Long term chastity: Do you count ruined orgasms?

[Snot]

hello,

I've been reading about milking related to long term chastity and it seems like there isn't really any medical proof that it does or doesnt have an effect on your risk of prostate cancer.

So my guess is that it's just a good way to let off some pressure after going along time without. I'm wondering if you get the same results with ruined orgasms?

In the past Ive alwasy given myself ruined orgasms whenever I pushed myself to far by mistake. Now that my wife and I are playing with chastity. I'd like to know if you think her givining me a ruined orgasm every month or so would be an alternative to milking?

[SexualChoc]

Everything I have read says the body natrually drains exessive sperm
out in your pee after three days.
So any denial after three days is more about the tension building up
phsychologically. however none of these studies discussed daily teasing
(they recommend avoiding it)
I have found that there does seem to be some kind of hormonal build up that is slow
perhaps testostrone, that drives the guy to want sex more the longer he is teased
and denied. i do not have medical evidence of this
I really have not, as of yet found any studies doen for our community.

I have found that milking is a little more draining however than ruined orgasms.
So it depends on what your goal is, how much your partner can put up with you slowly getting more and more of a bitch temperment.
Everyone is different, I have found after 30 days of deanil, for me, I am at the point my wife does not want to deal with my short-temper.
I get angry easily. I was going to do 3 months with no ruined or milking after two months My wife/mistress insisted I cum
because "I acn't put up with you nay longer"
I ahvee also noticed some difficulty paying attention, when in long term denail, although very hard to notice and slight.

So I would say you will have to learn the hard way, expiermentation
on what works best for you
because as best I can tell everyone a bit different on this.

[dtspam]

So you don't want to be milked, because of some influence on prostate cancer?
I don't think, there is much a connection, if anything, it might reduce the risk, as masturbation does, because producing a lot of cum and letting it out probably washes out some viruses and stuff.
Put I wouldn't worry to much about that, the influence is slim in any case, quit smoking, strop drinking or eat less red meat, and you should have made up for any increased cancer risk by far

About the ruined orgasm: I count ruined orgasms as release, at list as a partial one.
After some days of denial the cum starts to just drip out during stroking and edging (there is absolutely no orgasm, I don't even have to be on edge, only near it, and can continue stroking throught, the cum just flows out). If that happens for you too, it should be enough.
If you do chastity without any teasing, it might be a different matter.

[Snot]

Thanks for the info. I think if we get far enough along to need to let off some pressure we will go with the ruined orgasm option. Ive never caught onto the idea of milking.

Yea I agree it probably helps more in your head than anything with your body. Thanks for the replies.

[doti]

Most studies I could read seems to show that risk of prostate cancer would be lowered by milking http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn4 ... ancer.html.

Perhaps some experiences from people who never jerk (eg. : married out of chance puritans) may be useful, but finding them here...