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my mistress has chastity question

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she has bought the cb 6000 and for training she wanted to know if she should drain me first or just lock me up what is recommended for newbies in that would it help in the comfort of wearing it she was considering ruining them till i had 4 or 5 dry one then locking me up but wanted me to ask others thoughts first
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My wife and I have recently started playing chastity games but I couldn't guess how a mistress should act.

If it were me I'd spend as much time as you can adjusting the fit befor you get locked up for any length of time. It will prob take your balls a week or more to get used to holding the cage. Kinda like breaking in a new pair of shoes.

Some advice if ya want it.
Keep it dry and clean it daily. A blow dryer helps after a shower. Don't drink alot before bed and when you wake up in pain get out of bed and either try to piss or do something to keep your mind busy until your hard on from he'll goes away. It's also prob a good idea to wear a larger ring while you sleep until you get used to it.

Hope that helps some. I know it did t have anything to do with your question but when and how you get to cum is really just a prefrerence between you and your mistress. There isn't a fourmla to it.
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thanks for the tips weve done the basic fittings and things it gose ok for a few days at a time she has a strapon never tried it shes not comfortable with it after she got it she was just trying to find out if anything would hel make it easier for long term where may invest in a birdlock to or a more open cage to help with comfort think part of our issue are high sex drives due to being in early twenties maried and a 8 month old so not much time for us hope more info helps answer questions

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There are tons of info on milking if you google it I'm sure you'll find afew you like. I've been reading up on this but it's not really my thing.

The one that sounded the best to me was a solo deal where you pretty much just put a vibe in your ass and wait. Ive never really been open enough to try anal play.
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update on progress wife hasent tried milking yet not sure if she wants to maybe by hand first she has been unlocking me before shower edging me washing every thing edging me a few more times then locking me back up after this has been an evey day thing for about a week might need to godown a ring size it seams to slide forward more than it should when soft not sure how much room i should have around its comfortable just seam to slid forward alot
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I have this problem with the cb rings. Keep going down until you find a size that's as small as you can go and still be comfortable.

For me I'm a grower and the size that's small enough to keep me from pulling out isn't some I can ware for more than an hour or so. =(
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same problem
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