YMMV, but if you use Aspercreme (with Lidocaine –– the roll on kind), directly on your cock, and then wait 15 minutes for it to absorb/"dry" your next orgasm will be ruined (if you have it within the effective time window of the lidocaine.
As always, this isn't medical advice/consult your physician. And don't use anything stronger than 4-5% (in the US I think 4% is the highest concentration you can get OTC).
I dunno if it works with the actual creams, because they thin it out a lot for the rollon so that you don't have to rub it in, etc, but that reliably generates a really frustrating ruin for me.
How do you reliably get an ruined orgasm?
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Re: How do you reliably get an ruined orgasm?
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Re: How do you reliably get an ruined orgasm?
Thanks for the keep-him-caged link - new to me, useful!Mr-Elusive wrote: Wed Mar 23, 2022 11:23 pm Someone here posted this link previously and it made a lot of sense to me: https://www.keephimcaged.com/ruined-org ... ed-orgasm/ and it's what I use for determining if an orgasm is ruined or not.
For me, I manage to ruin when I can stop just before I go over the edge. I find if I stop just after I go over the edge, while I don't really enjoy the orgasm, I expel a full load. I'm still horny after this, but that refractory period kicks in.
It generally takes me a good 30 minutes of edging before I get to the stage where I can ruin and even then it sometimes doesn't work.
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Re: How do you reliably get an ruined orgasm?
It takes me a few minutes to get in a proper edging state, once I’m there it’s basically a constant edge or riding the edge for as long as possible. At some point you can’t keep going because you know your about to cum. This is when you ruin it, stimulate it and stop that will do. (A cock ring helps)
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Re: How do you reliably get an ruined orgasm?
We had a discussion on this topic a while back, you can read it here: viewtopic.php?p=236663&hilit=ruin#p236663
Other than that, I'd say that having the "right type of erection" makes it easier for me to ruin my orgasm properly. What do I mean by the "right type of erection", you ask? Well, ideally you want your cock to not twitch at all until the very last moment before you either cum or ruin it. This is tricky to achieve since there are a lot of variables at play. If you want to look into it, there is this tease/guide: https://milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=25754. The other factors are the strength of your pelvic floor muscle, and how the blood flow is affected in that area (i.e. emptying your bladder and bowel), which you can have a look at here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8JcfNw ... calTherapy
Other than that, I'd say that having the "right type of erection" makes it easier for me to ruin my orgasm properly. What do I mean by the "right type of erection", you ask? Well, ideally you want your cock to not twitch at all until the very last moment before you either cum or ruin it. This is tricky to achieve since there are a lot of variables at play. If you want to look into it, there is this tease/guide: https://milovana.com/webteases/showtease.php?id=25754. The other factors are the strength of your pelvic floor muscle, and how the blood flow is affected in that area (i.e. emptying your bladder and bowel), which you can have a look at here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R8JcfNw ... calTherapy