agree mostly,dark wrote:You can't compare a human with a horseIn my post I talked about advices like that, sorry camel no offense, but to compare a submissive person with a horse draws a wrong picture for a newbie.
In fact I think this is the big difference. A submissive female or male wants to submit to his/her partner without forcing. In this case, if the dominant part is not experienced and the first thing she starts with is manipulating his personality she could damage the whole relationship. These are things you can do later if the relationship grows.
And starting a power exchange relationship with a chastity belt? You don't think this is a bit too fast? What about granting both the chance to explore themselves and their partners desires, before starting these extreme things?
I agree with some points in your post in general, but I don't understand why all people in the internet want to encourage other people to do it in their way.
if i were in his situation i would not be happy taking a fantcy to this level. they are his and his alone, and i dont think exploring thaat side of himself from the confort of his home in front of his own computer screen was that bad? i have thing i play out in my mind i would not want to play out there is a big difference fantacy and reality. Do you have thing you think about in your head you would not want him to know???
my saying is it dont matter what you do out doors as long as you eat at home. In my book masterbating over a computer image or role play is not cheating.
He Married you and has agreed to play this game, thats great but HE must set the boundrys as no body in is really a slave are they? If its got to work it got to be fun for you both. as dark said do it your OWN way.
whats works in my sub dom role play for me maybe would't for someone else?
Do what ever makes you BOTH happy and good luck
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