Introduction, and some of my thoughts on sex.

Lindsey · Post by **Lindsey** » Sun Dec 23, 2007 3:45 pm

I stumbled across this forum recently, and I have to say, I was intrigued to say the least. For as long as I can remember, i've been enthralled with the mental aspect of sex...With figuring out different ways to build up a guy's desires until i'm in complete control of the situation...then building them up more and more, to the point where he wants an orgasm, wants me, wants anything at all, really. I love the idea of shifting his desires around. Making him want one thing, then turning him on to the idea of something else, and feeding that, until he forgets all about the first thing he was pining for. Mind you, i've always had a mild mannered personality. So i've always been challenged to find ways to accomplish these things without being overbearing, or sometimes without him even being aware it's going on.

It's exciting to see not only that other people are intrigued at some of the same ideas, but that a lot of the things i've 'figured out' for myself actually have names, and are quite commonplace

I'm not sure how healthy it will be for me to frequent a place that will even further my affinity for being a relentless, vicious tease. ;) But i'm captivated at the idea of men reading this right now, becoming aroused at the thought of my sexual mentality.

I gather that some guys who frequent here may be practicing chastity right now, and if you fall into that category, it would likely be in your best interest to keep your thoughts in check. For that reason, I won't get into any specifics right now. It wouldn't be right of me to tell you the enjoyment I get out of simple things insisting on eye contact during sex. Telling a guy that if he wants to feel what it's like to have an orgasm in my body, that he will not take his eyes off mine, no matter what. The simple act of watching the expression on his face when I bring him right to the edge, then simply slide myself *almost* completely off him to make him calm down and start over again is something that I probably get all too much joy out of. So I won't mention that.

I also won't mention that one of the most enticing aspects of sex for me is taking the very thing that's alluring about the situation, and removing it. Simply changing the rules and telling a guy that he's no longer allowed to look at me. Making sure he feels every sensation of the experience, and being sure to grab his hands and lead them over my *entire* body. But with the simple change that he has to keep his head turned away, until I say otherwise.

At any rate, i'm looking forward to expanding on the techniques that i've picked up through first hand experience. And i'm looking forward to hearing about the experiences of others that have a similar fondness for the above-mentioned (and eluded to) activities.

cymerc · Post by **cymerc** » Sun Dec 23, 2007 4:42 pm

You'll be right at home here, for sure.

I agree 100% that the brain is the most potent sexual organ people have, and the correct application of teasing or conditioning can wreak total havoc with that particular organ. Delicious (torture) in an alluring, loving, sexual kind of way, no doubt about it!

waiting · Post by **waiting** » Sun Dec 23, 2007 6:25 pm

Yes, welcome to the site. Hopefully you can expand your ideas here and introduce us to some of your own.

Makarov · Post by **Makarov** » Sun Dec 23, 2007 9:04 pm

Welcome aboard!

I personally don't have many experiences to talk about and even fewer worth mentioning...but maybe someone else has something interesting to say. In the meantime, hi and hello!

Post by **dark** » Sun Dec 23, 2007 9:50 pm

Hi Lindsey that was a great post

I hope one day I will find a woman with that attitude. I am very curious why women like teasing so much and your description was very informative. It works also for me. To give a woman pleasure and an orgasm in the end is a great thrill. I am getting off just on her face expression and her devotion to me. If you can control these feelings of your partner it's a great kick for sure.

But also to be controlled it's great. Did you ever tried that out? I think both, to be in charge and to be controlled is wonderful. But I still prefer do be teased and denied

Oh and I agree with cymerc. A woman can look like a supermodel, but if she is stupid and not sensible she has no sex appeal for me. I like the term "mindfuck". If a woman can fuck my mind I am helpless at her mercy and love every second with her. At this point physical conditions or stimulation is secondary.

That's also the reason why I find BDSM (or better D/S) fascinating. It's a sexual role play between two kinky minds. This connection can be a lot deeper than the act of coitus.

Post by **zenlover** » Mon Dec 24, 2007 5:02 pm

Ahhhh.. and you certainly HAVE developed some skills for the turn-on tease. You have my immediate respect and curiosity with the quality of your post. Wonderful to make your acquaintance...even if it is just in this limited way!

