How to get a blow job? =D

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How to get a blow job? =D

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Hi,

What are some ways you try to get people to give you a free blow job? It will also be fun to know how often each of your methods work. A free blow job meaning one you don't have to do anything for.

When I was a teen and always on the hunt for sex and sexual favors my main way was to make them think it would be fun for them or by making it appear as if I were doing them a favor by letting them suck me off.

"So what are you going to do for me if I let you put this in your mouth?"

That's worked surprisingly well with first timers and sheltered people. I guess maybe around highschool that stopped working as well but still made for fun conversations.

In highschool I was very popular and on the football team so I pretty much acted very arrogant and as it was expected as part of the deal mixed in with alittle this is what the cool people are doing attitude.

Now that I'm married I normally get a free blow job around one a month or so. The vast majority of the time I have to return the favor or get them during play.

I've tried both begging and demanding and she seems to prefer it when I'm demanding though in my opinion I think the work equally well. She gets turned on while giving head anyways and even more so if I'm demanding about it so I usually end up returning the favor.

I can't wait to hear how you try to pull this off. =D
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Re: How to get a blow job? =D

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Hate to take the fun out of this for ya, but I simply ask, or when the whim hits her I do nothing but enjoy. Been together for more than 25 years, never was nor is it a problem for me to receive a blow job at the drop of a hat. Years ago during the week of her period, we used to call it blowjob week. It has and I suspect will always be a normal and frequent part of our sex life.
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Re: How to get a blow job? =D

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I will not say exactly how often but it's more than once a month for me.
although.. cumming with a BJ... well that's a different story.

If she is giving you once a month, I might keep track, maybe she is doing it during her, peek sexual fertile time...
women can be very much driven by there cycle.
smell can also be important,
try a little behavior therapy, wear one special cologne when you think a BJ is most likely,
so she associated that smell and your natural one with it, or she may hate cologne.
It may also have to do with what you eat... or even how much you have sweat
some women like sweaty guys
others don't
You may want to take a bath before she get's home
or if she is home first, get one ASAP.
My limited experience has taught me most women preferred a guy freshly bathed
but no deodorant, or cologne.
So smell, how you smell seems to be a strong factor, from what I have experienced.
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