Stamina problem?

[saywhatttt]

I think this is a stamina problem. It's like when I do like 50- 100 strokes I feel like im about to cum =( i can never do the teases right!

this is pathetic =(

[inferiorwhiteboi]

Try using a different grip...or just using your thumb & 1 finger like an O-ring.

Less surface area (fewer fingers) stimulating the penis may help. Just a thought.

Good luck!

[DannyP]

Firstly, it can depend on a lot of things. Like if are you really horny beforehand, how old you are etc.

One thing I find that helps is focusing more on the downstroke than the upstroke, it might not work for you but its worth trying things out to find your own limits, that way you know where you can push them.

Really don't worry if you can't do some teases, some are relatively straightforward and simple while others are very hard or nigh on impossible.

Just have fun!

[Qwert]

Try diffrent grips.Some strokes can bring you close fast while with only little diffrence you can stroke two or three tiime as much as previously.

Also if you are very horny when you start tease don't except you can last long.

And least but not last many teases are extremly hard to do for decent male so don't worry if you can't follow instructions and try another one.

[inferiorwhiteboi]

Yes, different grips.

There are a few masturbation-themed websites out there. I know a few of them have tons of pages dedicated to different ways to stroke...overhand, underhand, just a few fingers & so forth. Also, I believe they talk about different positions to use while stroking.


For instance...for whatever reason, if I am sitting on the edge of a chair and lean back, I find that it increases my sensitivity and is more pleasurable. When I'm kneeling I'm definitely more aroused...but when I'm just standing up & stationary, I tend to last longer & find endurance stroking easier.

Experimenting is key when it comes to finding out what'll work best for you.

[saywhatttt]

thanks guys! i always find myself super horny just when I log on here. maybe that's the problem haha. and i'll deff try different grips; do you guys know any teases for like "novices"?

[inferiorwhiteboi]

You're welcome.

Offhand, I don't know any teases that are specifically geared toward novices, somebody else might. But I do have a couple thoughts...

They're just teases. It isn't like your life depends on following them to the letter. True, it is great to be able to follow instructions exactly, but it isn't the end of the world if you need to alter them a bit to fit your level.

Practice makes perfect. Holding off one's orgasm isn't easy; it takes practice. You'll get better at it. In my 20's I was a "two stroke joke" - I almost never lasted longer than 2 minutes when I was jerking off. These days, I can go for over an hour. But I still have the occasional accident. They suck.

When I screw up, go over the edge, and know that I'm going to cum, I make a point of "ruining" the orgasm. Ruined orgasm is yet another subject that there's a fair bit of material about on the net. Simply explained, they work like this: The second you know that you're gonna cum, you let go of your cock. The cum will ooze out, not shoot. A ruined orgasm has way less pleasure than a regular climax. So, that way, when somebody screws up & cums, at least they don't get too much enjoyment out of it. They're not to everyone's liking, some people are more fond of them than others. I enjoy them, and have intentionally ruined quite a few of my orgasms.

Also...
If a tease's instructions are to stroke 'fast', that doesn't mean you have to stroke with reckless abandon at the speed of light. If you need to go a little slower, then slow down

[sleepy_rob]

Dude, first off don't worry. This tends to have an adverse effect to start with. I have this problem too and the way I deal with it is by either concentrating of something else (to start with have the TV on in the back ground, this will help distract you and then you can build up from there). If you have ever meditated then use those skills, if not take slow measured breaths and try to empty your mind of everything including feeling. This will help with sex too but it takes some practise.