Need ideas for my locked up husband!

[teasetoy4jess]

Some great ideas, a simple one we always do is she picks a number in her head between 1 and 10 and while I am fucking her, I pick a number. If it matches, then I get to cum, if it doesn't then I don't. I usually pick 4 or 5 numbers, and she always picks a fresh one. I never know whether she is truthful or not, although she always claims that she has never had to switch the number. Nothing beats guessing the number right next to it. Recently, she started adding that every guess costs me one more day of not cumming. In about a year of playing it, I think I have only guessed right once.

[Human]

Letting him "stroke" as fast as he wants, whenever he wants, but with the stroke consisting of only rubbing his non-dominant hand index finger, and only on the top side of his cock (not the underside near his balls). The top side includign the top side of the head and also shaft No other contact of his cock with anything (so no resting of the cock on a table etc). For added torment, he must do this while watching you pleasure yourself.

I betcha I could make myself cum like this. So it's not for everyone, only for ones who can't.

Could you try it? I am curious on whether it is possible to cum this way. Note: no rubbing the underside, so no rubbing the sweet spot.
Also, obviously, you must not have stroked regularly before and be on the edge and then do this. The restrictions must hold from start to finish.

[Erin212]

3 more ideas, 3 more days without cumming for my hubby! We're now officially at 4/5.

To Dubble: Very nice idea indeed- I can see it being awhile before he got BOTH right...

To Skrote: I certainly like the idea of him having to buy me more underwear! A lady can never have enough... I'd have to think about what sort of punishment I'd want to do, but you've definitely got something here... (and I'm counting it as 1 idea )

To Teasetoy: Simplep, but elegant. Nice.

As always, your ideas are really appreciated. I seem to be getting plenty of concepts for games to play that determine if/when he gets to cum. We can't use them now, since we both know he's not cumming until... who knows when at this point! SO... can you all help me think of things we could do in a teasing session where he has no chance of cumming? Either while he is locked up or not- we do both.

Oh... and Jonathon says, "Hi everyone- and you can all go to hell!" (lovingly, of course!)

[darkstar]

something which i do when is self lock is to take male supliments such as gensing and zinc and also some male concpetion pills.

makes me much hornier and my balls fucking HUGE

[Human]

SO... can you all help me think of things we could do in a teasing session where he has no chance of cumming? Either while he is locked up or not- we do both.

Based on my earlier suggestion: teasing by rubbing the index finger (if he is doing it then he can only use his non-dominant hand) on just the top half of his cock (no underside touching).

Since his orgasm seems to be getting farther and farther away, here is another idea:
He gets to stroke for X minutes everyday for a week. X is determined as follows. The week before, he has to see how long he can keep a decent erection without touching himself, and when looking at you. What constitutes a decent erection depends on you. The number of tries depends on you (eg, you may wish to play only 3 nights that week, so he can try only on those 3 nights). To maximise how long he can keep an erection, he can buy you whatever lingerie or outfit he wants, and you will wear it in front of him. And you talk sexy to him. Suppose the longest erection he can keep without any contact is Y minutes on a certain trial on a certain night that week.
Then X = 2*Y*Y (you can tinker around with the formula)

For example suppose you play 3 night a week, and on each night he gets two attempts (he can work himself up just before the monitoring time begins.
So, he gets 6 attempts overall.
Let the times be: 1.25 (1 min 25s)
1.45
2.33
2.43
1.49
3.00

So his best time is 3 minutes
So if his best time in his trial week is 3 minutes, he can stroke for 18 minutes each day next week.
If his best time is 4 minutes, he gets to stroke for 32 minutes each day the next week.

Notice how his stroke time goes up more quickly the longer he maintains an erection, that is, the incentive for going from 3 to 4 minutes is much more than the incentive to go from 2 to 3 minutes.

Whats in it for you?
1. You will get much hotter in his mind as that is how he can maintain an erection longer.
2. He will train himself to be aroused longer without any physical contact.
3. You will get sexy outfits to drive him out of his mind.

