How long have you lasted?

[Marke]

39 days

The first 10 days were the hardest then I tended to forget.

But to be honest, unless I have lots of foreplay, teasing etc and mental stimulation them my orgasms aren't much. And as for what to do with the mess, let's not go there.

I was expecting a wet dream during my 39 days and that didn't happen although I had one or two dreams that were getting interesting.

I can relate to Potveg and the feeling of dissappointment. And also the pleasure in edging. As we are of a similar age then maybe that is a factor.

As to how being denied made me feel? Well Lindsey, it made me feel very submissive.

[drawn]

The longest I've gone is four weeks, with teasing, and I've gone 2-3 weeks a few times. I don't think it's normally the kind of thing I could do without encouragement, after a point I'm just not motivated to give up the immediate, more frequent pleasure for possibly a little more down the road. If someone else is telling me I have to wait, then I can make myself obey.

Denial has an impact immediately in turns of making me horny and leaving me feeling more submissive, and I find this builds up pretty quick -- after 7-10 days I'm climbing the walls with the desire to orgasm, and it ramps up from there. On the downside it can be a little distracting and probably isn't great for my productivity or sleep, but on the upside it does make me more submissive and really gives a sense of not being in control. It is also nice that after a while everything starts to feel really good ;) It definitely makes the eventual payoff amazing, although I don't know that I would say the orgasm is better after four weeks than two.

So I guess what I'm saying is that up to a point (for me maybe 10-14 days) there are immediate physical payoffs in terms of how I react to any stimulation, and past that it may well all be in my head -- but it is definitely there in my head. Also, confusingly, as a submissive the notion of waiting longer with no actual reward in terms of pleasure at the end is itself rewarding (of course this means that there is a reward for waiting, although if there is then it isn't really selfless, but then there isn't any reward, but then...)

[Foxhawke]

It is also nice that after a while everything starts to feel really good

Oh yeah, I forgot to mention that. After a couple of days I also noticed that just stroking felt much better, or more intense then it normally does, which actually was quite nice. That is what probably helped me last for about a week, after a few days just stroking for 15-20min or so made me feel so good that I didn't really mind not having an orgasm, as much as I did the first few days. If that makes any sense.

[eteased]

For me, the longest was a little over a month. (I put my vote in the 1 week to 1 month bucket, though, since it was only 32 days, I think.) I've also gone 1-3 weeks on several occasions. As others have mentioned, I've found that the intensity of how it feels peaks after about 2 weeks. After that it kinda levels off and maybe even declines a bit. The fun things (for me) are that after 4 or 5 days I start to feel very easily aroused, I get hard very very quickly, and I just find myself thinking sexual thoughts a lot more. Girls seem more attractive, the little bits of sex on TV or in movies are even more stimulating and exciting, etc.

Oh, the situations I'm describing were all while I was very single, and had little opportunity for, you know, actual sex. In some cases, I was being teased by someone online, in other cases it was just self-imposed denial. Needless to say, being teased by someone online was much more exciting! To Lindsey's point, going more than a week or so in denial really has no appeal to me if I've got a partner handy who is eager for some actual sex. I personally only like extended tease & denial when the alternative is solo masturbation.

[SomeOne]

Does an orgasm feel that much more intense after weeks or months, or is it something else alluring about it?

In my experience, orgasm does not get more intense after maybe 3 or 4 days without an orgasm. It depends more on the stimulation the time before orgasming, at least for me. When i am teased for hours, and then cum, the orgasm is MUCH more intense than a "fast" orgasm after days or weeks of denial. I don't remember my "record" exactly, but for me it was about 4-5 weeks, only once though.

regards,
SomeOne

[Izhanagi]

Alone, 7 days with webteases, 2 weeks on vacations, etc.

With my actual Mistress, 9 days, minimun 2 hs of sex on each one.

The pros:
* I fell more submisive. She play's with it, and reflects a little in my beavoir. It's a beautifull game.
* In the first day's, I can satisfy her more than usual, because the focus is her pleasure (and that idea turns she on)
* It's one of my fantasies, only remembering puts me on.

The cons:
* It's very, very dificult to have more than 20min of sex in the latter days. And that's not funny for my Mistress.
* I'm constantly horny, touching her, day and night. None of us can sleep well.
* I lost concentration, can't study, barely work.


Now we aternate periods of denial and periods of many orgasm (It's hard too: satisfy her, and the humillation of cannot mantain an erection). I can't imagine when or how would be my next orgasm. An that drives me crazy.

[RoniDev]

2 and a half month when I had to wear my chastity belt for a bit longer as usual.

[punkrngd]

my girlfriend (ex) dared me to who could go longer without orgasm... i won lol! she was quite a nympho and only lasted 5 days. I lastde till our next date which was a week and a half.

[wiggyone]

two weeks was the longest I lasted, then during a session I couldn't help myself but cum in my panties.

usually I'll go 4~7 days without permission to cum. while I'm being teased I'll start to get frantic about cumming as the days drag on, I'm an absolutely horny mess

without teasing? I went about a month, more by chance than any intent. I've never actually tried to stay dry without teasing (whats the fun? ^_~)

[CatsuitLover]

It differs for me. If I'm in a relationship, then it's much shorter. If I have nobody to be with, I just go to sleep at night.

However, an ex of mine and I planned a very special night. She decided that I wasn't to orgasm until that night. It was all of 5 nights. I made it, but it was very difficult with her laying right beside me and doing lots of subtle teasing. (i.e. laying in the dark, she rubbing my leg, asking me which outfit she should wear first; laying on top of me talking about her going topless the next day, etc.)

[all2true]

I dated a women who felt materbation was wrong
So...
I went three weeks without any kind of stimulation
no porn, materbation, or cum dumping, NOTHING.
I got so horney
that when she talked about sex on the phone
I had a mental orgasm
without touching myself!

It was from this session that inspired my web tease, Hard as a Rock
Because I eventually got so horney that walks in the forest would turn me
on just from bouncing around inside my clothes.

[DavidF]

12 days. No real exciting story, I just didn't feel like masturbating. :P

[cafe_Guzzi]

How did I feel? Hmmm... The longest I've gone, and having an online teaser, was about three weeks. We would meet daily online before I went to work. I would fire up my cam and follow her commands... I'd edge, tie my package up, do various forms of CBT while she would giggle, laugh, and offer encouragement and praise for 'being such a good boy'. She'd call me, from time to time while I was at work. She'd speak to me in such a tantilizing voice... I'd sit at my desk, rub myself, and pray I'd not be interupted!

When she finally would allow release, it was wonderful!! I loved her for it! And, admittidly, it got silly, sending her 'gift cards' to local stores, paying for her phone bill, etc... But I was at her beckoning. And I was thankful!! During the period of denial, I would become so horny that the most simple stimulant could be overwhelming! And it was then the frustration would set in. But I would continue to deny myself to please her. And that was enough of an award for me.

SO! To sum it up: Controlled, frustrated, excited, exhillerated, flustered and honored. Hope this helps!! :)

[irish2222]

my longest was 100 days just for the hell of it as my lady friend wanted to see if i could do it. not much teasing edging done though. and the orgasm wasnt all that intsense when it was over. At current rquest of a Lady i am at day 43 of an open ended restraint period with some t&d thrown in as You might expect it hard lol

sub irish

[laceyxboi]

i am currently at about 3 months. i had asked my wife for some tease and denial, and boy, has She responded !! anyway, i did ask for it. She also enjoys teasing me by leaving some magazine photos of nude men laying around, teasing me as to what she might want to do with them (or have me help do). right now, i am about ready to explode !!