Problem with Chastity (can still orgasm)

[Tobias23]

I was looking for distractions today, browsing video sites and I found this video:

http://www.bdsmstreak.com/video/11494/c ... n-chastity

Basically she makes him cum inside a chastity belt. I did that to myself once too, with a vibrator, it wasn't a very pleasant orgasm, BUT it took away the aching and frustration from being denied. Seeing that video brought back those memories.

Doesn't this kind of take away one purpose of a chastity belt? The "can't cum even if he wants to" isn't true anymore. Do you have similar experiences?

[SexualChoc]

several subbies have reported that having an orgasm in a chastity belt
is somewhat painful to quite a bit
and "feels worse than a ruined orgasm"

so I owould say a chastity belt does a good job of prevenint enjoyable orgassms... yes

[Tobias23]

I do agree it's not an enjoyable orgasm if the CB ist tight enough, BUT!

But there was a huge difference between an orgasm inside a CB and a ruined orgasm. If I ruin an orgasm of mine correctly I am still horny and aching afterwards, even more frustrated. It doesn't take away the desperate desire to cum.

And the time I came inside a CB was painful, but it was a real enough orgasm to free myself of that horny aching and desire to cum. My head went from a crazy 'i'll do anything to cum' to a calm 'ehh i'm fine the next few days in chastity'.

[AliceInBondageLand]

Sometimes a small adjustment in fit (or adding a piercing) can help make things more "secure" but I think some men can come while barely erect and that gets around many "captive ball" devices.

A full chastity belt is MUCH harder to get around.

[Danny16]

Are you not defying your KH by doing this to yourself? Can most guys not pull out the back if they really try anyway and then get back in, with the help of some soap?

[Tobias23]

Slipping out can be prevented with a piercing or a chain. But it's not about defying my Mistress/kh. I can stay perfectly denied for a longer period of time, without the need of any chastity device. If she doesn't want me to orgasm and/or touch, then I won't do it.

And chastity still has it's benefits, it punishes errections, and is a constant reminder of who really owns that cock. So I'm not saying it's useless.

But what I was hoping to experience when I first got into chastity was a feeling of: "couldn't even if I really, REALLY wanted to", and that sadly was not the case ;(

[Tobias23]

... I think some men can come while barely erect and that gets around many "captive ball" devices.

A full chastity belt is MUCH harder to get around.

My tube is about 75mm long, and my growing penis starts at around 40mm and ends up being 120mm fully errect. And the diameter of the tube is also smaller than my errect penis. So yeah I can only get about half errect in there, until it presses painfully against it ... but with vibration, ball massage and wiggling I still manage to cum.

I have thought about a full chastity belt, but it would have to be custom made, and thats not something I can afford. But even then I'm not really sure it would prevent an orgasm, if I could still feel the vibrations and wiggle it around a bit.

Maybe I just get to orgasmic after being denied for a while ...

[CruelNatalie]

I've made guys orgasm in a device without them touching it at all. While fucking them with a strap-on or using a prostate massager. In fact most could not control it and it just happened. :)

[CruelNatalie]

And chastity still has it's benefits, it punishes errections, and is a constant reminder of who really owns that cock. So I'm not saying it's useless.

;(

I only know of a few devices that truly work and they are scary. But I think that most guys wear it for the idea of it. I like the look of it and it does remind them who that cock belongs to.

[davefrancis89]

Maybe something with spikes on the inside would prevent this - like the new silicone spiked one from birdlocked.