Toxic Treat: A Spontaneous Demonstration of power

[SophiaStafford]

For the enjoyment and demonstration of a new VERY cute but horribly naive dear dear associate, I would like to make a show of just how 'real' this, I have decided to issue the following statement"

I want a small sum to be spent on a good cause. Do not get too excited-- I will deny you your ultimate fantasy-- absolutely no money will be spent on me personally. I just want to demonstrate to all who might doubt the reality of my grip-- that yes, I really can just say "Do this" and it gets done. :)

I'm on gmail -- [email protected] . Contact me if you are willing LOSE $100 merely because I want you to. I could make you burn it if I wanted. In truth, I'm going to make you spend it on something somewhat altruistic. But the point is-- I say you lose money, and someone out there, one lucky soul, will get to lose money because of it. And yes, there is a limit-- I'm not a financial dominatrix by nature. So only one donation total to be accepted. I'm not holding a fundraiser, I'm demonstrating a point.

I'm posting this to my own forum at 6:10 pm. :)

S
( Watch, CR-- you can count the minutes.)

[Ford]

I'd just like to say...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kpAcanUJ ... re=related

[SophiaStafford]

How long did I have to wait? 4 minutes.
Congratulation to Wannabe Dr. Colin

[Evals]

Perhaps I misunderstood, but to me it would seem it's simply a matter of finding a certain type of person that meets a couple of requirements. First, the $100 must not be too much to part with for them. Second, they must want to impress you to take some time and throw that sum of money in the direction you've chosen. Out of all the readers, one would inevitably meet them.

[Laurie]

Yeah this really isn't impressive. Fin dommes do this kind of thing daily.

But I'm glad you enjoyed your... ability to financially control guys who like being financially controlled. Gosh how cool and clever you are.

[zadig]

The same can be said of much of power exchange -- Dominant women only are controlling men who are susceptible to dominant women. Are you saying that any dominant woman who has a man respond to a whim has demonstrated no control because his joy is following whims of dominant women? In a sense of course that's true, especially in the beginning of a relationship. But in another sense, it's a demonstration of a weakness (better word for that?) that allows an opening for a dominant women or person to gain more influence over time. Imho the intriguing bits are finding the lines between "She commanded him to do what he would have done anyways." and "His behavior is now truly changed due to her guidance." I think Ds relationships start with the former and as they progress move to the latter.

Be well,
zadig

[Laurie]

No, no.

I'm saying the boasting is ridiculous.

[slave alexander]

i don't get all the aggro towards Sophia Stafford to be honest ! I really enjoy reading Your posts and treads so thanks Sophia ! It is very nice to see You around Milovana again good luck with all your future endeavours, and hope You have had a splendid summer too. I also like the fact that i have to google some of the words You use ! Its good to learn & although i am not financially able to partake in such activities i don't feel the need to trash them

anyways not looking for a fight just trying to be nice have great sundays everybody

[SophiaStafford]

Oh no, by financial domme standards, this is run of the mill. $100 is, as I mentioned above, a token sum, intentionally incomparable to real professional financial dommes do.

My approach was very different. Instead of manipulation and mindgames, I just announced the desire. Four minutes later, my wish is their command.
What I love is how effortless this was. I offered no 'warm up' talk or interaction to "dr. colin" , nothing at all to help get into what one admirer calls 'sub space'-- that mental zone where obedience is so easy. I didn't do anything but show to my assembled real-life guests just how real my power is.

Sophia

[glasgowguy]

I don't really post here very much but I must say this thread caught my eye. To Sophia, don't you think this is less an exploitation of your power and more the power of exploitation? Like, you're addressing guys who in general totally get off on and love the idea of a hot woman telling them to do something. Basically you are filling a role for them, more than they are succumbing to your desires. It's well known in the femdom community that there are far many more submissive men out there for the joy of being submissive than there are for the joy of pleasing someone else in a submissive manner.

Basically Sophia you are providing these people with their kink, not they are providing you with cash.

The power is far from yours lady.

[Incubo]

Guys, I certainly understand what you're trying to say, but seriously....you're trying to reason with the wrong person here.

Sophia has never understood the dynamic at play in a D/s relationship and she's quite happy in her ignorance. She's not going to change and no amount of reason is going to break through her already over inflated ego. She sees what she wants to see and surrounds herself only with people who will reinforce her preconceived notions. She's a complete narcissist, totally convinced of her own supposedly "inherent" superiority.

In other words....Save your breath. (or typing in this case)

[Ford]

Incubo is (a little harsh but) right on the button there, I'd say. Sophia you seem to have issues with this 'power' thing. Wanting power over people as much as you seem to - taking such an aggressively foreful stance with people - it isn't healthy. I guess I'm assuming a lot here - but it's very clear your fetish is messing you up. 'Owning you' maybe.

(Also I just realised my Youtube link didn't work! For the record it was a snide joke at the expense of the original post... seems less funny after I pretended to be caring just now...)

[xNikkix]

i don't get all the aggro towards Sophia Stafford to be honest ! I really enjoy reading Your posts and treads so thanks Sophia ! It is very nice to see You around Milovana again good luck with all your future endeavours, and hope You have had a splendid summer too. I also like the fact that i have to google some of the words You use ! Its good to learn & although i am not financially able to partake in such activities i don't feel the need to trash them

anyways not looking for a fight just trying to be nice have great sundays everybody

I'm actually going to go against the crowd and agree with this post. I think Sophia has some really interesting posts and I find it interesting that so many men will hurt themselves emotionally, financially and possibly physically for her. Although it's not that surprising a young attractive dominant woman can do that.

On the flip side this isn't that much of a demonstration without proof. I'm in no way doubting Sophia because I do believe it is that easy. It just could be more of a demonstration.

[slave alexander]

*buys xNikkix a champagne cocktail*