First time / Experiance

[Jexz]

I was wondering if any would like to share their first time experiance with BDSM.......almost what made them intrested in it in the first place and how they came about practicing or trying it.

Mine was probably when i was 16 stayed up late as you do at that age because you have abundence amounts of energy and saw some intresting things. I mean i had heard things in passing prior to this but that show was probably what made me go research it further. I had always loved ropes i remember that and making knotts and trying to trap people.

But my first step was buying my first toys so to speak. Which where

A cheap butt plug.......which was horrid. Too long and just was uncomftable and caused pain
The gates of hell.........More intrested in what it felt like to feel the entrapment around me
A leather gag..........whom had not seen those kind of things in moves when a person was gaged. Wanted to try it without using duck tape to rip my lips off
and finally a Chastity belt ..........strange device and wondered what the perks would be and it also kind of snagged in my mind to try ((sure glad i did :P))

[Nezhul]

First of all I should say, that I'm hetero, male, and I'm dominant.

The interest in BDSM was always with me. Can't remember when I wasn't. Even in kindergarden - tho I didn't even know what sex is then, where children come from, what was the girls needed for (I knew they are to be someon's mother, but that's it ) and I totally believed, that penis needed to make peeing easyer. But my very first sexual desires (which was pure instinct, not motivated and not directed to girls) were BDSM-like. Won't describe it in pictures, but for some reason SCAT took a great place, tho I hate that stuff now =). But one thing is that I realize it now, the other is WHEN I realized it.
And it happened long after I started watching porn. I should say, that I'v always fantasized of women in jail, forced for sex, or enjoyed rough moments in vanilla porn. But I didn't have any thought of making it real.
What opened my eyes is piracy. That was the time, when internet traffic in my city became cheap enough to start watching video on the net and looking for amusement. And there was some moment when I started looking for porn.
There wasnt such sites as youporn or xtube then (or at least I never bumped on them), and I pretty soon was disappointed with free sites, where you get more spam than pictures, and more viruses than you see letters. So I'v started looking at premium sites, and for that I have found passes on the net. I was pretty lucky and found lots of passes in a few hours.
Some were expired, some sites didn't ring a bell to me or was closed to russia (rasism! ). But some were fine and I lurked them one by one.
That's when I'v bumped onto perfectslave.com... And that opened my eyes. Those videos of women who were forced to cum over and over were sooo hot, and that was so simple, that I understood - that's what I'v always dreamed of. So from that point on I LOVE BDSM and all related to it. I don't like femdom too much personally tho.
And I have limited experience with my girl also. Not too often and nothing serious but I tie her up from time to time. Like that.

[jlx666]

i remember when i was nine or ten (~15 years ago) my mother used to read some kind of newspaper or magazine, which had a couple of erotic articles in it
i remember there was an article about modern chastity belts and another one about a guy, who was dominating girls, blackmailing them and stuff like that
these articles were making me so horny, that i started to masturbate so early, even tough i couldn't really get hard back then

[Nezhul]

Strange. I had erections since I remember myself. (as far as I remember at least)

[tightpanties]

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[xNikkix]

I remember when I was young and we'd play out on the street. We'd play a game like catch, but if you caught the person you had to kiss them. This was the kind of age where kissing was "icky" and not exactly a pleasurable thing.

At times I found myself letting the boys catch me on purpose and I'd like do a fake struggle to get away from them so they had to pin me down and kiss me. If you were an observer of this you would probably think you're witnessing a child rape another but it was just me pretending I didn't want it. I always seemed to really enjoy the moment of the boy holding me down to the ground and forcing a kiss on me. At one point we even played this game in my friends bedroom which was clearly set up for me to get caught and kissed. Wow I really wanted it haha.

At the time I obviously had no idea what that meant. Now I look back on it I can see the submissive side of it and most likely the beginning of it all.

I started to grow up and got my first computer at 14 (I wasn't too rich so didn't really have a computer like the rest of the kids ) and what does a 14 year old do with a brand new computer and internet connection? Goes straight for the porn. I watched many kind of porn which was most likely me experimenting, and I found myself getting more and more turned on over the more BDSM style of porn. I can probably say I've watched most categories of porn but this was defo my favourite.

So basically my first experience and what got me involved is kids games and porn. I imagine porn is the start for most.

[bobroberts]

dude - old warner bro's cartoons, where someone was getting tied up, especially, a cross dressing foghorn leghorn. weird, but awesome. i haven't thought of that since i was young!