[skrote]

You know, another idea that drove me crazy during long term denial was being told to write short stories/poems/teases about my fantasy's.

Now the evil twist that my wife added was that for every grammar/spelling error that she found it would cause a punishment. Punishments included:

adding a day of denial/5 errors
having to retype the story using one hand, once I was really bad and I had to use my nose..no excuse with spell check being available, fortunately it was not a long story.
Writing lines for the incorrect words.
spankings (and since it was Long distance, spankings were enforced by using an electric paddle.. Doesn't matter how light or hard you hit yourself it still hurts.. especially on the feet... ouch!)

another idea another day

[teasetoy4jess]

This is so much fun, I am glad to see Jonathon is enjoying it too.

I love just being tied up while she plays. My favorite is when she ties me up and blindfolds me then rubs her breasts over my chest and face. I am not allowed free access to them so this is more powerful. Also she will tie me up and then lay on me while she plays with a toy while reminding me how good it feels and how unfortunate it is that I don't get the same thing.

I think teasing is as much mental stimulation as it is physical. So make comments about his situation and how much he loves it. Or something like, "Honey, I haven't cum for a day or two, I sure could use some attention." That one stings a little then you have been denied for over a month. Let me know if you want more specific phrases.

Have fun

[herlilbitch]

You could make him watch videos of other guys cumming while you keep him denied. So hot seeing other people have orgasms when you can't have one.

[Nezhul]

Personally I don'tcare about cumshots. I like seeing women cum, but I don't care at all about male's cumshot.

[Erin212]

More responses- fantastic!

To Human- I get it, but probably not an idea I'm going to go with (to be honest!). I don't really like him stroking himself at all if I can help it!

To Skrote: I like the idea of having him write. Lord knows he's thinking about it quite a lot! As far as the spelling/grammar stuff- I doubt he'd make any mistakes! He's a bit of a dork when it comes to that stuff...

To Teasetoy: I love it! I definitely use language like that from time to time, and I like the idea of tying him down while I play with myself on top of him... delicious!

To herlilbitch: Thanks for contributing! Not really our style, but keep the ideas coming!

To Nezhul: Thanks- great contribution...

To Teaseme: Another solid idea. Except for the panties part, I like it all!

And that's another 5 ideas, and another 5 days for my man! I'll let him know that his updated day of orgasm is now 4/10, which would be an 8 1/2 week denial for lucky Jonathon! But he's already done 10 weeks- what fun is it if we can't make him go AT LEAST that long?!

[wanker]

This is to add to teaseme's idea above. Instead of delaying lube/condom, use saran wrap. You can adjust thickness and coverage (just wrap the head for example).

[dubble]

Do you have a hollow dildo/strapon? Tie him down, blindfold him, unlock him, then slide the dildo over his cock. Mount it and have a little fun.... even take off the blindfold at this point! Not much is more teasing and frustrating for me than to know I am inside a woman when I cannot really feel her, her orgasm, or have my own... and watching her bounce up and down on me! Drives me crazy!

I also like edging to/on every body part of a woman... rubbing myself on her feet, then her ankles, then calves, the backs of her knees, thighs/hams, ass, pussy, abdomen, hands, arms, chest, back, lips, neck, even her hair... one edge on each body part.... While he is thrusting/edging, his lips are to remain in contact with your body... somewhere.... or he has to stop rubbing on you. It can get interesting!

Being tied down spread eagle & holding a dildo in my mouth while she rides it is one of my fav's as well! Erin, put on nipple clamps and tie a shoelace around his cock/balls. Then tie another shoelace from his bound cock to your clamps/chain. Make it taut. While you ride his face, the connecting shoelace will tug at his cock and your nipples!

