Ten Possibilities

[Alison]

Ten Interesting Possibilities for Houseboys

Just something entertaining- what can you do with a houseboy for 24 hours?

1. Bondage. There are a lot of ways to explore bondage, but we'll keep this as one category. There is rope bondage (one of my faves), silk bondage, leather bondage, harness and straps, as well as furniture bondage.

2. Spanking/Flogging/Cropping/Caning. For those who crave physical sensation, do a very intense, long spanking session, done for 20 to 40 minutes every hour (except for about 6 when you sleep) for 24 hours. It's intense. It's physically exhausting, emotionally draining, and it takes you to this level that really cannot be described with words. At the end, you are puddle material. Simply puddle material.

3. Sensory Exploration. There are so many things that make the skin FEEL. Sandpaper, silk, fur and other textile/tactile objects. Oils like peppermint or cinnamon that cause reactions. Ginger, either the oil or especially fresh ginger. Witch Hazel or Apple-Cider Vinegar evaporating off the skin. Nehru oil massage oil with sandal wood and lavender to complete relax you.

4. Sensory Deprivation. Mummification. Sheeting. (Sheeting is where you lay someone on their back on a surface (I use a wrought iron twin bed). A strap goes under their ass and each wrist is bound to it. Then they are tucked in with a single sheet that is very tightly in place. It's best to use a king sized sheet, so that so much is tucked in that there is very little allowance for movement. Left in that position for an hour or more, the world becomes a far away place.)

5. Strap On/Strap In Training. The problem with a short session in this realm is that the body takes time to get adjusted. There is also only so much of this sort of play that someone can do at one time (for most people). You body needs to rest. So getting to a fully trained state, takes time and patience. It's nice to have that time. This is particularly true if you want to get to a state like deep fisting... but even if you are just wanting to be comfortably pounded (not a misnomer), than time is a gift.

6. The Proper Houseboy. 'nuff said.

7. A femme day. Spend a day with lovely creatures en femme. Dress up, and then have play, and tea, and exploration. There is the fun in playing dress-up, of course... but then there is the fun is helping someone put together their character, or watching in awe for those who know precisely where they are in this realm. This is particularly fun when there are other fetishes involved.

8. The magnificent group. Be clear about making certain that the people in question match. Two men who want the humiliation and extra pressure of another person there without any contact with each other works brilliantly. Two men who are both bi and open minded also is a fabulous combination. One of each- not so much.

9. Toy Day! Play with all sorts of toys...

10. Masochists and Pain Sluts. I know that I don't like hurting people who do not like to be hurt. But there is something about those folks who really love pain. The idea that you can't do anything too hard, that you can really push the boundaries and it will feel positive is so incredibly freeing. It is good to be careful about people's boundaries. It is fun to see how far you can take someone... and it's fun to get someone to the edge. But you have to have a real respect for their limits and boundaries. So having someone who loves the 100 clothespins on their body, with zipper after zipper or someone who likes edgeplay like ropeburns or ball kicking... It's cathartic for you too. I know you wouldn't dream of doing this to someone who didn't ask for it... but it is great when it is asked for.

[aldorax]

It may not be glamourous or overly kinky but a former ex liked what she called a "clothing collar" --- meaning that whenever I was at home I was to wear a certain item of clothing at all times.

During that winter, we agreed it would be my North Face fleece zip-vest zipped up. Light enough to wear around the house over my t-shirt w/o overheating, but also something one would expect to wear anyway at that time of the year. (The idea was something that was comfortable, concealable, and a private thing between us....meaning I could go down to get the mail, have neighbors over, and nobody would know what was going on.)

She loved seeing me "constantly collared" for her and it always kept her in my mind as well.

Just a thought. May not be 100% releveant to this thread, or overtly kinky per se, but I figured to bring it up as something you can do all the time with someone @ home.

[les]

It may not be glamourous or overly kinky but a former ex liked what she called a "clothing collar" --- meaning that whenever I was at home I was to wear a certain item of clothing at all times.

During that winter, we agreed it would be my North Face fleece zip-vest zipped up. Light enough to wear around the house over my t-shirt w/o overheating, but also something one would expect to wear anyway at that time of the year. (The idea was something that was comfortable, concealable, and a private thing between us....meaning I could go down to get the mail, have neighbors over, and nobody would know what was going on.)

She loved seeing me "constantly collared" for her and it always kept her in my mind as well.

Just a thought. May not be 100% releveant to this thread, or overtly kinky per se, but I figured to bring it up as something you can do all the time with someone @ home.

Such an obvious idea.
That's why people don't think of it.

Many will no doubt be mumbling
"I knew/thought of that."

Thanks again,
well done.


les

[beachaccess]

I wish i were your houseboy Alison

[ownmind]

Great post
Maybe one day I will get to act out some of these!

[Lincin]

Hah, mummification with duct tape and saran wrap sounds like it could be challenging :P