Feminisation
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toolman2810
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Feminisation
Hi guys / Gals I love the site. But I get a little piffed that most teases demand feminisation, wearing pink panties etc. I get turned on by a woman in control & can be a lazy lover. But orgasm denial isn't simply about turning your man into a gurl. I think it should be more about demanding your sexual satisfaction. Not making your lover into a thing that is beyond respect.
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slavechylde
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It doesn't matter to me one way or the other.
However, I would dispute that "most" of the teases have feminization as a part of them. A lot do; a lot don't.
On the front page, those first ten...do any of them have feminization as part of their tease? Wait, I think in the one I wrote, the Mistress does threaten to give the slave breasts like the slavegirl.
Still, I think this is a bit of an overstatement.
However, I would dispute that "most" of the teases have feminization as a part of them. A lot do; a lot don't.
On the front page, those first ten...do any of them have feminization as part of their tease? Wait, I think in the one I wrote, the Mistress does threaten to give the slave breasts like the slavegirl.
Still, I think this is a bit of an overstatement.
I'd say about one quarter of the teases contains an explicit feminization element. If you get a higher rate, maybe you are subconsciously drawn to them. 
Of course some people would consider the fact that the woman is in charge already a form of feminization on part of the male. So it's certainly a matter of how you define the term.
Of course some people would consider the fact that the woman is in charge already a form of feminization on part of the male. So it's certainly a matter of how you define the term.
Mountains and mole hills and all that jazz. It sucks finding stuff that turns you off, it would probly be better to critisize the tags on the teases, as that will accomplish more then a moral debate about what the definition of erotic is. As it stands you're in a boat full of horny people telling us we are wrong :P
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Makarov
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1. to toolman
Perhaps it's going a bit far to say guys that are into feminisation don't deserve respect. I'm not one of those guys, per say, but a little kinder approach might help.
2. to salt
Toolman isn't saying everyone's wrong, just the guys that want girls to make girls out of 'em. To put it better, you should say,
"As it stands you're in a boat that has quite a few horny people dressed in women's clothing, and you're telling them they're wrong."
I only nitpick because I don't want to be included on that boat.
3. As for feminisation showing up in a lot of teases, well...most of them don't have much at all. Most of them have some sort of humiliation, and that might eventually lead to feminisation in the tease.
The Ladder of Humiliation
The Top Rung
It begins with the woman identifying the user (he that plays the tease) as a bad lover. Perhaps she's found someone better elsewhere, perhaps she's just doing it because it rocks her socks off. Either way, the user has come up short in some way, shape or form.
The Second Rung Down
The small penis stage. She makes fun of the users...small penis.
The Third Rung Down
This is the point where that small cock becomes a clit. I've heard Domme's refer to small cock's as clits before, without having to be into feminisation. So far, the whole fem-convert thing is very minor.
The Fourth Rung Down
Panties. What else would you use to cover a clit? Breifs? Boxers? Try to hide a clit in a pair of boxers and all you've got is a lot of air. It doesn't matter whether it's her panties, her used panties, new panties, all the same. However, once the panties are on at all times, it's only a short ride to the bottom rung.
The Fifth Rung Down
Wearing other clothes, putting on makeup. Harmless at first, but over time it takes it's mark. Most teases skip this step due to the fact it requires more clothes, and it requires makeup. No one wants a tease that repeatedly makes them stop, leave the computer, change clothes, stop leave the computer, put on make up. It ruins the flow.
The Final Rung
By now the user answers to bitch and slut just as readily as his own name. Most likely a dildo is involved in this part of the tease, most likely anal. Perhaps the user even does the tease in woman's clothing at the time. Who knows?
The point I'm trying to make is that very few teases go all the way down. The majority of them only grab on to the second and fourth rung exclusively.
Not to mention the fact that everything is user controlled. If you want to see more teases without feminisation, make a tease without it. Most likely someone will notice yours, and perhaps do another without it. So, I'll just sit here toolman and wait for your tease to post up! *clicks the watch, the timer starts running*
Perhaps it's going a bit far to say guys that are into feminisation don't deserve respect. I'm not one of those guys, per say, but a little kinder approach might help.
2. to salt
Toolman isn't saying everyone's wrong, just the guys that want girls to make girls out of 'em. To put it better, you should say,
"As it stands you're in a boat that has quite a few horny people dressed in women's clothing, and you're telling them they're wrong."
I only nitpick because I don't want to be included on that boat.
3. As for feminisation showing up in a lot of teases, well...most of them don't have much at all. Most of them have some sort of humiliation, and that might eventually lead to feminisation in the tease.
The Ladder of Humiliation
The Top Rung
It begins with the woman identifying the user (he that plays the tease) as a bad lover. Perhaps she's found someone better elsewhere, perhaps she's just doing it because it rocks her socks off. Either way, the user has come up short in some way, shape or form.
The Second Rung Down
The small penis stage. She makes fun of the users...small penis.
The Third Rung Down
This is the point where that small cock becomes a clit. I've heard Domme's refer to small cock's as clits before, without having to be into feminisation. So far, the whole fem-convert thing is very minor.
The Fourth Rung Down
Panties. What else would you use to cover a clit? Breifs? Boxers? Try to hide a clit in a pair of boxers and all you've got is a lot of air. It doesn't matter whether it's her panties, her used panties, new panties, all the same. However, once the panties are on at all times, it's only a short ride to the bottom rung.
The Fifth Rung Down
Wearing other clothes, putting on makeup. Harmless at first, but over time it takes it's mark. Most teases skip this step due to the fact it requires more clothes, and it requires makeup. No one wants a tease that repeatedly makes them stop, leave the computer, change clothes, stop leave the computer, put on make up. It ruins the flow.
The Final Rung
By now the user answers to bitch and slut just as readily as his own name. Most likely a dildo is involved in this part of the tease, most likely anal. Perhaps the user even does the tease in woman's clothing at the time. Who knows?
The point I'm trying to make is that very few teases go all the way down. The majority of them only grab on to the second and fourth rung exclusively.
Not to mention the fact that everything is user controlled. If you want to see more teases without feminisation, make a tease without it. Most likely someone will notice yours, and perhaps do another without it. So, I'll just sit here toolman and wait for your tease to post up! *clicks the watch, the timer starts running*
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