Question about 'Giving up Control' series by Decker

[DrPain]

I'm hoping to start this series, which I can see is an epic, amazing work. Can I ask though -- how many chances to orgasm (including ruined) are there? I am scared to start a tease series that would deny me completely for more than a month!!

Thanks!

[Nezhul]

There's only one chance in the end of each chapter. So like about 2 weeks before you cum 1st time. I guess.

[janmb]

It's nothing to worry about really - it might deny you for days, but not weeks (not many at least) and certainly not months.

While it's definitely a tease revolving around denial, it is so much much more, and highly recommended indeed. Best series ever created on this site - and I frankly have a hard time seeing that fact ever changing.

[Nezhul]

ture, the series is great, but for ME, I fimd it to hard. And the reason is not just self control. For instance, I find if physically hard to hold an edge for long time (minutes), there comes time when I eather will cum unintentionally or let the edge slip. I meen even one light touch will result in ejaculation. Same with lots of simple edges. After 2-3 dozens it takes me just a few strokes to edge again, and it's too fast. One stroke I don't feel nothing, the other - I simply cum.

And off course pain humiliation and bondage are complete turnoffs for me. I can see a point of taking pain from someone (tho I don't think I will ever find myself engaging in those games). But I see the point. I don't see any point in hurting myself over a webtease. Or any other reason. That's just completely not sexual for me. As well as dirty talking. A women that starts talking shit looses all sexuality to me. As well as any man looses respect.

I know tho someone's into that kind of stuff. And the series really took a great effort.

[DrPain]

Thanks, guys -- very helpful! I appreciate it. I'm about 1/3 of the way through Chewit's Stroke It series and then I plan to do Decker's.

[Nezhul]

try neverending story if you want a shorter series.

[janmb]

ture, the series is great, but for ME, I fimd it to hard. And the reason is not just self control. For instance, I find if physically hard to hold an edge for long time (minutes), there comes time when I eather will cum unintentionally or let the edge slip. I meen even one light touch will result in ejaculation. Same with lots of simple edges. After 2-3 dozens it takes me just a few strokes to edge again, and it's too fast. One stroke I don't feel nothing, the other - I simply cum.

All down to practice

I know exactly what you mean, both holding for a long while as well as many, fast edges can be hard to master, and I occasionally fail too... Then again, the more you practice the more control you do get - not just in terms of reading your own body, but with what techniques work better than others.

For example, after having done a ton of edges, then holding one, merely grasping the cock without moving at all can be enough to hold the edge or even increase it toward going over... At that point, removing the hand can be a huge problem itself since it will push you over... The solution to that is to not hold with a full grip in the first place - but use just a few fingers or even just one. Most of the time, most teases allow you to make such choices.

And off course pain humiliation and bondage are complete turnoffs for me. I can see a point of taking pain from someone (tho I don't think I will ever find myself engaging in those games). But I see the point. I don't see any point in hurting myself over a webtease. Or any other reason. That's just completely not sexual for me. As well as dirty talking. A women that starts talking shit looses all sexuality to me. As well as any man looses respect.

I'm pretty much there myself. I do like a bit of pain (within certain limits), and I in general agree that pain play is far less meaningful on your own, since control kinda ruins the idea in the first place. But it is very tastefully done in most of this series. As for humiliation and self bondage I am totally with you on that - total turnoffs for me as well, but again, I'm sure this series does that very well too - for those who are into it.

We're all different. Fortunately

[janmb]

try neverending story if you want a shorter series.

Yep, that's a very good one too, especially with the standards available at the time it was written.