Has anyone here, guy or girl, dom/domme or sub, ever considered using pain and denial as a way to grow as a person? Maybe shake a bad habit, or develop a new, useful one? Or used pain and denial to ends other than just the sexual?
(Please note: Performing non-sexual tasks for a Master/Mistress with whom your relationship is primarily sexual doesn't count)
Considered using pain/denial for self-improvement?
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thirteen.point.procrastinator
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Re: Considered using pain/denial for self-improvement?
Yes, I have setup a program in the past where I am in denial until I earn points to cum. The way to earn points is by working out. So the more you workout, the better!
Re: Considered using pain/denial for self-improvement?
Interesting. I am currently trying to use denial to cut down/stop smoking.
If I don't obey my mistresses demands about how many cigarettes I am allowed or various other tasks I must perform I don't get to cum.
The mistresses are fictional - various beauties I have found pictures of on line - but I am finding that their threat of denial and or punishment helps me toe the line.
If I don't obey my mistresses demands about how many cigarettes I am allowed or various other tasks I must perform I don't get to cum.
The mistresses are fictional - various beauties I have found pictures of on line - but I am finding that their threat of denial and or punishment helps me toe the line.
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Re: Considered using pain/denial for self-improvement?
I had a dom encourage me for a Job interview.
If I did well and got the job I would get a reward.
If I feal I did well and got a call back some smaller reward
If I missed the job I would get punished.
I think I did well in the interview but odly they never did call me back or offer me the job for weeks,
I was so stressed about it my master made my punishment mild
But I turely believe it helped me interview!
edit: By self improvement I assume you mean things that are not sexual... because after weeks and months serving,
I increased my ability to hold edges..
increased my pain tolerances, and even started liking some pain.
and
Was able to handle being caged for days instead of hours.
If I did well and got the job I would get a reward.
If I feal I did well and got a call back some smaller reward
If I missed the job I would get punished.
I think I did well in the interview but odly they never did call me back or offer me the job for weeks,
I was so stressed about it my master made my punishment mild
But I turely believe it helped me interview!
edit: By self improvement I assume you mean things that are not sexual... because after weeks and months serving,
I increased my ability to hold edges..
increased my pain tolerances, and even started liking some pain.
and
Was able to handle being caged for days instead of hours.
to thine own self be true
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