Do you play with food? Go to the store and buy some fruits. While he is tied & blindfolded, prepare the fruits for his cock. Peel, cut, &/or make holes as necessary in the fruits. Then start rubbing and teasing him with those cool, wet fruits. Slide a banana peel over his cock and stroke him to an edge. Take a grapefruit and/or cantaloupe with a hole cut in it to edge him again. Rub a sliced strawberry on his shaft and sweet spot & see how long he can last. Have him guess the fruits as you snack together. Each wrong guess is another day in lockup! Buy a few things he has never heard of to add to his torment!

[teasetoy4jess]

I agree, it would be a shame if he doesn't get at least to 10 weeks.

Another stroking game I have done, is to let him start stroking, then give him math problems to do to figure out how many strokes he gets. For instance you can say multiply the difference in our age by the number of days since your last orgasm, then add 20 and divide by the day of the month. Things like that which totally take your mind off of what you are doing and make the stroking session more frustrating, especially when you have been built up to it.

I also love the idea of making him earn being teased. Its very stimulating to think about working to then be frustrated and denied. Give him chores to do, or like my wife's favorite, tell him if he gives you a good massage then he will earn some time unlocked and edged.

[illtaket42]

Hi Erin,

since we are talking about T&D why not concentrate on the 'D' for a day.

For a whole day your husband's cock gets no physical attention whatsoever. Nothing - not even clothing - will touch him on that day.

To keep his mind on the subject make him write a tease: He should write it in a way in which he would like to be teased by you in the near future. Let him think you might make it happen today on the assumption that he does a gperfect job writing and illustrating the tease. Make him tell you what it is that turns him on on each page and why the sexy girl on that page illustrates the tease in the best possible manner.

You couldt heat up his imagination by demontrating some of his own tease ideas on some object asking him if this is the way he likes it. Show him some variations and let him comment on them. Let him discribe how each move would feel. Just keep his mind fixed on sex and his cock will respond. With nothing to touch it though, it must be pure frustration.

While your husband is in denial you are not. If you feel hot like it, make him give you an orgasm or more again keeping his mind fixed on what he cann't have.

As an added incentive you could publish the tease on milovana (your decision). You could tell him in advance, that you will only use this tease on your husband if it gets a rating of at least 3.x or 4.x points.

Stay creative and enjoy your partnership with Jonathon.

[Erin212]

Great to see more posts! At least, it's great for me... maybe not for SOMEONE I know!

To wanker: Actually I really like your suggestion. I never thought of that, although we have used saran wrap for bondage before. You're getting me thinking....

To Dubble: Always full of ideas! My husband is really starting to not like you! But never mind him, of course...
The hollow dildo... don't have one, but might be a fun next purchase...
The edging... hmm- he might like it- not sure if I would.
The mouth dildo- I know he'd like this, and I think I could get into it. Again, don't have one to use yet...
The food... we've done a little with food in the past. In my opinion, the mess usually isn't worth it. Of course, there are people who like the mess I suppose. I'm just not one of them.

To teasetoy: I'm glad we're of the same opinion regarding challenging Jonathon! I could see myself incorporating the math idea into something- probably not him stroking himself though. I certainly do like the idea of making him earn his teasing sessions though. I try not to use the "keys" to control the non-sex parts of our lives (we both agree that could be unhealthy), but I can definitely use them in bed however I want. The massage sounds like a great idea!

To Illtake: Hmm... having him write a tease. I tend to think I know his fantasies pretty well at this point, but maybe there are some things we haven't talked about. This is actually a pretty good idea! I actually never thought of that... Thanks!

And by my count, that's another 8 ideas since my last post, and another 8 days with orgasm for my darling husband! May I remind you, honey, that this was your idea! 4/18 is now the day, which will put you close to 10 weeks! But I should probably also remind you, darling, that if this keeps going, you're looking at up to 100 days over the 4 weeks you were at when we started, which would push your special day ALL the way back to exactly 6/17! Wouldn't that be exciting honey?! And since I know you check this forum all the time, I promise to give you an AMAZING tease night tonight when you get back in town! I'm getting the ropes ready now...