Lindsey · Post by **Lindsey** » Mon Dec 31, 2007 1:44 am

Thank you for all the replies, and apologies for the delayed response. I've been so busy with the holidays. Family visiting and what not...

cymerc wrote:You'll be right at home here, for sure.

I agree 100% that the brain is the most potent sexual organ people have, and the correct application of teasing or conditioning can wreak total havoc with that particular organ. Delicious (torture) in an alluring, loving, sexual kind of way, no doubt about it!

Thank you for the welcome. I've read through some of the threads here, and i'm hoping i'll be able to, ahem, contribute in a positive way. It's good to see people of a similar mindset. ;)

waiting wrote:Yes, welcome to the site. Hopefully you can expand your ideas here and introduce us to some of your own.

Yes. The joys of the internet...bringing the allure of sex to new levels. ;)

dirtyjackau wrote:Hi Lindsey and welcome!

You're right of course boys shouldn't think about some things - so i'm especially glad that You didn't mention some of the things You do to drive guys crazy with desire.

Hopefully You'll find fun and enjoyment here like a lot of us do, and hopefully You wont get too hounded by messages that You feel overwehlmed, unfortunately the male:female ratio here is not in the females favour, but one more is *always* welcome!

cheers
jack...

Well...I'd be lying if I gave you any indication that I don't like that sort of attention. I believe there's a certain amount of allure in having an understated demeanor, which I put forth more often then not. But it's what goes on, behind the scenes, so to speak, in my head, that I enjoy letting out every so often. It's only natural to be curious to how guys respond to that I suppose. Attention whore? No...but I do enjoy it. ;)

Makarov wrote:Welcome aboard!

I personally don't have many experiences to talk about and even fewer worth mentioning...but maybe someone else has something interesting to say. In the meantime, hi and hello!

Thank you!

dark wrote:Hi Lindsey that was a great post I hope one day I will find a woman with that attitude. I am very curious why women like teasing so much and your description was very informative. It works also for me. To give a woman pleasure and an orgasm in the end is a great thrill. I am getting off just on her face expression and her devotion to me. If you can control these feelings of your partner it's a great kick for sure.

But also to be controlled it's great. Did you ever tried that out? I think both, to be in charge and to be controlled is wonderful. But I still prefer do be teased and denied

Oh and I agree with cymerc. A woman can look like a supermodel, but if she is stupid and not sensible she has no sex appeal for me. I like the term "mindfuck". If a woman can fuck my mind I am helpless at her mercy and love every second with her. At this point physical conditions or stimulation is secondary.

That's also the reason why I find BDSM (or better D/S) fascinating. It's a sexual role play between two kinky minds. This connection can be a lot deeper than the act of coitus.

People are complicated creatures. Personally, i've always enjoyed playing mind games with a guy just a little too much. I like playing the game of who wants who more. I enjoy being able to control a guy's desires and ramp up the sexual tension between us at will. I also pride myself on being able to stay collected, at least enough to pretend that i'm not turned on...making a guy feel like i'm in control of my hormones. Even if it's not the case. ;)

It's the feeling of captivating a guy with sex, and seducing him. Getting in his head and very slowly feeding him everything I know he wants. It's a very enticing idea to get a guy to trust my judgement enough where he trusts me to make him feel good. That he'll have the restraint to skip over instant gratification because he trusts that what I have in mind for him will be better than that. I'd never make anyone do something they didn't want to do. It's the fact that he wants it that turns me on so much. I love making a guy *want* to be tormented.

And i've definitely been on the other side of things. In fact, half of the ideas I come up with in my head stem from how *I* would like to be treated if in a submissive situation. I don't think you can truly appreciate making someone feel like that if you don't enjoy experiencing it yourself. And that's a lot of fun also...I like to keep a guy guessing as to what kind of mood i'll be in on a particular day. ;)

zenlover wrote:Ahhhh.. and you certainly HAVE developed some skills for the turn-on tease. You have my immediate respect and curiosity with the quality of your post. Wonderful to make your acquaintance...even if it is just in this limited way!

Thanks for the warm greeting. I'm sure i'll have an opportunity to pique your curiosity a bit more at some point. ;)

-L