How is it done?

[miker987]

First of all... hello I'm a long time lurker, first time poster, sooooooooo yeah.

Now I keep finding teases and videos (JOI's mostly) in which the user is instructed to cum a few times in a short time period; 10 or 20 minutes, usually. I get that this isn't EASY (otherwise why would it be in the tease? xD), but every time I attempt it, I find my interest dropping so quickly after cumming the first time that I simply resolve the will to go on.

Perhaps I'm just being a light-weight, but how does one cum multiple times if only on their own? Consider this less a question and more a poll; share your secrets

[Genericdude]

Well, I'd like to help you, but I'm afraid I can't
Once I go off I don't just loose interest,
I almost always fall asleep

[dr_cunning]

Yah, same here... interest plummets... laziness or sleep ensues. I cum wayyyy too hard to have any fight left.

However, I can usually fight through a few ruined orgasms. If I knew I HAD to cum twice, that is what I'd do for the first one.

[Nezhul]

there's no tutorial. All you gotta do is simply decide to do it and do it. The point of cumming multiple times is exactly that you cum despite not wanting to.

I can agree that the idea sounds hot before you cum, but when you do your mind goes like "Fuck it, why do I need this? I don't want to cum anymore, stroking further is boring etc etc."
But if you wanna experience it, you just go ahead and do it nevertheless.

It's much easier with a partner. It's easier if someone close to you is pushing you to do it.

[SexualChoc]

I do not think it is possible
by yourself..to do multiples...
unless you are doing a tease or something
and have good will power.
using written instructions... so even that.. means you have some kind of help.

[janmb]

Possible yes, hard yes.

As others have said, it's all down to willpower. It helps having a tease pushing you, or far better, a real person, but even alone it can be done...

What I think is most important is to work through the mental fight you know will come after you cum once BEFORE you get there. Don't walk into that situation without a game plan. Imagine up front how you will motivate yourself through it, what fantasy turns you on something crazy, or what punishment could scare you from backing out... So once you get there the fight is expected and you know how to trump the wish to stop.

[CruelNatalie]

This is why tease and denial is so powerful. Keeping the fire burning for long period. I also think someone health and other factors. If you want explosive orgasms you take care of yourself and there are methods such as tantra, meditation, hypnosis and chastity to help those with less will power. :)