gets to cum today is if she goes out in public somewhere right now and then calls you. From there you can have her get in the back seat of her car in a parking lot or something, and partially or fully disrobe and be able to cum.
Ordering her to not wear underwear obviously is a decent idea, especially if you also demand she wears skirts (Doesn't have much effect if she already does this for fun :P)
that's just some off the top of my head. I usually like to include her taboo's / specific fetishes if I can.
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cousin_it
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Re: Switchy Session
I got an idea for you, if she has a camera phone and credit/internet or whatever.
Have her write something on her body (slave/slut/whatever) nice and big, but concealable by her clothes. Throughout the day you send her messages telling her to show you. She has x amount of minutes to send you the picture, and for every minute late she gets a punishment. Maybe for every minute early she can get a reward. Punishment/reward to be dealt when you're both online/together.
3 minutes late? 3 minutes with clothes pegs on the nipples.
3 minutes early? 3 minutes of masturbation.
You can get creative with those, you know what you guys do and don't like. Also maybe keep a running total of time? If she fails in the morning, she has a chance to do damage control later, and will be anticipating the next chance, which may or may not even come.
Unless she has a funeral or something to go to, I can't think of anything she could be doing where this wouldn't be exciting.
Have her write something on her body (slave/slut/whatever) nice and big, but concealable by her clothes. Throughout the day you send her messages telling her to show you. She has x amount of minutes to send you the picture, and for every minute late she gets a punishment. Maybe for every minute early she can get a reward. Punishment/reward to be dealt when you're both online/together.
3 minutes late? 3 minutes with clothes pegs on the nipples.
3 minutes early? 3 minutes of masturbation.
You can get creative with those, you know what you guys do and don't like. Also maybe keep a running total of time? If she fails in the morning, she has a chance to do damage control later, and will be anticipating the next chance, which may or may not even come.
Unless she has a funeral or something to go to, I can't think of anything she could be doing where this wouldn't be exciting.
I have spent my whole life scared – frightened of things that could happen, might happen, might not happen. Fifty years I spent like that. Finding myself awake at three in the morning. But you know what? Ever since my diagnosis, I sleep just fine.
What I came to realize is that fear, that's the worst of it. That's the real enemy. So, get up, get out in the real world and you kick that bastard as hard as you can right in the teeth.
- Walter White, Breaking Bad
What I came to realize is that fear, that's the worst of it. That's the real enemy. So, get up, get out in the real world and you kick that bastard as hard as you can right in the teeth.
- Walter White, Breaking Bad
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Re: Switchy Session
Thank you so much for the replies!
I'll keep the updates coming, as long as you lot promise to keep the ideas flowing. Oh what fun!
Thank you,
EG
Love this idea, and definitely something she will be doing once I get her into that permanently horny and frustrated state!akds1337 wrote:One of my favorite things to do is make the sub play with, or edge her pussy, then wipe some of her juices on her upper lip or on her nostrils. As a constant reminder that not only is she an aroused little slut, but also that she was ordered to complete that task. Have her reapply throughout the day as necessary
When dressing to go out, she is to give me three choices. I'm being kind at first, but her options will get sluttier as time goes on, and of course underwear will be frowned upon ;)akds1337 wrote:Ordering her to not wear underwear obviously is a decent idea, especially if you also demand she wears skirts (Doesn't have much effect if she already does this for fun :P)
Love this one too.....I think we can start this fairly soon. Now to think up some punishments/rewards!cousin_it wrote:I got an idea for you, if she has a camera phone and credit/internet or whatever.
Have her write something on her body (slave/slut/whatever) nice and big, but concealable by her clothes. Throughout the day you send her messages telling her to show you. She has x amount of minutes to send you the picture, and for every minute late she gets a punishment. Maybe for every minute early she can get a reward. Punishment/reward to be dealt when you're both online/together.
I'll keep the updates coming, as long as you lot promise to keep the ideas flowing. Oh what fun!
Thank you,
EG